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[–] 37 points 11 months ago (1 child)

The point of the meme is that we let chuds set the standards of behavior now?

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  • [–] 50 points 11 months ago (4 children)
  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    real shit, I'm super tired of the online gender war meta

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  • [–] 13 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I see a disproportionate amount of this being fueled by my trans sisters. Especially on lemmy.

    This is disappointing.

    Two wrongs do not a right make, ladies. We should be more conscious of gender because of our experience, and with that wisdom realizing isolating a gender does not help towards a goal of dismantling patriarchy.

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  • [–] 63 points 11 months ago (5 children)

    Don't you understand that straight rich white men have been the butt of all jokes for far too long?

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  • [–] 31 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    I need to know. I either severely misread your username by coincidence, or you've operated under a similar, but far more sinister one.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago

    I’ve had the other dude blocked for idk how long. Saw a meme recently that mentioned that person and the one above. I think(?) they’re different people? Unclear. Don’t keep up with profiles other than maybe ThePicardManeuver and PerfectDark

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  • [–] 27 points 11 months ago (19 children)

    I've seen those threads here

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  • [+] -28 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (16 children)

    Men suffering is objectively funny, though.

    Edit: lol

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  • [–] 20 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    Only when those men subscribe to and endorse a shitty worldview that causes pain to people around them. Men suffering because they're not getting the stupid advantage that have been historically granted to them but not others? Hilarious. Men suffering because society hasn't figured out a good blueprint for men to feel good in a positive and healthy way? Less hilarious

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago

    Men suffering because they’re not getting the stupid advantage that have been historically granted to them but not others? Hilarious.

    Historically, the vast, vast majority of men, and of women, haven't been granted any sort of advantage. Almost everyone was just as deeply in the shit as everyone else.

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  • [+] -22 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Nope, still funny. Not as morally satisfying, but still funny.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 child)

    Idk, I try real hard to remind others that Tanner, the Night Shift manager at the Circle K, is NOT the reason women are oppressed, and making him feel like he's the reason does nothing to support our equality cause.

    We genuinely do have to support men having space to air their issues with society/the world, and let them know that they're heard/understood.

    The patriarchy hurts everyone, including the dude who is told to swallow his feelings/frustrations and he is only allowed to be interested in sex/woodworking/hunting to be a "real man" and "accepted" by his bros.

    So like, maybe we could not laugh at men's struggles and still support ladies?

    Edit: Changed "head" to "heard"

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  • [+] -19 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

    I'm not saying he deserves to suffer; I'm saying it's funny when he does.

    I take their issues seriously. As seriously as I take anything. I just also find their pain funny.

    The patriarchy does hurt everyone, and its even funnier when it hurts men! The patriarchy is like cops: it can't do good things, but it can do funny things. One could even say the intrinsic humor in mens' suffering is a privilege in the traditionally male dominated field of slapstick.

    I can help you up even if I laugh when you fall. I might, even! If it was bad enough for you to not hit on me after!

    I keep seeing people acting like humor is a moral hierarchal and value judgment, and that just makes me think you're deeply unfun unfunny and vile fucking people I sincerely hope to never meet.

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    “Jews suffering is objectively funny, though.” <= This is what you sound like.

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  • [+] -18 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

    Really? Everything I don't like is antisemitism?

    You scolding me is antisemitism. You're basically Hitler.

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  • [–] 16 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    You swung and missed on the point so hard, you hit yourself with the bat.

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  • [+] -16 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    Yeah I'm not gonna listen to Hitler.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    Okay so you're either a bot or so chronically online I don't have words.

    You joined less than 2 months ago and have over 2.3k comments?

    At this point I hope you're a bot because the alternative is wild. And sure Lemmy is a far better space to spend online time in than reddit or facebook, but like... Damn.

    All this to say: if you are a real person, your comment here is textbook definition of separated from reality and stuck in dopamine loops online.

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  • [–] 26 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Muh suicide rates. Why does nobody show me the compassion I refuse to show other men or women?

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  • [–] 14 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I've definitely seen a Femcel that looks a lot closer to an incel. Hates other women who sleep around and "don't value their bodies". Also hates how "modern protesters" are just annoying. That sort of thing.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago

    The worst is when these people are called out, and the response is "it's just a joke, bruh." But only if they get called out.

    Cowards.

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago (7 children)

    Replacing the right character with a caricature of a conservative or MAGA and this could be very funny, but implying all men like this is a little hurtful :'(

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  • [–] 17 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    The set-up clearly indicates that this is specifically about the type of men who would belittle gays, minorities, and women. If you’re not that type of man, then you’re not in the picture.

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  • [–] 13 points 11 months ago

    That's not entirely true, all men are in the bottom left generalization. What is bad is toxic masculinity and oppressive patriarchy, "men bad" is just as problematic a generalization as the top three.

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    [–] 2 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Escaping from reddit and X ragebait just to get more on lemmy. Fuck it...

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  • [+] -16 points 11 months ago (13 children)

    If you wanna be progressive, maybe don't use ableist wojaks

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago* (4 children)

    It’s bigoted shit from 4chan, that’s origins are it being used to mock “low intelligence” or those with mental disabilities.

    We can do better.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

    caring about ableism might start with lack of alt text

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  • [–] 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

    I think it's a bit overboard to say a caricature of someone with a crescent-moon-shaped head is a representative of a real group of people.

    Is the one with a tricycle for a brain ableist too?

    FWIW I would completely agree if they were drawn to look like they had downs syndrome or some other visual identifier of real people.

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  • [–] 0 points 11 months ago* (2 children)

    It's an integral part of a family of a very specific set of wojaks, it doesn't exist in a vacuum, look it up...

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  • [+] -16 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    Most of the people in forums like this are straight white guys. Of course we feel attacked, especially when we're not accustomed to it. Did anyone expect a different reaction?

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  • [–] 17 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Actually, why, is there a stat on who is using threadiverse, or is it an assumption?

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  • [–] -2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Checking to see how many hours ago I commented "men ☕" on another post....

    It was precisely right before you made this post. Coincidence? Hmmm

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