Calm before the storm..
A lot to think about from yesterday (and thank you all for the responses). The links that melba posted yesterday (peoples' experience w/ care giving) were eye opening, was up until 3am reading them.
I think I'm going to withdraw and tone it down a bit.
I will do food and the basics but the meltdowns are going to be largely ignored.
If bro and SIL and bub are coming down this w/e I will not be doing anything extra. I don't even care to ask if they are.
I suppose this is what emotional burn out is. Had it before w/ work but this is a different beast.




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