It is a great plan. I recommend you do it in appropriate venues.

Bad venues:

• public bathrooms
• random street corner
• in an ATM line or in a bank.

Good venues:

• in checkout lines
• on public transportation
• at a bar

Start with people born before 1990.

They grew up with the idea of making small talk with strangers.

No, this sounds like a great idea. This is absolutely an area where practice makes perfect. Just don't get discouraged!

I tried making more small talk with strangers, almost all of the time the other person was receptive and it was lovely.

Every now and then, and this is maybe like 1 in 20, the other person didn't seem happy about it. That didn't inspire confidence, but I have kept going. Causing someone to have a slightly awkward experience is nothing to lose sleep over, it's just a part of life. Do it

I don't think this is a bad idea at all. Just be mindful of who you choose to speak to and where, like others here have pointed out.

Few thoughts about it

• people tend to be refractory when talked in public space (like park)
• I suggest finding a board game group, reading group and such
• or you could go to your local retirement home and ask to do volunteer work to alleviate elder’s loneliness

In my experience bar work well when they’re shows going on, venue tend to have to much noise to understand one another

Just remember, if the other person isn’t engaging, that’s usually not you. Usually people aren’t going to engage if they’re in a hurry or working on their shit (shopping, walking home, etc.)

Also start with jokes about the weather. Usually won’t offend anyone.

Had a sweet experience lately with this older guy who was talking about his experiences in the area as a young person, he didn't really stop walking, just slowed pace so it didn't feel like a tonne of pressure or threatening in the slightest.

It's a bit of an art. Good on you for getting out of your comfort zone.

I think you are headed in the right direction, and if you are excited to execute this plan then you should do it.

However, if you find that you aren't sticking to your plan, I suggest some modifications.

First, increase frequency to multiple times per day. To really make progress in your social skills, you need to build the habit and build up a lot of volume.

Second, decrease the difficulty. "Really pushing your comfort zone" feels like progress, because you have to push hard and you feel like you tried hard and were courageous. And I want to emphasize again - if you are consistently excited to go out and do this and you are meeting your goal, great! Keep doing what you are excited about. But for most people, this will end up like running a marathon by breaking it up into sprints. You try really hard and make some progress really fast, but then you get tired and burnt out and have to take a break before your next sprint. Most people, most of the time, find they make better progress in long term goals by applying a small, continuous amount of effort - running the marathon at a consistent, light jog.

So instead of making conversation with a random person in a random location, you could say "this week, I will have 100 conversations. Talking to the same person multiple times counts. Talking to friends counts. The interaction I have in the checkout line counts." Then you can look back at your week and say "wow, I really did talk to a lot of people, and none of the conversations were hard". And since you know that having the ability to strike up a conversation with a stranger is your eventual goal, but isn't an absolutely-must goal, you might simply see the opportunity to talk to a random stranger and take it, and find it to be easy in that particular moment as well. When working with things like social anxiety, taking the pressure off is often the key to making quick progress. Then, the next week, you can challenge yourself "I will talk to 100 people I've never talked to before." Then the next week "I will talk to 100 people I've never talked to before - service workers in their normal role at work don't count." Etc. Each week, you expand your comfort zone little by little, with every rep feeling easy peasy.

This can work if you're standing in line somewhere, like the grocery store for example.

I have a list of topics ranked in my head from least controversial to most. At the bottom, the weather, everyone has an opinion and it's rarely going to offend anyone.

I don't see an issue with it. I live in a city though were its not to uncommon to talk to someone in line or at a bus stop or such. At least I do it and folks have started up convos with me. Not all the time but not all that uncommon.

Man on the Street interviews are a great way to step out of your comfort zone and start talking to strangers. This is not stupid at all.

I'm with the consensus here, it's a great plan. It will challenge you without bothering anyone else. I read somewhere (can't remember where) that generally, people wildly overestimated how bothered others were by random conversations out in the world. Like your chances of hitting someone who will be receptive are better than you think.

As long as you leave them alone if they don't want to talk, great!