[–] 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

Incus is designed to be a Hypervisor (e.g. like Proxmox / VMware). So it is fully intended to not be able to fuck around on the host system as you are supposed to create VMs and containers in which you can do that.

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  • [–] 12 points 3 weeks ago

    I can relate with that and it really sucks. So while I can't give any advice because I too am still in the 'trying to figure shit out' phase, I offer the only comfort I can give right now: We are not alone in this.❤️

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  • [–] 7 points 4 weeks ago

    Hard dislike, if you aren’t in company of actual queer folks (or do outnumber them massively).

    I get that especially straight women see it as a safe place (and I wish there were more of those) - but where there are straight women straight men usually follow - and at some point they outnumber "us". And now I do not feel welcome at the only gay bar in town - it is most of the time essentially a bar with some queer decoration.

    Some gay bars in the next bigger city do not allow women for this exact reason. Others enforce it via kinky attire dress code (e.g. leather, rubber, lycra, puppys, etc.) - but that can be annoying when you don’t have a specific kink for that dress code and this may not have the required outfit.

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    Weltschmerz (German: [ˈvɛltʃmɛɐ̯ts] ⓘ; literally "world-pain") is a literary concept describing the feeling experienced by an individual who believes that reality can never satisfy the expectations of the mind,[1][2] resulting in "a mood of weariness or sadness about life arising from the acute awareness of evil and suffering".

    as per Wikipedia.

    This thought just crossed my mind. Many artist which are renowned for their art and their depth of it have a story of pain behind it (e.g. Van Gogh, Beethoven, Hemmingway). If they would have used antidepressants (or not suffered physically) would they still have created their artworks they are known for?

    (The question came to my mind because I feel sensitive to (at least percieved) injustice and recently it feels the world got worse in that regard. I am thinking about getting therapy (in addition to therapy and an autism diagnosis). Assuming I'd get antideperessants and also assuming I wasn't too fucking burned out to have at least one creative hobby and also assuming the antidepressants reduce my "Weltschmerz" (and other issues) - would that potentially make me a worse artist as I can't channel this part of me into my works?)

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