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[+] 118 points 5 months ago (20 children)
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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (11 children)

    Stupid question: are we talking about the penis of a transman? Is it actually generally bigger than the average cisman’s? I just assumed the surgery could not achieve that, but I don’t actually know anything about the surgery.

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  • [–] 13 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    Phalloplasty followed by medical tattooing can result in some spectacularly realistic (and decently sized) penii.

    The sugery is brutal though, don't go looking this up if you're not ready to see extreme gore.

    In summary though, flesh is taken from the forearm or the back of the thigh and grafted over (usually) a flexible rod (the other option is a flaccid inflatable, with the pump concealed in a bollock) on the mons pubis, to create the penis. Optionally plumbing can slso be linked up, so one can stand to piss, and balls can be inserted. Along with all that, surgically closing the vulva/vaginal canal is also an option too.

    I spent way too much time looking into this at one point. Things may have changed a bit since then when it come to phallo, but I doubt much.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    i have so many questions, like, some of my favorite memories are being traumatized walking in on my mother watching the public access surgery show. i want to talk shop with one of the surgeons basically some of the tools they can use are really cool. not osteo though, they just use hammers.

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    I know there are lots of different scenarios, but isn’t the meme referring to someone who has undergone phalloplasty, which I assume is most commonly someone assigned female at birth?

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    taking you at your word that you're being genuine, this meme is referring to the common situation where a cis man is fetishizing a trans woman while assuming she still has her default hardware (i.e. hasn't had bottom surgery) and asking inappropriate questions to her ("how big is it")

    you may direct further questions to me via DM; asking these questions in the context of this meme seems to be being received poorly, for understandable reasons, even if your intentions are genuinely to understand

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (2 children)

    You're literally doing the thing in the meme right now. I can't believe you're getting replies.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (1 child)

    I hope I haven’t offended anyone. I’m coming from a place of wanting to learn. I support trans rights.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    I’m just really sick of hearing cis people ask about trans people’s dicks. I’d almost rather if you asked chat gpt and got a hallucination. It does not matter if you are able to visualize what a trans persons dick looks like. There is just no way you’d ever need that information.

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  • [–] 36 points 5 months ago (6 children)

    i never gave a shit about my dick size (perhaps a sign?) but apparently vaginoplasty works better the bigger it is :/

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  • [–] 23 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    iirc, penile inversion vaginoplasty (which i think is the most common technique of vaginoplasty?) takes penile tissue to create a neovagina. so, the more penile tissue you have, the better your results are likely to be.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I feel the same way about circumcision as I do about surgery, sounds owchie owwie.

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  • Can phallo create a foreskin? If so, I wonder if there's ever been a peculiar Jewish trans man who got phallo, got it with a foreskin, and then went through with circumcision. Just the right Venn diagram of trans status and idiosyncratic religious beliefs.

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  • [–] 29 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Conservatives are obsessed about what's in other people's pants.

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  • [–] 18 points 5 months ago (21 children)

    NGL I always wonder how big it is too, it wouldn't make any difference if I wanted to fuck you or not, but I still wonder.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago (7 children)

    shewhgzgcgfgcua

    the question wasn't even directed at u!!!

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  • [–] 15 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Yes, but there might be lesbian size queens reading.

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    When I wonder stuff like that I end up saying "You know what, it's their business if they cut it or kept it"

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  • [–] 7 points 5 months ago

    Oh sure its none on my business at all which is why I never ask. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't wonder or I wouldn't look if offered.

    I feel like the only time it would be my business at all is if they were a romantic partner but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have to wonder if that were the case.

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  • [–] [S] 6 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    I honestly don't wonder, even if I'm interested in somebody. Am I weird?

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago* (2 children)

    Probably, everyone is weird. But why should you care? Maybe you're ACE, maybe you just don't give a fuck, maybe a billion other reasons. None of it matters if you are happy.

    (I hope you are happy)

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  • [–] 13 points 5 months ago

    Inaccurate, they usually say something way more gross, usually something that is very revealing about only them

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  • [–] 8 points 5 months ago

    Every fucking time

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago* (2 children)

    I used to game with this tgirl a lot. We were really close and the amount of people that would ask me about what was in her pants was annoying. Like no one would ask her directly, it was always me. I think people sometimes assumed we were together even though she had zero interest in me but that makes it even weirder.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (5 children)

    You know what they say about big hands.

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  • [–] 7 points 5 months ago* (3 children)

    That people with big hands have massive tits?

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  • [+] -26 points 5 months ago (16 children)
  • [–] 34 points 5 months ago (9 children)

    Note the red cap. Hateful chasers arent to be empathized with. Racists often find people of color attractive sexually. The amount of slave owners that sexually abused slaves is innumerable.

    Sexual attraction isn't a default compliment

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  • [–] -2 points 5 months ago* (8 children)

    Its a bit saying he'saying he's gonna jack off about you later tho

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  • [–] 26 points 5 months ago (7 children)

    Yes.... thats not a compliment in itself when they are being transphobic

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  • [–] 0 points 5 months ago (6 children)

    You're reply hostile to the idea of a joke at the expense of chuds

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  • [–] 22 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Where joke

    No really, please explain the joke.

    Someone telling me they want to jack off whole thinking about me, especially someone I don't know well, is nasty. Not in any way positive or complimentary.

    Chasers don't deserve any positive interaction.

    I also don't see any hostile reply, just someone trying to backdpeddal after their comment wasn't as funny when other people see it.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    This isnt a joke comic. This is the trans experience

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago*

    The comic is a joke is making fun of chasers. It's fine to make fun of chasers and laugh about the awful experiences we have.

    The person replied with a yourjokebutworse and people got mad because the delivery was so bad and there were no /j or /s indicators to make it clear it was even trying to be a joke.

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  • [–] 16 points 5 months ago

    "It" in this case being an actual human being. If he wanted to masturbate to the vague concept of a woman with a penis he could give her any size dick he fancies without being creepy and transphobic to real people.

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  • [–] 15 points 5 months ago* (3 children)

    Another part of maturity is letting others live their lives without confronting them on the street like that moron.

    (Or at the bathroom door. Trans people aren't out there with signs protesting cishets, calling them disgusting, or beating them up for existing.)

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    Can we admit privately that they're disgusting and their culture is a fucking Miyazaki swamp even if we're too polite to say

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    I'm cishet myself, mom and friend of trans people. And the answer is yes. But also, be careful because sometimes you don't know when "we" includes one of "them." I happen to agree anyway, but many don't.

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