Black Friday isn't even a thing in Europe, yet I've been seeing adverts for for almost a month now, with two week long "sales" to generously allow us not to miss out.
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I unfortunately am in the middle of a huge renovation for a new house I just bought 3 week ago. I guess I'm fucking up big time but I've had to buy quite a bit of stuff this week. My dryer broke, dishwasher shit out, heater went kaputs, I needed some lumber to keep my porch from caving in.
At least the only new thing I bought was the dishwasher because the panel to get it working would've cost me $200 since it's so old. Everything else has been fixed instead of replaced.
It used to be the time to buy TVs because they would get heavily discounted like 80% to make way for new stock. I got an xbox 360 for $50 on black friday. Kind of made sense, but I usually stayed home just to avoid the crowds unless I heard of a sweet deal.
I’m not super in touch with these things, but it feels like over the years the deals have gotten worse and worse. Now it’s like 10% off sales, or they mark stuff up 50% then give a price cut to balance it back to full price.
It’s bizarre to me people still get so invested in it. Like they have been wired to think “OK, time for the shopping day. We must go consume. Think of something to buy while I get my coat.” Maybe the deals are good but I’m just too disinterested to find out, idk.
The base price of TVs have gotten so cheap that in terms of absolute savings, even a true 50% discount wouldn't seem like a big deal.
30 years ago, when a big screen TV might cost the same as 3 months rent in a 3 bedroom apartment, getting 50% off was like getting 1.5 months rent. Now, when a big TV costs less than a quarter of a month's rent for a studio apartment, getting 50% off a TV is like getting 3 days rent.
Modern life is expensive because of housing, not because of stuff. Giving us better prices on stuff doesn't even help make this life more affordable.
I checked some TV prices here, just for fun and since I was in the city anyway. They doubled the price as compared to the regular online price and then put on a 50% discount.
About 70-90% of my days are "buy nothing" days.
Nobs
I bought ingredients to make succotash, but I'm sure as heck not getting any non-food items
I bought FO4 off GOG a couple of days ago, because I'm fucking tired of Steam breaking my game every few weeks with mandatory updates, I think it was on sale for black friday. If that doesn't count, then count me in.
Don't make it just a day, make it a way of life. Reject consumerism, a single day isn't enough.just
Do your part to damage their economy. Reduce consumption, fix what you can and look at reuse/refurbishment where possible. Saves you money and hurts their profits.
I like to buy the least I can every day. If the economy relied on my purchasing habits, it would collapse.
Funny enough, I just got off a cruise today and the bill was $10. Pretty close!!
Counterintuitively, I've become a bit of a Nothing fanboy. The phones are decent; the earbuds are decent; and the watches would be decent if it wasn't for the watch face that has the same surface area of a small eastern European country.
Genuinely though, love the idea of Buy Nothing day.
Buy what you need, when you need it, for who you need in your life. Including you.
Or not, I'm not the boss of you 😊
I'm torn though. At some point I am going to buy stuff I want or need. If I were to buy them at full price rather than on Black Friday, I am essentially being more of a consumer per money unit.
So yes, don't look at Black Friday deals and decide you need stuff you see on sale. First decide whether you need something, then go see if you can find a good deal and maybe buy it.
I think the idea is not to not buy anything for a day, it's more about redefining what we need and applying a little impulse control. If Black Friday is profitable, we need to make them keep the prices that way year round rather than applying huge markups to maximize profits.
A single day (or even week) strike will never work. People just buy double the day after. We need to identify specific companies to boycott until they concede, then move on to the next. As long as it takes. One by one until the job is done.
Sorry, I won't be able to participate this year.
Need to get groceries tomorrow.
I have observed Buy Nothing day(s) since the early 2000s. My personal philosophy is, this is a day set aside to meditate on the difference between want and need.
Do you need to queue up at 4pm on Thanksgiving night to fill your car with cut-rate b-stock imported consumer goods made specifically for $10 door buster sales? No. Fucking nobody does. Your family hates receiving gifts from you, because it's all bound for the landfill in a few months.
Do you need food? Yeah. And maybe the produce is all on sale today.
Think of the labor and the plastic and the waste before you participate in conspicuous consumption. Think of the fuel it takes to get from the factory to the port, across the seas, into a warehouse or a plane, just to be purchased and discarded after a day or a month or a year. This is one of the ways we're dooming ourselves as a species.
Like everything else, just do the best you can. If you need groceries or gas or medicine, go buy them. Meet your needs. If you want the big TV, and the price is right, do it. But think a bit about second hand goods, or working with what you have, or going without. Refurbishment sites exist, and a two year old item is functionally the same as a new one. Not much changes year over year. They just make you think it changes.
What are your needs today?


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