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[–] 62 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (17 children)

A trans woman I know was quietly thrilled when she was out with her girlfriend and some bogan pieces of shit drove by and yelled "Lezzies!" from their car

Obviously pissed off, but any silver lining...

Edited to trans woman from transwoman because terminology is different in different places, and lemmy is still basically 'Murican

Don't punch an ally, people. If my original post made you think I'm one of the pricks, then you're playing into the hands of those would divide us to destroy us

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  • [–] 16 points 5 months ago (13 children)

    Ewwphoria

    Also, it's trans woman, not transwoman.

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  • [–] 17 points 5 months ago (12 children)

    Question if I may, what's the difference, besides spacing?

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  • [–] 16 points 5 months ago (11 children)

    I am wondering this too. I'd never type it as one word, but that's just BC I think its grammatically incorrect.

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  • [–] 18 points 5 months ago (10 children)

    @birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone and yourself, it's about the difference between nouns vs adjectives. Grammatically, transwoman is a single noun, while trans woman is an adjective and a noun. You might not have noticed the distinction, but your brain did. Trans women are women because the noun is the same. Transwomen aren't necessarily women, because the noun is different. Being a trans woman doesn't mean you're some other woman-like thing, it means you're a woman who happens to be trans. The grammar is important because it shapes your perception in ways you might not even notice as it's happening.

    I'm an anarcho-antirealist, which means I'll admit that our subjective consensus reality is constructed by the dominant culture. That's a racist, sexist, queerphobic, capitalist, statist culture. And it denigrates trans people in invisible ways, turning public perception against us, through our very language. Language shapes subjective reality. In order to have a free and equal society, we need to take back control of the means of perception. We need to understand and master the way language shapes subjective reality, and take the magic for ourselves. Share the magic with our fellow workers, so we can build an unreality together. That's a subjective world which doesn't call itself objective, doesn't call itself real. Instead, it welcomes change and reinterpretation to suit the needs of its people. We need to make perception a democracy, instead of the corporatocracy it is now.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    you could always just shut the fuck up

    Take your own advice

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  • [–] -1 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I don't value your opinion

    I wanted to make sure you understand that

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  • [–] 46 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Similar experience for my first time having they/them pronouns used IRL... I was mountain biking in full body armor, full face helmet, and goggles. Someone said to their kid, "let them go ahead, they'll be really fast," or something. I proceeded to hit 48km/h on singletrack, a speed I haven't replicated since. So I guess I was given a speed boost by the comment?

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  • [–] 25 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I was called racist in Lidl earlier.

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago

    Wait til someone tells you they find you they/them attractive, someone who isn't attracted to your birth assignment. I swear this happened to me over just two months ago now and I still haven't fully recovered. All I can think about now is how to get back to that place of peace and desire and validation.

    I want everyone to feel that, it's life-changing

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  • [–] 9 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Has anyone else never heard of "very vibe" before, or is it just me?

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    "they're ste- ...I didn't see shit"

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I know this a joke and everything but somewhat serious comment that this post triggered in my mind. Am I the only dude who gets called she/her folks catch me from behind cause of my hair? Like it's kinda stopped because of my current jacket, but c'mon I'm built like Thorkell the talls vertically challenged cousin from the Hebrides.

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