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[–] 110 points 1 year ago (1 child)

The only thing on my phone that's allowed to notify me are messaging apps, and even then, only for direct messages, not groups.

Social media, games, sites, and everything else can all fuck right off - you do not get to demand my attention unbidden, and if you misbehave you are going in the trash.

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  • [–] 49 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Notifications are a cognitohazard

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  • [–] 32 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I think most launchers (on Android) allow to hide these "dots"

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  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    The notification settings on iOS let you disable that entire feature. No badges, no banners, no dings, what happens when I open the Mail app after a week? IT’S A SURPRISE!

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Lack of fine settings :/

    I like the ability to have notifications (with or without sound) but no badge (or the opposite if someone likes it the other way)

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  • [–] 29 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    No one in my life understands this. I haaaaate having these notifications. The worst ones are those that can't be cleared.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Some sites have started sending them to you before you've even done anything!

    Never been to this site before? Don't worry, chat bubble in the upper corner already displaying a little red dot with a 5 in it. There's already an AI chatbot trying to offer help and discounts off on things and ... AUGH!

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    What's funny is those always make me immediately think the site is a scam of some sort even though they're everywhere. I get this feeling like I should leave the site as soon as I can

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    on android you can hide any of them, all from an app or just the category that annoys you. long press on the notification and tap the cog.

    notifications that can't be cleared have their place too, formerly apps needed that to be able to keep running in the background. but that still works if you hide that specific notification.
    but google shuffled that up in recent versions because people were complaining who didn't know notifications can be hidden permanently..

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  • [–] 27 points 1 year ago

    I tur off notificatuons for over 90% of that shit. Direct messages I need and I need to know when my daily chess moves are (duh).

    Nothing else compels me.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

    A friend of mine has more than 2000 unread mails, and he just left them there with that big fat number covering half of the icon. Like, bruh.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    yeah that's me, I don't care about inbox zero. I just read the subject line. If it is important i read the email if it's not i leave it. Not gonna waste time clearing my inbox. I look at my inbox like a couple of times a day, so the badge isn't that important for me. I could turn the badge off, but i just can't be bothered.

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  • [–] 44 points 1 year ago (6 children)
  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I just ignore them. At some point they lose any meaning whatsoever

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    That's nice for you, but the urgent feeling doesn't dissipate for some people.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I didn't expect my comment to be that controversial but I guess not everyone has the right decree and balance of stoicism, anxiety and procrastination to achieve perfection

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Uh, sure. For the record, I upvoted you to offset the downvotes others gave. I didn't feel like your comment was a downvotable one.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Sure, I didn't want to accuse you or something. I just wanted it to be a separate comment (and not just an edit) and didn't want to answer myself. In fact I'm not even mad at the downvotes. I just think it's funny how controversial it got. It's not downvoted into oblivion, it got quite a balance of up and downvotes. So I guess I speak to the hearts of some and the envy of others.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    I do too, but I've started missing way too many of the notifications that I actually want to register receiving. Recently I've taken a round of actually enable/disable notifications on things so that I'll be better at filtering out and catching the stuff I want to pay attention to.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago

    No Google Play Services, no more marketing notifications. Bliss and privacy.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    I dont get that

    Aside from the 10 notifications I have 24/7 on silent because otherwise most of my Apps couldnt run (frickin google making it so you need to use their system for an app to run in the background) I only get notifications if someone calls me, or texts me via telegram, or if I need to install Updates from Obtainium or Fdroid

    Lemmy? No notifications. E1547? No. Antennapod? Kinda, I set it on auto download so I have something to listen to. Newpipe also only refreshes when I want it to, I don't need to have the β€žPyro raging at Inflation joke” fed to me every day.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Can't they be disabled? I haven't got an iphone, but these would piss me off a lot

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    These went away on my MILs phone (I think after an update), so she was freaking out that she couldn't tell when someone had texted her. Other than the notification bar and chime when they were received, that is.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    I rarely ever see these. What do people do for this to happen?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I also only allow notifications like this on select apps. Direct messaging, mostly. I let Bandcamp tell me about new albums and the library tell me about when my books are available/due, but that's about it.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I turn that off

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    Whoa, does that flower have only one fossy app (Wiki) on their phone??

    Perhaps lawnmowering you lawn isn't always that bad ... (it is tho)

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    It's an iPhone, I'm not sure how much of a thing those are. I know for the handful of specific apps that I've bothered to check for my significant other, I've always come up empty handed.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    ... being bothered by dots is the same as being bothered by calls or knocks on your door.

    Just mediate until your brainhole develops an indiscriminate ignore all toggle.

    /j

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    That's how I filter our ads. I turn my ears off and refuse to look at the screen. Moreover, if I unfortunately do hear what the ad is about, it goes into a little box of "never touch these products ever again in the future."

    If you advertise to me, it only signals me to avoid you like the plague, if anything at all.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    On android all my life and never had red dots. I guess this is on iPhones?

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