interesting how the DDR is visible
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This map makes me uncomfortable. It looks like Neo-Pangaea is coming together.
Ah yes, the very reliable scale between known extremes "Not Common" and "Very Common"
Given that Scandinavia is lower than elsewhere in Europe, I’m wondering if that’s an artefact of them looking at absolute numbers rather than opposite-/same-sex friendship ratios, and Scandinavians being the stereotypical depressive introverts
What is going on, culturally, in the blue countries?
seems maybe degree of religion affecting policy?
Largely secular France and England have fewer intersex Facebook relationships than heavily Catholic Mexico and Brazil, because Catholics are encouraging it?
It's most likely that friendships are built in bigger groups, and that's most likely containing people of all genders.
You befriend one person and that person takes you to a wider social group fast.
Yeah, my guess is that this an an artifact of cultures which are more traditional in that intergenerational friendships are more common.
Eg, in England, you friend your friends on facebook, then begrudgingly accept your mom's facebook request.
I Mexico, you accept friend requests from your mom's friend, Gloria, your dad's coworker Edgardo, and of course, your entire extended family tree. In these more religiously/sexually conservative countries, the actual people people spend their time with and relate to are probably more gender-matched than in more secular, liberal nations. But this effect is washed out by the sheer number of loose connections that any given person has.
Secular England is more misogynistic than catholic Mexico idk about France
Probably more sexual repression results in hornier friend requests.
I wonder if the study and data controlled for people's parents being on Facebook.
Just saying gay people would skew this result
Edit: I should say: the freedom of gays to live their lifestyle, which means gays can create communities and build their friendships that way.
Me, an East German, pointing at West Germany:

It’s incredible in how many ways the division still shows up culturally 30 years later. Was there something in the GDR that fostered intersexual friendships?
I don't know, but my best guess is widely available child care even for very young children and full-time employment for both men and women being the norm. Much easier to be friends with the other sex if they're not stuck at home with the kids.
Not sure about the DDR but I know the Soviets had a slightly higher level of COED sports and whatnot. Also I think the Soviet scouts equivalent was also COED, if that bled into the DDR it's possible that wouldve had knock on effects up to now.
Also I'm using DDR because GDR sounds weird to me and I grew up around folks who used the German name for some fucken reason.
a shitty economy and living conditions that forced both sexes to work to survive. also a lack of income inequality.
there is kind of an inverse, in inequal societies there tends to be a greater separation of the sexes.
please consider choosing colorblind friendly colours :) the colorblind community says thank you.
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