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[–] 103 points 7 months ago (2 children)

As they say, (willfull?) ignorance is bliss.

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  • [–] 91 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    I'd argue there's nothing normal about being a well-adjusted person in a terminally ill society.

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  • [–] 66 points 7 months ago* (3 children)

    Having empathy in this society run by psychopaths is depressing and anxiety-inducing indeed.

    It bleeds into everything in this whole place. You know when you're using something — a government system, a website, a support line, an application — and it feels like nobody thought about how shitty the experience would be for you? That's what it feels like to live in a society that has no empathy. The people that design these systems do not give a shit about how you'll feel being subjected to them, because they have no empathy and have never considered nor cared what your experience would be like.

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    I am a somewhat empathetic person.

    I was raised in a family of people that had no empathy.

    My grandmother met all of the criteria to be labeled as a sociopath, psychopath, something, and she raised her kids accordingly.

    So when I was a kid, like my little sister would grab my arm and rake her nails down my arm to just grate as much skin off as she could because she was upset over something.

    And I would complain, and I would be told that maybe I shouldn't have upset her.

    And also being a kid, sometimes I would cry.

    And my grandmother came to me and was like, you're bigger than her, why don't you just do something about this?, implying that I should physically beat my younger sister up.

    And I said, I do do something about it. I cry.

    She thought that was hilarious. She told that story as a joke any time I was brought up for the rest of her life.

    To me, when I see someone else crying because of something I did, that causes me emotional pain because I'm normal.

    So I was attempting to cause emotional pain, not on purpose, but because I was actually hurt, as punishment for the action that my psychopath sister, who was raised by my psychopath mother, who was raised by my psychopath grandmother, had taken.

    But the concept of feeling emotional pain as the consequence of your action choosing to hurt another person is and was so alien to the people in my family that it being explained to them comes across as humor.

    Needless to say, I don't associate with my family anymore. I have not talked to any person that I am blood related to in four months, and even that was just a quick text.

    People say I'm weird. Okay, I was raised by a very weird family in very weird circumstances, doing my best to be sane and normal in a weird situation.

    It's very much the same for being woke when opening your eyes to be woke today is like eating lunch in a room full of dead bodies.

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago* (1 child)

    People say I’m weird. Okay, I was raised by a very weird family in very weird circumstances, doing my best to be sane and normal in a weird situation.

    I feel for you. At least some members of my family are either psychopaths, have narcissistic personality disorder, or both. I think the comorbidity there is pretty common.

    The lifelong damage caused by being raised around sociopaths is real — as is the continuing damage from living in a country run by them.

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  • [–] 53 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time."

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  • [–] 42 points 7 months ago

    Life would be easier if I just believed that I am superior and that my president is good, too bad I have a brain 🙃

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  • [–] 40 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    If you aren’t at least a little bit anxious and depressed about the state of the world, you haven’t been paying attention.

    I also refuse to believe that all the racist, misogynist, bigoted snowflakes out there are living anxiety free, considering how quickly they blow up at the sight of a pronoun.

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  • [–] 13 points 7 months ago

    Yeah, they seem to be more afraid of shit they made up than anybody else.

    Like part of the reason small town conservative types don’t like the ideas of cities is because they’re scared of being mugged.

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  • [–] 33 points 7 months ago

    To paraphrase George Bernard Shaw, the fact that a MAGA racist is happier than a woke person is no more to the point than the fact that a drunken man is happier than a sober one. The happiness of credulity is a cheap and dangerous quality of happiness, and by no means a necessity of life.

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  • [–] 33 points 7 months ago

    Breaking: people with empathy affected by other people's suffering.

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  • [–] 29 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    Fucking accurate.

    The only time I've seen racists sad is when Trump didn't kill enough immigrants fast enough for their liking.

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  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago*

    They put ICE in the airports, they’re sending them to polling places, they bought the voting machines. Soon there will be a critical mass of people who have nothing left to lose. A Constitutional crisis and a confrontation between the civilian population and the fascist uniparty regime like nothing we’ve ever seen in modern times is imminent.

    Don’t forget, this is a bipartisan effort that has been planned continuously for decades, with constant escalation. It’s kind of funny that Trump fucked up a war the MIC has been planning for that long, I dare say fortuitous for all parties, but we can’t lose track of the fact that the Democrats are running “block tackle” for republicans on the war powers resolution, and that ALL of the war mongering taking place has the ultimate goal of confronting China.

    The uniparty is real. The ratchet effect is real. The “deep state” IS real.

    See:

    https://resistir.info/livros/rebuilding_americas_defenses.pdf

    https://www.brookings.edu/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/06_iran_strategy.pdf

    https://archive.org/details/gov.gpo.fdsys.CHRG-111shrg52971

    https://press.armywarcollege.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?params=%2Fcontext%2Fmonographs%2Farticle%2F1420%2F&path_info=2395.pdf

    And all deliberately incompetent things Chuck Schumer, Hakeem Jeffries, et al have been saying. Fucking traitors.

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago

    I haven't listened to Knowledge Fight for a while because I'm watching my own mental health a bit, but ol AJ has never sounded actually happy for more than an episode or two. Hatred like they have sounds like they sleep well, but they're fucking miserable too. J.K. Rowling could shut up and just enjoy being rich, but she still has to find someone to hate and hurt. You wouldn't really hear about a happy person.

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  • [–] 29 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Honestly, I am pretty happy as a woke person.

    The trick is to watch less news and do more things to actually change anything.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    I'm part of a mutual aid group that delivers groceries to people every 2 weeks.

    We sometimes get urgent requests on off-dates.

    I don't think I can explain how satisfying(?), motivating(?) it was to randomly get off work one evening last week with instructions to buy $50 worth of groceries for someone I'd never met and to drop it off.

    To be part of someone finding relief in a terrible situation.

    The hardest part was honestly finding a group with flexible opportunities that I could contribute to regularly. Most organizations that ask for volunteers often want business-hour availability, and 6+ mo commitment - ie, good for retirees.

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  • Yep, (social) media is optimized in fueling your emotions, and well the strongest emotions are negative, so it's mostly optimized towards that.

    Avoiding this, doing something more healthy leads to a better mental (and likely physical as it's connected) health IMO/IME.

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  • [–] 27 points 7 months ago

    My woke ass actually feels empathy for others, so of course I am depressed watching them get disappeared.

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  • [–] 27 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Rather be unhappy than live in fear.

    Which is what the asleep people have.

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  • [–] 27 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    This just in, ignorance is still bliss

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  • [–] 24 points 7 months ago

    It's probably 300 times harder to be depressed and anxious when you are braindead, so this tracks.

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  • [–] 133 points 7 months ago (11 children)

    No shit. it's really depressing seeing all of those filthy pedophiles and nazis getting sexually aroused by dead kids.

    and even more depressing watching 2/3rds of Americans refusing to deal with 80 million terrorists in America.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Eighty million terrorists? Think I finally get what "blue maga" means x(

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  • [–] -3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    let me guess. you believe in a simple concept: being a bystander is better than resisting fascists. and you love letting MAGA bang your wife and daughter.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago

    I believe you that you, personally, in this moment, are acting exactly like the worst red hat pricks. And that just like them you're acting against your own interests, making your life (and everyone's you touch) just a little bit worse. Because just like them you're a useful idiot. Keep your words out of my mouth.

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  • [+] -11 points 7 months ago* (7 children)

    Everyone who shows up to wave a sign at one or two No Kings parades as the extent of their “resistance” is a MAGA enabler as far as I’m concerned.

    Start fighting or stay the fuck home, you virtue-signaling clowns.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    Everyone who doesnt personally assassinate Trump is a 100% MAGA enabler and should kill themselves immediately.

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  • [–] 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Trump’s a symptom.

    There’s plenty of MAGA trash in need of violence. Anyone not throwing punches is, yes, an enabler.

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  • [–] 21 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 child)

    It was maybe a month or two ago that an article showed that studies like these - all usually done as surveys - are highly susceptible to changes in input from users, just by word choice. In their example, they showed that if you use terms like 'mental health' while surveying people, a discrepancy emerges between non-conservatives and conservatives. This discrepancy disappears when you instead ask other questions, such as ones about sleep, worries , and fears.

    So I don't really know if I overall trust the data on happiness overall.

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    [–] 17 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    jokes on you guys I've already moved on to woke 2 and my mental health is great gayroller-2000

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  • [–] 24 points 7 months ago* (6 children)

    Most of the MAGA sphere spends all day watching all the things the news people tell them to be afraid of. I don't buy this for a second.

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  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago

    Yes, it has to be quite nice and comforting to be stupid. I can only imagine...

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    I too am happiest when I'm asleep.

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    [–] 8 points 7 months ago

    I couldn’t take current events anymore and now I’m in therapy haha long overdue really.

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago

    You might come to that conclusion: if you associate wokeness with empathy then it makes sense to think that such people are emotionally influenced by all the shit in the world and therefor must feel worse than those who don't have such a burden. All other things being equal, that would probably be true; but it overlooks the fact that the proudly antiwoke are fucking miserable.

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    That's why you also need a cat

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    [–] 4 points 7 months ago

    I wouldn't call myself woke and I'm not happy. This is NONSENSE!

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    Hmmm, how about that. People who pay attention to what's going on around them are less happy then the blissfully ignorant? Wow, someone should look into this and find out why?

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    Idk I feel pretty fine not giving a fuck what other people do

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    & those with the MarALago Mind Virus? Do tell!

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    You have to be racist to be happy! Obviously

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    I'm not sure to which extend this is true but this might be correlation. I guess MAGA people are more often privileged while marginalized people are more often woke and due to their marginalization they are depressed

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago*

    It's actually even simpler than that.

    The world, and life itself, is complicated and messy in 2026, and an awareness of it and the constant, always on vigilance of keeping up with all of the moral responsibility of trying to build a life that allows you to look yourself in the mirror every day in a world built to usher everyone into maintaining exploitative systems is draining and crushing.

    If you don't have to do that because you're either ignorant of the machinery you're part of, or don't care, you just get to go about your life.

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  • [+] -3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)
  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    people openly supporting nazi’s are indeed simply shitbags

     and yes non shitbags are sad to see people suffer, that is called empathy, it is only confusing to the shitbag party in the US because they generally lack said empathy 

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    [–] 0 points 7 months ago

    Yay. Politics

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