yayyyy! I’m so happy for you :3
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This ends terribly for everyone I knew who did this.
Hell yeah, similar experience for me recently and it's amazing.
Me too! I'm happy for you! I'm counting down the days until her next visit, since we can only see each other every month or so.
Her being online is plenty for me. Them taking me on IRL would probably break me in minutes... though I am corious about irl stuff too.. Happy for you nonetheless though!
lol where do you get a dom?
Kink club/party/con, feeld, fetlife. Subcultures like furry (yay) and rationalism (boo) also have a ton of overlap.
Kink cons don't exist, stop lying to me, lol. We're not on this planet you hail from. You may as well be saying, "yeah, just go to your local dom adoption center an pick out one you like, that simple."
You what?
Here's a place to start looking, if you want it you can find it.
There are people who don't know about kink cons? Next you're gonna say there aren't monthly bdsm meetups in basically any metro area
That genuinely sounds satirical to me.
It's not, there's a website called fetlife where you can check the events tab and you'll see a bunch of stuff and even filter it to your area. You'll likely find play parties (basically an open to the public event where people can do bdsm), munches (bunch of kinky people grab dinner, usually considered the best place to start), bar meetups, etc. I used to run a monthly event myself and I met my wife at a dungeon.
Assuming you aren't rural or in a small town in the middle of nowhere (country dependent) you likely have at least one localish bar that the kink community knows is a good place to meet up, if not even an outright leather bar.
Had a friend who was a sub, he found her through some petplay discord servers I guess(not my world). She once involved me in a task for that little puppy and we just kept contact cause we liked talking to each other. A few days ago I had some issues I wanted to talk to her about which were kink related... Then she asked if I d want her to dom me and I thought about it for a few days and here we are
That's almost one-for-one the story of how two of my friends got cyberabused.
- Step 1: Wife someone up
- Step 2: Ask her nicely to domme you
- Step 3: This time, really beg for it. Make her feel like a goddess.
- Step 4: Get dommed
I found mine through the local kink community where I lived at the time
I somehow stumbled upon a true pro. Like actually. Idk how i got lucky like this.
Congrats a good domme is hard to find but awesome
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