I don't make it my fucking personality. I've been made fun of throughout my adulthood for not getting consistently laid. Don't gaslight me that it's all in my head and that I'm just making it up.
I'm consistently rejected by society. Not even in terms of sex. That's another problem, whenever I talk about being rejected by society people think I'm talking exclusively about sex. That's indicative of their perception of the term "society."
I don't call myself an incel. But when other people call me that, it's based in cruelty, vindictiveness, and a feeling of superiority. They enjoy having someone to talk down to because they're getting laid and someone else isn't. Stop acting like they're actually morally superior because they're well-adjusted, and that I deserve the hate because I'm bitter after a lifetime of ostracization.
People don't fucking like me, and it's as simple as that. It doesn't matter what I do, because people have disliked me my entire life. I haven't always been bitter, but there's a reason I am now. And it's not as simplistic as "because I don't get laid." I don't fucking care if I get laid or not. But if I get treated as subhuman for not getting laid, that I have a problem with. Yet what I raise a concern about it, people say I'm acting "entitled to sex," missing the point entirely and reducing it to a strawman.
It doesn't matter what I fucking do, people have never liked me and they never will. It only makes sense that I'm bitter. Stop acting like my bitterness came first. You don't even fucking know me. If I were to suddenly decide to be cheery, people still wouldn't like me. They wouldn't trust me either, because it would be obviously contrived.
Stop pretending I can simply choose not to be bitter.