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[+] wrinkle2409@lemmy.cafe 83 points 7 months ago (50 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source hideshow 50 child comments replies: [–] village604@adultswim.fan 73 points 7 months ago* (18 children) Exactly. Same with faux bait stuff. I personally think it's gross so I don't consume it, but if everyone is a consenting adult and it stops people from consuming real CSAM I can't really support banning it. But the problem many people have with stuff like that is they assume the people consuming it will go on to do it to real people, which is the same argument they tried to use against violent video games. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 18 child comments replies: [–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago (14 children) It wouldn’t compel me to hurt people, but I definitely get more into kinks the more time I spend with them (to a point). Violence in media has never had a noticeable effect on me though. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 24 points 7 months ago* (13 children) Society would probably actually benefit from a non political purely objective science-based commission to review published data, make recommendations for new studies, and come up with an evidence-based recommendation to governments about whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. I haven't deep dived on this so maybe it's already well known among sociologists/psych pathologists. But the key is a trusted science-based policy. We did it for violent video games and found no correlation. Not at all obvious to me if that also holds for pederasty. Yeah I know, the trusted scientific commission is not going to happen permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 23 points 7 months ago (12 children) whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. It could but I doubt that it would. Pedophiles don't rape children - rapists do. Being both is rare. Having been born with attraction to children doesn't mean they automatically also lack a moral compas and self-control. Most of them know it's wrong and never offend. The vast majority of people in prison for child sexual abuse aren't pedophiles but just good old rapists. Kids simply make an easy target. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Most reformed pedophiles also get reformed before offense, so... permalink fedilink source parent [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago Kids simply make an easy target. This is the most relevant point I have seen to the current scene, so far. Also, boarding schools. permalink fedilink source parent [–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 7 months ago (9 children) aren't paedophiles? yes your honour, i fucked that kid but i didn't like it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (5 children) In Hungary, there was a case, where a father who raped his daughter as punishment used that defense. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 1 point 7 months ago (4 children) i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 9 points 7 months ago (1 child) Pedophilia doesn't describe behaviour but attraction. If a rapist is not exlusively attracted to children then they're by definition not a pedophile. I'm well aware that in everyday language that word is used interchangeably with child molester but those terms are not synonymous. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that permalink fedilink source parent [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 1 point 7 months ago Yeah that's a thing. CSA can happen as part of bullying, for example, or someone forced into it by a partner or because of circumstances like drug addiction or poverty. permalink fedilink source parent [–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 months ago A less obvious problem with AIGen CSAM is that the sheer volume of it could make it nearly impossible to track down actual cases of abused children. I am not particularly morally concerned with someone generating it — I don't think it directly harms any child and I'm not entirely convinced it harms the consumer. And if those were the only considerations, I'd say have at it (subject to further research because I don't think it is conclusive that it is harmless to the consumer, either). But if it means law enforcement agencies have to give up prosecuting pedo rings of actual abusers because they can't tell which images among the thousands are real, well that is real harm to real victims and that is enough to ban it. permalink fedilink source parent [–] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) Generated CSAM is banned. For the same reason, something like this should follow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 2 points 7 months ago The case for banning simulated CSAM produced with GenAI is that if the training data contains actual CSAM then it would be directly contributing to real children being hurt. Obviously generating those pictures doesn't further cause physical harm to anyone but someone has to already have been harmed in the past for that training data to exist in the first place. This however is not true with cartoons for example nor does it apply to sex dolls either. permalink fedilink source parent [–] zach@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 7 months ago (6 children) I believe the last time something like this came up, the argument was raised that it normalizes the behavior and leads to escalation, i.e. “they’re just illustrations” “it’s just a doll” to “I’m just taking photos” or “it’s just touching”, this time against actual victims permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] dustyData@lemmy.world 35 points 7 months ago* Slippery slope fallacy. We know that consumption of real CSAM might increase frustration and lead to pursuit of real crimes. However, we don't have the same level of evidence for illustrations or sex dolls. It's a massive blind side in the scientific literature. It's very hard to study. Despite this, the number one risk factor still remains unsupervised access to minors. Regardless of whether the abuser consumes abuse media or not. permalink fedilink source parent [–] RaoulDuke85@piefed.social 27 points 7 months ago (1 child) They said same sex marriage would lead to bestiality permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soup@lemmy.world -1 points 7 months ago Fake kids to real kids is very different than some crazy fucko thinking same-sex marriage would lead to fucking animals. Are you for real? permalink fedilink source parent [+] Feyd@programming.dev 10 points 7 months ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] 5too@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago* (1 child) To my knowledge, there is very little research at all - the programs that would look into whether this might protect or endanger children struggle to get funded, because it's icky. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 months ago And anyone looking into it immediately gets labeled as defending abusers. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ulterno@programming.dev 7 points 7 months ago They are making these legislations to steer people's focus away from the real CSA. Remember. CSAM is just the symptom. CSA being the actual cause. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 18 points 7 months ago (3 children) It's a moral panic - pure and simple. The same reason some countries want to ban cartoon/animated pictures where the fictional character looks too young. I guess the underlying assumption there is that it'll increase the number of people offending towards real children but I don't think there's any evidence to back that up. If it was up to me, the criteria would be whether an actual person is being hurt directly or as a consequence of. That would include real violence, real pictures and possibly also GenAI stuff if it's trained on real content. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev -1 points 7 months ago Reduction in real pictures being distributed is not a real indicator of reduction in CSA and CSE either. A simple anecdote to show it: How many pictures of Epstein with children are in distribution? How many for his clients? vs the actual lives he and his gang destroyed. The small timers are easier to catch and cull with traditional policing and internet restrictions/surveillance is going to do nothing to them in the face of what it will do to absolutely everyone else. As far as the company in the post goes, better of letting them sell in your country, so you can easily put their customers on a watchlist, rather than be unknown until they start harming real people. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -15 points 7 months ago (1 child) You're putting a disturbing amount of effort into advocating for childlike sex dolls, or cartoon CP. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Prox@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago This is a horrible take. What if providing access to these dolls actually decreases the likelihood that a buyer will offend against a real child? Would you be against the sale of said dolls then? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 5 points 7 months ago Hey if nothing else it gives you a decent idea of who to watch permalink fedilink source parent [–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 months ago (8 children) You have to draw the line somewhere, and personally I'm happy with childlike sex dolls being on the other side of that line same with AI generated CSAM, there doesn't need to be a victim for it to be disgusting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 53 points 7 months ago* Disgusting for sure but thats a really bad argument to make something illegal. It’s the same rhetoric used to ban queer sexualities. The generative ai is often based on real stuff and regularly ends up being deepfakes of real people who are affected, thats not victimless. permalink fedilink source parent [–] fallaciousBasis@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 child) Some disgusting things are quite legal. And have real victims. I'm not sure why you would focus on illegalizing something disgusting that's victimless. edit: Your reply is my first sentence but with unnecessary verbosity. My first sentence is not an argument it's a statement of fact. My second sentence is supporting that initial fact with another fact. I express why I'm not sure why you'd focus on the (il)legalization and then you reply into exactly that and don't seem to care anything at all about the victims. Sad. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -13 points 7 months ago "there are worse things that are legal" is a pretty terrible argument. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 22 points 7 months ago (4 children) there doesn’t need to be a victim for it to be disgusting. That's the main justification for banning homosexuality as well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] a comment that isn't shown here: deleted, from someone you've blocked, or on another page. view the thread from it replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 8 points 7 months ago Not a single person here is advocating for having sex with kids. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -10 points 7 months ago (1 child) Are you seriously comparing pedophilia with homosexuality? You seriously need to take a good look at your life dude. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 11 points 7 months ago Are you seriously going to dodge every single hole people have poked in your flawed reasoning by redirecting attention to the person themselves - questioning their moral purity or hidden motives? Because that's literally all you've done here so far. permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply) [–] AnotherUsername@lemmy.ml 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) In theory this is non-harmful. In practice this is part of a fantasy escalation ladder that leads bad places. Your actions are led by your thoughts, and you are the thoughts you feed. In reality it's a good thing to not feed thoughts of abusing children. I'd note that I'd be similarly uncomfortable with people buying hyper-realistic dolls to practice amateur torture on, but I'm ok with people buying silicone dolls to practice tattoo art and wound stitching on. The difference being intent, which is a line I'm equally unhappy with the government drawing. Someone slicing up a slab of silicone shaped like a baby because they have a desperate desire to hurt babies that they are actively feeding into is bad. Someone practicing stitching up silicone babies after injuries because they always wanted to be a doctor and never got the chance is healthier and fine. It's the "what are you feeding with this action?" Problem of governance. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 20 points 7 months ago This is 'videogsmes cause school shootings' logic. There are better arguments than this. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago If it's lifelike, I can understand it, because that's where I also draw the line when it comes to drawings and the likes. permalink fedilink source parent [+] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca -6 points 7 months ago* (1 child) Sex dolls are pedophile training tools, they only increase their desires to rape kids. But, blowup sex dolls have been a thing forever and legal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Furbag@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago Slippery Slope Fallacy. It's the same thing as saying Doom and Grand Theft Auto train school shooters, or marijuana is a gateway drug to hard substances. This is not me defending paedophiles, I'm just pointing out the flaw in the logic here. Nothing says that having access to these dolls increases the likelihood of them carrying out their desires on a real child, or that by not having access they would never take that step regardless. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Cypher@aussie.zone -8 points 7 months ago (1 child) https://people.com/man-jailed-risk-children-discovery-secret-sound-attic-11904272 The people interested in these dolls are serious risks to society. I would rather see every single one of them locked up than let a single child be harmed. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago I feel like this is the exact argument made against playing violent video games, especially having lived through the 90s. I'd rather see if there's any actual data supporting the assessment. permalink fedilink source parent [+] CovfefeKills@lemmy.world -24 points 7 months ago* (1 child) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] fluxx@mander.xyz 15 points 7 months ago Calm down dude, not everyone expressing an opinion is automatically a pedo. I also get enraged to a thought of a child getting hurt, but don't lose your brain. Like you could have argued that the doll is not where a pedo would stop, it would encourage him to move on, or that a doll like that existing is normalizing pedophilia, but instead you raged out. Censoring exchange of opinion does the opposite of preventing pedophilia. Instead, I'd be interested in a study that would explore whether having dolls/cartoons etc would do anything to decrease the number of child molestation in any meaningful way. If not - I'm on board for banning stuff like this. This argument against banning dolls, though not being particularly strong, does express some logic. Your comment actually does more harm than good by jumping the gun so hard, IMO. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] village604@adultswim.fan 73 points 7 months ago* (18 children) Exactly. Same with faux bait stuff. I personally think it's gross so I don't consume it, but if everyone is a consenting adult and it stops people from consuming real CSAM I can't really support banning it. But the problem many people have with stuff like that is they assume the people consuming it will go on to do it to real people, which is the same argument they tried to use against violent video games. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 18 child comments replies: [–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago (14 children) It wouldn’t compel me to hurt people, but I definitely get more into kinks the more time I spend with them (to a point). Violence in media has never had a noticeable effect on me though. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 24 points 7 months ago* (13 children) Society would probably actually benefit from a non political purely objective science-based commission to review published data, make recommendations for new studies, and come up with an evidence-based recommendation to governments about whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. I haven't deep dived on this so maybe it's already well known among sociologists/psych pathologists. But the key is a trusted science-based policy. We did it for violent video games and found no correlation. Not at all obvious to me if that also holds for pederasty. Yeah I know, the trusted scientific commission is not going to happen permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 23 points 7 months ago (12 children) whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. It could but I doubt that it would. Pedophiles don't rape children - rapists do. Being both is rare. Having been born with attraction to children doesn't mean they automatically also lack a moral compas and self-control. Most of them know it's wrong and never offend. The vast majority of people in prison for child sexual abuse aren't pedophiles but just good old rapists. Kids simply make an easy target. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Most reformed pedophiles also get reformed before offense, so... permalink fedilink source parent [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago Kids simply make an easy target. This is the most relevant point I have seen to the current scene, so far. Also, boarding schools. permalink fedilink source parent [–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 7 months ago (9 children) aren't paedophiles? yes your honour, i fucked that kid but i didn't like it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (5 children) In Hungary, there was a case, where a father who raped his daughter as punishment used that defense. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 1 point 7 months ago (4 children) i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 9 points 7 months ago (1 child) Pedophilia doesn't describe behaviour but attraction. If a rapist is not exlusively attracted to children then they're by definition not a pedophile. I'm well aware that in everyday language that word is used interchangeably with child molester but those terms are not synonymous. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that permalink fedilink source parent [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 1 point 7 months ago Yeah that's a thing. CSA can happen as part of bullying, for example, or someone forced into it by a partner or because of circumstances like drug addiction or poverty. permalink fedilink source parent [–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 months ago A less obvious problem with AIGen CSAM is that the sheer volume of it could make it nearly impossible to track down actual cases of abused children. I am not particularly morally concerned with someone generating it — I don't think it directly harms any child and I'm not entirely convinced it harms the consumer. And if those were the only considerations, I'd say have at it (subject to further research because I don't think it is conclusive that it is harmless to the consumer, either). But if it means law enforcement agencies have to give up prosecuting pedo rings of actual abusers because they can't tell which images among the thousands are real, well that is real harm to real victims and that is enough to ban it. permalink fedilink source parent [–] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) Generated CSAM is banned. For the same reason, something like this should follow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 2 points 7 months ago The case for banning simulated CSAM produced with GenAI is that if the training data contains actual CSAM then it would be directly contributing to real children being hurt. Obviously generating those pictures doesn't further cause physical harm to anyone but someone has to already have been harmed in the past for that training data to exist in the first place. This however is not true with cartoons for example nor does it apply to sex dolls either. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago (14 children) It wouldn’t compel me to hurt people, but I definitely get more into kinks the more time I spend with them (to a point). Violence in media has never had a noticeable effect on me though. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 24 points 7 months ago* (13 children) Society would probably actually benefit from a non political purely objective science-based commission to review published data, make recommendations for new studies, and come up with an evidence-based recommendation to governments about whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. I haven't deep dived on this so maybe it's already well known among sociologists/psych pathologists. But the key is a trusted science-based policy. We did it for violent video games and found no correlation. Not at all obvious to me if that also holds for pederasty. Yeah I know, the trusted scientific commission is not going to happen permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 23 points 7 months ago (12 children) whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. It could but I doubt that it would. Pedophiles don't rape children - rapists do. Being both is rare. Having been born with attraction to children doesn't mean they automatically also lack a moral compas and self-control. Most of them know it's wrong and never offend. The vast majority of people in prison for child sexual abuse aren't pedophiles but just good old rapists. Kids simply make an easy target. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Most reformed pedophiles also get reformed before offense, so... permalink fedilink source parent [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago Kids simply make an easy target. This is the most relevant point I have seen to the current scene, so far. Also, boarding schools. permalink fedilink source parent [–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 7 months ago (9 children) aren't paedophiles? yes your honour, i fucked that kid but i didn't like it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (5 children) In Hungary, there was a case, where a father who raped his daughter as punishment used that defense. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 1 point 7 months ago (4 children) i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 9 points 7 months ago (1 child) Pedophilia doesn't describe behaviour but attraction. If a rapist is not exlusively attracted to children then they're by definition not a pedophile. I'm well aware that in everyday language that word is used interchangeably with child molester but those terms are not synonymous. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that permalink fedilink source parent [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 1 point 7 months ago Yeah that's a thing. CSA can happen as part of bullying, for example, or someone forced into it by a partner or because of circumstances like drug addiction or poverty. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 24 points 7 months ago* (13 children) Society would probably actually benefit from a non political purely objective science-based commission to review published data, make recommendations for new studies, and come up with an evidence-based recommendation to governments about whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. I haven't deep dived on this so maybe it's already well known among sociologists/psych pathologists. But the key is a trusted science-based policy. We did it for violent video games and found no correlation. Not at all obvious to me if that also holds for pederasty. Yeah I know, the trusted scientific commission is not going to happen permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 23 points 7 months ago (12 children) whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. It could but I doubt that it would. Pedophiles don't rape children - rapists do. Being both is rare. Having been born with attraction to children doesn't mean they automatically also lack a moral compas and self-control. Most of them know it's wrong and never offend. The vast majority of people in prison for child sexual abuse aren't pedophiles but just good old rapists. Kids simply make an easy target. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Most reformed pedophiles also get reformed before offense, so... permalink fedilink source parent [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago Kids simply make an easy target. This is the most relevant point I have seen to the current scene, so far. Also, boarding schools. permalink fedilink source parent [–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 7 months ago (9 children) aren't paedophiles? yes your honour, i fucked that kid but i didn't like it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (5 children) In Hungary, there was a case, where a father who raped his daughter as punishment used that defense. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 1 point 7 months ago (4 children) i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 9 points 7 months ago (1 child) Pedophilia doesn't describe behaviour but attraction. If a rapist is not exlusively attracted to children then they're by definition not a pedophile. I'm well aware that in everyday language that word is used interchangeably with child molester but those terms are not synonymous. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that permalink fedilink source parent [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 1 point 7 months ago Yeah that's a thing. CSA can happen as part of bullying, for example, or someone forced into it by a partner or because of circumstances like drug addiction or poverty. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 23 points 7 months ago (12 children) whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation. It could but I doubt that it would. Pedophiles don't rape children - rapists do. Being both is rare. Having been born with attraction to children doesn't mean they automatically also lack a moral compas and self-control. Most of them know it's wrong and never offend. The vast majority of people in prison for child sexual abuse aren't pedophiles but just good old rapists. Kids simply make an easy target. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Most reformed pedophiles also get reformed before offense, so... permalink fedilink source parent [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago Kids simply make an easy target. This is the most relevant point I have seen to the current scene, so far. Also, boarding schools. permalink fedilink source parent [–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 7 months ago (9 children) aren't paedophiles? yes your honour, i fucked that kid but i didn't like it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (5 children) In Hungary, there was a case, where a father who raped his daughter as punishment used that defense. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 1 point 7 months ago (4 children) i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 9 points 7 months ago (1 child) Pedophilia doesn't describe behaviour but attraction. If a rapist is not exlusively attracted to children then they're by definition not a pedophile. I'm well aware that in everyday language that word is used interchangeably with child molester but those terms are not synonymous. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that permalink fedilink source parent [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 1 point 7 months ago Yeah that's a thing. CSA can happen as part of bullying, for example, or someone forced into it by a partner or because of circumstances like drug addiction or poverty. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago Most reformed pedophiles also get reformed before offense, so... permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago Kids simply make an easy target. This is the most relevant point I have seen to the current scene, so far. Also, boarding schools. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 7 months ago (9 children) aren't paedophiles? yes your honour, i fucked that kid but i didn't like it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 9 child comments replies: [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (5 children) In Hungary, there was a case, where a father who raped his daughter as punishment used that defense. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 1 point 7 months ago (4 children) i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 9 points 7 months ago (1 child) Pedophilia doesn't describe behaviour but attraction. If a rapist is not exlusively attracted to children then they're by definition not a pedophile. I'm well aware that in everyday language that word is used interchangeably with child molester but those terms are not synonymous. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that permalink fedilink source parent [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 1 point 7 months ago Yeah that's a thing. CSA can happen as part of bullying, for example, or someone forced into it by a partner or because of circumstances like drug addiction or poverty. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (5 children) In Hungary, there was a case, where a father who raped his daughter as punishment used that defense. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 1 point 7 months ago (4 children) i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] kip@piefed.zip 1 point 7 months ago (4 children) i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ulterno@programming.dev 3 points 7 months ago (2 children) I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile. He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender. Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 point 7 months ago thoughtcrime Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it. I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that? Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 9 points 7 months ago (1 child) Pedophilia doesn't describe behaviour but attraction. If a rapist is not exlusively attracted to children then they're by definition not a pedophile. I'm well aware that in everyday language that word is used interchangeably with child molester but those terms are not synonymous. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that permalink fedilink source parent
[–] kip@piefed.zip 2 points 7 months ago agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that permalink fedilink source parent
[–] frongt@lemmy.zip 1 point 7 months ago Yeah that's a thing. CSA can happen as part of bullying, for example, or someone forced into it by a partner or because of circumstances like drug addiction or poverty. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 months ago A less obvious problem with AIGen CSAM is that the sheer volume of it could make it nearly impossible to track down actual cases of abused children. I am not particularly morally concerned with someone generating it — I don't think it directly harms any child and I'm not entirely convinced it harms the consumer. And if those were the only considerations, I'd say have at it (subject to further research because I don't think it is conclusive that it is harmless to the consumer, either). But if it means law enforcement agencies have to give up prosecuting pedo rings of actual abusers because they can't tell which images among the thousands are real, well that is real harm to real victims and that is enough to ban it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) Generated CSAM is banned. For the same reason, something like this should follow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 2 points 7 months ago The case for banning simulated CSAM produced with GenAI is that if the training data contains actual CSAM then it would be directly contributing to real children being hurt. Obviously generating those pictures doesn't further cause physical harm to anyone but someone has to already have been harmed in the past for that training data to exist in the first place. This however is not true with cartoons for example nor does it apply to sex dolls either. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 2 points 7 months ago The case for banning simulated CSAM produced with GenAI is that if the training data contains actual CSAM then it would be directly contributing to real children being hurt. Obviously generating those pictures doesn't further cause physical harm to anyone but someone has to already have been harmed in the past for that training data to exist in the first place. This however is not true with cartoons for example nor does it apply to sex dolls either. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] zach@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 7 months ago (6 children) I believe the last time something like this came up, the argument was raised that it normalizes the behavior and leads to escalation, i.e. “they’re just illustrations” “it’s just a doll” to “I’m just taking photos” or “it’s just touching”, this time against actual victims permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] dustyData@lemmy.world 35 points 7 months ago* Slippery slope fallacy. We know that consumption of real CSAM might increase frustration and lead to pursuit of real crimes. However, we don't have the same level of evidence for illustrations or sex dolls. It's a massive blind side in the scientific literature. It's very hard to study. Despite this, the number one risk factor still remains unsupervised access to minors. Regardless of whether the abuser consumes abuse media or not. permalink fedilink source parent [–] RaoulDuke85@piefed.social 27 points 7 months ago (1 child) They said same sex marriage would lead to bestiality permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soup@lemmy.world -1 points 7 months ago Fake kids to real kids is very different than some crazy fucko thinking same-sex marriage would lead to fucking animals. Are you for real? permalink fedilink source parent [+] Feyd@programming.dev 10 points 7 months ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] 5too@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago* (1 child) To my knowledge, there is very little research at all - the programs that would look into whether this might protect or endanger children struggle to get funded, because it's icky. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 months ago And anyone looking into it immediately gets labeled as defending abusers. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 35 points 7 months ago* Slippery slope fallacy. We know that consumption of real CSAM might increase frustration and lead to pursuit of real crimes. However, we don't have the same level of evidence for illustrations or sex dolls. It's a massive blind side in the scientific literature. It's very hard to study. Despite this, the number one risk factor still remains unsupervised access to minors. Regardless of whether the abuser consumes abuse media or not. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] RaoulDuke85@piefed.social 27 points 7 months ago (1 child) They said same sex marriage would lead to bestiality permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soup@lemmy.world -1 points 7 months ago Fake kids to real kids is very different than some crazy fucko thinking same-sex marriage would lead to fucking animals. Are you for real? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Soup@lemmy.world -1 points 7 months ago Fake kids to real kids is very different than some crazy fucko thinking same-sex marriage would lead to fucking animals. Are you for real? permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Feyd@programming.dev 10 points 7 months ago (2 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] 5too@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago* (1 child) To my knowledge, there is very little research at all - the programs that would look into whether this might protect or endanger children struggle to get funded, because it's icky. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 months ago And anyone looking into it immediately gets labeled as defending abusers. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 5too@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago* (1 child) To my knowledge, there is very little research at all - the programs that would look into whether this might protect or endanger children struggle to get funded, because it's icky. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] frongt@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 months ago And anyone looking into it immediately gets labeled as defending abusers. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] frongt@lemmy.zip 3 points 7 months ago And anyone looking into it immediately gets labeled as defending abusers. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ulterno@programming.dev 7 points 7 months ago They are making these legislations to steer people's focus away from the real CSA. Remember. CSAM is just the symptom. CSA being the actual cause. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 18 points 7 months ago (3 children) It's a moral panic - pure and simple. The same reason some countries want to ban cartoon/animated pictures where the fictional character looks too young. I guess the underlying assumption there is that it'll increase the number of people offending towards real children but I don't think there's any evidence to back that up. If it was up to me, the criteria would be whether an actual person is being hurt directly or as a consequence of. That would include real violence, real pictures and possibly also GenAI stuff if it's trained on real content. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] ulterno@programming.dev -1 points 7 months ago Reduction in real pictures being distributed is not a real indicator of reduction in CSA and CSE either. A simple anecdote to show it: How many pictures of Epstein with children are in distribution? How many for his clients? vs the actual lives he and his gang destroyed. The small timers are easier to catch and cull with traditional policing and internet restrictions/surveillance is going to do nothing to them in the face of what it will do to absolutely everyone else. As far as the company in the post goes, better of letting them sell in your country, so you can easily put their customers on a watchlist, rather than be unknown until they start harming real people. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -15 points 7 months ago (1 child) You're putting a disturbing amount of effort into advocating for childlike sex dolls, or cartoon CP. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Prox@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago This is a horrible take. What if providing access to these dolls actually decreases the likelihood that a buyer will offend against a real child? Would you be against the sale of said dolls then? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ulterno@programming.dev -1 points 7 months ago Reduction in real pictures being distributed is not a real indicator of reduction in CSA and CSE either. A simple anecdote to show it: How many pictures of Epstein with children are in distribution? How many for his clients? vs the actual lives he and his gang destroyed. The small timers are easier to catch and cull with traditional policing and internet restrictions/surveillance is going to do nothing to them in the face of what it will do to absolutely everyone else. As far as the company in the post goes, better of letting them sell in your country, so you can easily put their customers on a watchlist, rather than be unknown until they start harming real people. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -15 points 7 months ago (1 child) You're putting a disturbing amount of effort into advocating for childlike sex dolls, or cartoon CP. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Prox@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago This is a horrible take. What if providing access to these dolls actually decreases the likelihood that a buyer will offend against a real child? Would you be against the sale of said dolls then? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Prox@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago This is a horrible take. What if providing access to these dolls actually decreases the likelihood that a buyer will offend against a real child? Would you be against the sale of said dolls then? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 5 points 7 months ago Hey if nothing else it gives you a decent idea of who to watch permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 months ago (8 children) You have to draw the line somewhere, and personally I'm happy with childlike sex dolls being on the other side of that line same with AI generated CSAM, there doesn't need to be a victim for it to be disgusting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 53 points 7 months ago* Disgusting for sure but thats a really bad argument to make something illegal. It’s the same rhetoric used to ban queer sexualities. The generative ai is often based on real stuff and regularly ends up being deepfakes of real people who are affected, thats not victimless. permalink fedilink source parent [–] fallaciousBasis@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 child) Some disgusting things are quite legal. And have real victims. I'm not sure why you would focus on illegalizing something disgusting that's victimless. edit: Your reply is my first sentence but with unnecessary verbosity. My first sentence is not an argument it's a statement of fact. My second sentence is supporting that initial fact with another fact. I express why I'm not sure why you'd focus on the (il)legalization and then you reply into exactly that and don't seem to care anything at all about the victims. Sad. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -13 points 7 months ago "there are worse things that are legal" is a pretty terrible argument. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 22 points 7 months ago (4 children) there doesn’t need to be a victim for it to be disgusting. That's the main justification for banning homosexuality as well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] a comment that isn't shown here: deleted, from someone you've blocked, or on another page. view the thread from it replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 8 points 7 months ago Not a single person here is advocating for having sex with kids. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -10 points 7 months ago (1 child) Are you seriously comparing pedophilia with homosexuality? You seriously need to take a good look at your life dude. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 11 points 7 months ago Are you seriously going to dodge every single hole people have poked in your flawed reasoning by redirecting attention to the person themselves - questioning their moral purity or hidden motives? Because that's literally all you've done here so far. permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply)
[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 53 points 7 months ago* Disgusting for sure but thats a really bad argument to make something illegal. It’s the same rhetoric used to ban queer sexualities. The generative ai is often based on real stuff and regularly ends up being deepfakes of real people who are affected, thats not victimless. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] fallaciousBasis@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 child) Some disgusting things are quite legal. And have real victims. I'm not sure why you would focus on illegalizing something disgusting that's victimless. edit: Your reply is my first sentence but with unnecessary verbosity. My first sentence is not an argument it's a statement of fact. My second sentence is supporting that initial fact with another fact. I express why I'm not sure why you'd focus on the (il)legalization and then you reply into exactly that and don't seem to care anything at all about the victims. Sad. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -13 points 7 months ago "there are worse things that are legal" is a pretty terrible argument. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -13 points 7 months ago "there are worse things that are legal" is a pretty terrible argument. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 22 points 7 months ago (4 children) there doesn’t need to be a victim for it to be disgusting. That's the main justification for banning homosexuality as well. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] a comment that isn't shown here: deleted, from someone you've blocked, or on another page. view the thread from it replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 8 points 7 months ago Not a single person here is advocating for having sex with kids. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -10 points 7 months ago (1 child) Are you seriously comparing pedophilia with homosexuality? You seriously need to take a good look at your life dude. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 11 points 7 months ago Are you seriously going to dodge every single hole people have poked in your flawed reasoning by redirecting attention to the person themselves - questioning their moral purity or hidden motives? Because that's literally all you've done here so far. permalink fedilink source parent load more comments (1 reply)
[–] a comment that isn't shown here: deleted, from someone you've blocked, or on another page. view the thread from it replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 8 points 7 months ago Not a single person here is advocating for having sex with kids. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 8 points 7 months ago Not a single person here is advocating for having sex with kids. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works -10 points 7 months ago (1 child) Are you seriously comparing pedophilia with homosexuality? You seriously need to take a good look at your life dude. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 11 points 7 months ago Are you seriously going to dodge every single hole people have poked in your flawed reasoning by redirecting attention to the person themselves - questioning their moral purity or hidden motives? Because that's literally all you've done here so far. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 11 points 7 months ago Are you seriously going to dodge every single hole people have poked in your flawed reasoning by redirecting attention to the person themselves - questioning their moral purity or hidden motives? Because that's literally all you've done here so far. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] AnotherUsername@lemmy.ml 2 points 7 months ago (1 child) In theory this is non-harmful. In practice this is part of a fantasy escalation ladder that leads bad places. Your actions are led by your thoughts, and you are the thoughts you feed. In reality it's a good thing to not feed thoughts of abusing children. I'd note that I'd be similarly uncomfortable with people buying hyper-realistic dolls to practice amateur torture on, but I'm ok with people buying silicone dolls to practice tattoo art and wound stitching on. The difference being intent, which is a line I'm equally unhappy with the government drawing. Someone slicing up a slab of silicone shaped like a baby because they have a desperate desire to hurt babies that they are actively feeding into is bad. Someone practicing stitching up silicone babies after injuries because they always wanted to be a doctor and never got the chance is healthier and fine. It's the "what are you feeding with this action?" Problem of governance. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 20 points 7 months ago This is 'videogsmes cause school shootings' logic. There are better arguments than this. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 20 points 7 months ago This is 'videogsmes cause school shootings' logic. There are better arguments than this. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 point 7 months ago If it's lifelike, I can understand it, because that's where I also draw the line when it comes to drawings and the likes. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca -6 points 7 months ago* (1 child) Sex dolls are pedophile training tools, they only increase their desires to rape kids. But, blowup sex dolls have been a thing forever and legal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Furbag@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago Slippery Slope Fallacy. It's the same thing as saying Doom and Grand Theft Auto train school shooters, or marijuana is a gateway drug to hard substances. This is not me defending paedophiles, I'm just pointing out the flaw in the logic here. Nothing says that having access to these dolls increases the likelihood of them carrying out their desires on a real child, or that by not having access they would never take that step regardless. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Furbag@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago Slippery Slope Fallacy. It's the same thing as saying Doom and Grand Theft Auto train school shooters, or marijuana is a gateway drug to hard substances. This is not me defending paedophiles, I'm just pointing out the flaw in the logic here. Nothing says that having access to these dolls increases the likelihood of them carrying out their desires on a real child, or that by not having access they would never take that step regardless. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Cypher@aussie.zone -8 points 7 months ago (1 child) https://people.com/man-jailed-risk-children-discovery-secret-sound-attic-11904272 The people interested in these dolls are serious risks to society. I would rather see every single one of them locked up than let a single child be harmed. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago I feel like this is the exact argument made against playing violent video games, especially having lived through the 90s. I'd rather see if there's any actual data supporting the assessment. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 10 points 7 months ago I feel like this is the exact argument made against playing violent video games, especially having lived through the 90s. I'd rather see if there's any actual data supporting the assessment. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] CovfefeKills@lemmy.world -24 points 7 months ago* (1 child) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] fluxx@mander.xyz 15 points 7 months ago Calm down dude, not everyone expressing an opinion is automatically a pedo. I also get enraged to a thought of a child getting hurt, but don't lose your brain. Like you could have argued that the doll is not where a pedo would stop, it would encourage him to move on, or that a doll like that existing is normalizing pedophilia, but instead you raged out. Censoring exchange of opinion does the opposite of preventing pedophilia. Instead, I'd be interested in a study that would explore whether having dolls/cartoons etc would do anything to decrease the number of child molestation in any meaningful way. If not - I'm on board for banning stuff like this. This argument against banning dolls, though not being particularly strong, does express some logic. Your comment actually does more harm than good by jumping the gun so hard, IMO. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] fluxx@mander.xyz 15 points 7 months ago Calm down dude, not everyone expressing an opinion is automatically a pedo. I also get enraged to a thought of a child getting hurt, but don't lose your brain. Like you could have argued that the doll is not where a pedo would stop, it would encourage him to move on, or that a doll like that existing is normalizing pedophilia, but instead you raged out. Censoring exchange of opinion does the opposite of preventing pedophilia. Instead, I'd be interested in a study that would explore whether having dolls/cartoons etc would do anything to decrease the number of child molestation in any meaningful way. If not - I'm on board for banning stuff like this. This argument against banning dolls, though not being particularly strong, does express some logic. Your comment actually does more harm than good by jumping the gun so hard, IMO. permalink fedilink source parent