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[–] 33 points 10 months ago (2 children)
  • [–] 29 points 10 months ago (9 children)

    I could never imaging referring to someone by a porn category, that's just gross.

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  • [–] 24 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    I tried to come up with a clever response, but I don't know porn categories and have to read into it first. Give me some time please.

    Irony aside, yeah. Don't do that.


    OK, I checked. The three that fit best are funny, German and solo male.

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago* (2 children)

    Nothing, but being a German I think the porn category describes me. I have no clue what's behind that category, but the label fits.

    Knowing the stereotypes, it's probably dirndl, sausage and beer.

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  • [–] 20 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Never heard of "t-girl" before. 

    Does the term have history? I get that it is offensive, I'm just missing the why.

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  • [–] 36 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (4 children)

    I have the same visceral reaction when people refer to trans women as "a trans" or "a transwoman", same goes for trans men

    I do, however, love "doll"

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  • [–] [S] 12 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    I get that. I wouldn't mind "doll" as just an old timey word for women in general, but as a word for trans women it doesn't feel right.

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  • [–] 16 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    I'm only familiar with 'doll' in the crime noir sense. While it has very misogynist connotations, I don't see it as being among the worst.

    Point being, I know I'm missing something, but don't know what.

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  • [–] [S] 14 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    There's been a bit of a catchphrase that certain allies use to signal their support: "Protect the dolls." Apparently "doll" was once used to refer to trans women, which is all fine and dandy for people that like it. However, it is not a term I knew about before the catchphrase, nor is it one I particularly like. It comes off as kinda icky and objectifying to me.

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago

    Dolls are plastic facsimiles of "real" girls that are used as a child's plaything. Definitely grosses me out when people use it as a phrase specifically for trans women. It's a term that needlessly others us. Just call us women, if the situation calls for specifying that we're trans call us trans women.

    I don't really mind if it's being used as a term of endearment between women, but I'm not a fan of it coming from men or being used as a trans-specific term.

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  • [–] 15 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    I prefer girl or that bitch over there

    But I am about as neutral to tgirl as I am trans girl because they are both terms that refer to the same thing although I can see why, the only one that I have that visceral a reaction to is the t slur that is also really common to describe us on those sites and being called a trans is almost as bad but not quite although I hate both quite a bit

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Seconded... if it's that other T-word we're both thinking of (there's a V in there too...) yeah, just... ick. 🤮 Such a dated, horrid word.

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago

    Weirdly I'm nonbinary and not a woman, but I don't mind being called a girl 🤷‍♀️

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    I don't care to call anyone something that they'd find offensive, but I'm kinda interested in being fed a bag of old hammers. Will they be cooked in some way to improve their texture and flavor? I've been good, I think I deserve a Hammer Meal.

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