He was into her before he knew, so it's probably fine
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That happened to me, ended differently.
And no I didn't consent to be touched, fuck them and people harassing. Probably will not go clubbing again unless I'm in a safe group.
Fuck...I'm so sorry to hear that 🫂
That's neither funny nor okay to do, to anyone for any reason. Fuck those people
I hope you're doing better...🩵
And that's why I do t go to clubs.
I'm horrible at reading body language directed at me, so I either end up doing something inappropriate because I misread the situation, or, the much more likely scenario is, I end up doing nothing when I was given the (not so) clear signal...
I wonder why the fuck we cannot just talk, we ain't birds who have to make signals
Most of the clubs I've been to I can't even hear myself think, let alone have a conversation.
Because people aren't comfortable talking. And it does make it awkward when e.g. you're dancing with someone. "hey can I touch your waist" etc.
How solid of a BJ was that, where you get so tired you fall asleep immediately after?
Punnily, it must have been pretty hard.
Firstly, everything else aside, OOP's guy sucks purely on the basis of him putting his hands on someone unbidden. That aside...
OOP seems to peg the guy as a chaser on the basis that he got more into it after learning she was trans, though maybe there's more to it based on something that wasn't mentioned. The prospect of a date doesn't rule that out, because the prototypical chaser behaviour is a man who'll string a trans woman along with a "relationship" that he never lets anyone else find out about.
I think you definitely shouldn't let anyone "use" you in that way (not specific to chasers), but at the same time, if all you want is sex and all they want is sex and everyone is clear about that, then why not?
In the story, the guy isn't looking for an "experience with a trans", but accepts that a trans woman is a woman. He doesn't reject her after his physical satisfaction. And him and the narator seem to agree on the start of the relationship... Why would it be wrong?
Help me out, what are chasers?
People who fetishize a minority group to the extent that they don't care about the person as much as they care that the person belongs to the minority group.
Damn I've been doing it wrong this whole time then?! Here I've been peeing instead
Wait wait wait, don't drink the pee!
But the AI told me it's okay (/s just in case)
I can't wait until AI cultists start fighting each other to find out which is the true superintelligence.
The Pee Wars between them will be legendary.
chas·er 1 (chā′sər)
n.
- One that chases or pursues another: a chaser of criminals.
- A drink, as of beer or water, taken after hard liquor.
chas·er 2 (chā′sər)
n.
- One who decorates metal by engraving or embossing.
- A steel tool for cutting or finishing screw threads.
I'm not this easy until it's after midnight, I've had multiple drinks, and nobody else has shown any interest in me T.T
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