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[–] 66 points 1 month ago (1 child)

when you see people argue that trans women should be in men's prisons, understand that this is what they argue in favor of.

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  • [–] 51 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    2017 study by the Sylvia Rivera Law Project found that 75% of trans women respondents in New York state prisons were subjected to sexual violence by a correctional officer

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  • [–] 49 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    Its my fault for coming to lemmy hoping for some mindless escapism. I get gut punched each time I open my feed. My understanding of the world shows me a bleaker, more disgusting image every time. I appreciate you sharing this and opening my eyes, thanks.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago

    You either gotta use an app/front-end with filters, or accept having your mind expanded, be it for good or ill (or both, since one can lead to the other).

    I prefer the second option 99/100, but I do have an app that's heavily filtered for when I just can't bear the ugliness of the world for a few hours.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Knowing the truth is important. So is staying strong enough to fight. Part of staying strong enough to fight is tending to your emotional well-being.

    Please take breaks when you need. Friendship and sunsets and butterflies still exist. Use them as often as you can🫂

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  • [–] -4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Go to imgur, 9gag, krazframe, 4chan, memify, etc

    Lemmy is like reddit- an unhealthy mix of trolls and legit discussions

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  • [–] 40 points 1 month ago

    Jesus Fucking Christ.

    I feel sick. :(

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  • [–] 36 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    sodomy in US prisons is a JOKE to Americans.

    ever hear one of them say: 'dont drop the soap' like its something to laugh about?

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  • [–] 36 points 1 month ago

    Every conservative you have ever met supports this. Every single one.

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  • [–] 36 points 1 month ago

    That’s insane. I don’t have it in me right now to look further into this. I’m sure there are plenty of testimonies and accounts that are terrible and difficult to read. I just can’t. The spectre of that being part of the deal for our incarcerated sisters makes me fear prison even more.

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  • [–] 35 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child)

    Rape is practically universal in US prisons. The problem is vastly underreported, we'll never know the true extent of it. It's not just inmates (of all kinds), the guards revel in it.

    ... and we have more prisoners than any other country, there are millions of inmates.

    Of course, we could make the guards wear cameras with every room being monitored, but I guess why bother? We're not going to charge them anyway.

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  • [–] 60 points 1 month ago (44 children)

    Fucking Hell americans. Why are you like this?

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I'm convinced they put something in the water and/or air and/or food to make some of us greedy self centered seething pieces of shit. Unfortunately those are the people in power.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    i would say there's something to be said for the broad impacts idustrialized food has on the gut biome, and the gut biome's influence on persona. that's more of a critique of capitalistic tendancies though than a direct endorsement of any hypothesis that some central cabal intentionally poisons us.

    that said, if you told me nestle, nabisco, monsanto, and unilever do intentionally poison us to keep us fighting and themselves on top, i'd endorse that notion, too, and have put at least some thought into the possibility

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  • [–] 38 points 1 month ago (39 children)

    our prisons, mental institutions, and boarding schools are all reflective of the European patriarchal colonial system that composes the framework of the foundation of the united states. just as Phoenicia made a colony so huge it supplanted Phoenicia's empire in Carthage, so too has America shifted the center of the eurocentric settler colonial project. you ask why America is why it is, the answer is because Europeans were so sure of the righteousness and superiority of their civilizations that they traveled to this continent and raped, killed, and enslaved the societies they found here.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 month ago (13 children)

    Nah, Europe, Mexico and Canada all had the same influence but managed to avoid the prison/slavery complex with profit driven sexual torture, there's probably something else at work in the US

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  • [–] 32 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    this is a form of American Exceptionalism that ignores that Mexico and Canada both have legacies of prison/slavery complexes with profit driven sexual torture. Mexican people have reduced (perhaps even eliminated, i'm not an expert on current Mexican affairs) the presence of this influence through generations of education, healing, and resistance to imperialist tendencies coming into mesoamerica to extract everything of value. In Canada the scars of the provincial school system are still felt today with the last residential school having closed in 1997, 29 years ago. There are 34 year olds alive today who remember first hand the sexual violence they experienced at the hands of Canadian sponsored torture facilities. Canadian police continue the practice of driving indigenous women far away from the warmth of their homes, forcing them to walk through the cold, condemning them to death.

    There is nothing special that makes America more wrong than any other State. it is merely a coagulation of the worst tendencies present in all states concentrated by the capitalist necessity to extract everything of value from the land and people. The solution is for the people of the world, everywhere they are, to block the barricades until Sudan, Congo, Ukraine, Palestine, the Dakotas, and everywhere else the imperial tendencies of the global north torture, lynch, and enslave the people are free. America's torture is resistable just like the tortures conducted in Mexico and Canada.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Yeah but the US did it at a scale an order of magnitude greater. We have more prisoners than most of the world combined.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    absolutely. the extractive capitalist imperial project found safe haven in our governments hall's (more arguably, founded and defined our government since the origins of the US are an alliance of Virginia's purely capitalist project and Massachusetts' purely theocratic project)

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  • [+] -17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Canadian police continue the practice of driving indigenous women far away from the warmth of their homes, forcing them to walk through the cold, condemning them to death.

    No they don't.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Highway of Tears is one thing... But there are also years of starlight tours.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Starlight_tours

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    It’s just the place where those forces were concentrated the strongest. It could have happened anywhere but it happened in the USA.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    that’s revisionist as fuck

    east India company anyone?

    what about the literal Aztec empire and human slave sacrifice

    we just tend to be temporally biased

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Neither have had for-profit prisons with systematised sexual torture, but even if they did I'd lean into the recency bias and ask: if they could move past it, why did the US double down when faced with better alternatives?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    wait you think east india wasnt about profit and had no sexual abuse?

    they didn’t ‘move past it’

    the British got fucked militarily and aztec society collapsed

    we’re on schedule for either end atm

    the us isnt gonna stop doing any of this before them either

    rich abusive fucks wont stop because you protest peacefully or virtue signal on the interwebs

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (5 children)
  • [–] -4 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    Just Americans trying to cope with their shithole the only way they know how: blame it on someone or some place else.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 month ago

    Places do not torture, enslave, and rape. People do. I am not interested in absolving or shifting blame, but rather in deconstructing the fascist ideologies used to justify these behaviors. In the case of American Exceptionalism the notion is that white straight cisgender males are superior to all other people, and then violently enforcing that norm.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago

    We're not blaming Europeans, we're acknowledging that we are Europeans and that our current society and culture are rooted in European settler-colonialism. As a white man born in America I can trace my roots directly back to Europe, and our culture and political system reflect those roots. If that makes you uncomfortable then perhaps you should do some self-reflection.

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  • [–] -4 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    when even the .ml users are like "wtf is this nonsense I am reading"

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago

    It's not so much nonsense as it is uncomfortable truth. It's very, very uncomfortable. But it is also true. None of us alive today chose to benefit from the things our ancestors did, the systems they built, the territories and resources they claimed, the wars they won, the people they killed. But we did benefit from them, we still do, and we are responsible for understanding and acknowledging that. It does not really have to be a big deal, but the longer and harder we refuse to genuinely accept that, the bigger a deal it becomes.

    It's not "white guilt" to understand that exactly the same things you worked hard for are also things other, much poorer people are also working just as hard for, and quite possibly much harder, while objectively accomplishing much less because of exactly that history. It also hurts to admit that some of that racist colonial history isn't actually history, because it actually isn't totally gone yet. Nobody's saying we have to instantly paint the entire globe with fairness. It's no person's sole responsibility, but it is a shared responsibility that we need to be making an honest effort towards, and we should be held responsible if we ignore, minimize and deny those things.

    There's a lot of different directions I could go in defense and support of these principles, but I don't think it would lead to productive discussion and I think it would be better for people to simply dismiss me as a naive, idealistic bleeding-heart liberal who can't possibly grasp reality. But whether you agree with it being achievable or not, I think we should agree that whenever it is possible to move the needle at all, we should try at least to some degree. The first steps of any sort of improvements towards equality require acknowledging the premise in the first place. We have to understand the problem, that equality does not yet exist because genuine harm was done in the past and those consequences have continued to the present, not because some people and groups of people are inherently lazy or stupid or bad. A lot of people are very, very resistant to even admitting that, because they're afraid that it will make them liable, that it will cost them something. And ironically, by denying it, I think it actually should cost them something. Only the truth shall set us free.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    It's Europe's fault that transgender persons are assigned to rapey cellmates in us prisons? That is the dumbest fucking shit I have ever read, but I guess in a weird way you did answer my question.

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  • [–] 26 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Not present day Europe's, but we have to understand what the outcomes and origins of settler colonialism are in order to understand how to resist it. American Exceptionalism is rooted in the notion the white Europeans are superior to Black Africans, indigenous Americans, and Asian and Pacific Islander people. There is an America today because in the 1500-1700s the European monarchies under the protocapitalist framework of mercantilism sought to own the entire world, including the inhabitants therein. America's founding fathers were Europeans influenced by the enlightenment movement, and the country they built was reflective of the Eurosupremacism of the time, which quickly gave way to scientific racism formulated by anglosphere thinkers to justify the industrialized rape of Africa in the 1800s.

    All I'm saying is that to resist these things we have to look at the history of how they started and then resist the tendencies that brought them about

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  • [+] -15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    origins of settler colonialism

    American Exceptionalism

    white Europeans are superior

    European monarchies under the protocapitalist framework of mercantilism

    reflective of the Eurosupremacism of the time

    scientific racism formulated by anglosphere thinkers to justify the industrialized rape of Africa

    This is what it sounds like when someone from a middle class background does meth.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago* (11 children)

    That is some primary grade deflection. Imagine being so far up the ass of their own country that they can't even admit that their country has problems of its own that needs fixing.

    All this fucking shit happens in the US, and not to the same extent in most European countries, so much for your precious "it's all Europe's fault" theory.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 month ago (10 children)

    i have not said that the US does not problems. far from it. I even said it is a coagulation of all the things that make States bad and wrong. what needs to happen is the power of the authority of the United States must be dissolved so that the process of communal healing can actually begin. the settler colonial tendencies that america promotes in the world will continue to go on unabated, just as they have for the last 6000 years, unless we resist these tendencies together

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  • [+] -10 points 1 month ago (9 children)

    it is a coagulation of all the things

    You could have used the word "combination" or "mix" or any other common word that everyone understands, but you chose for some reason to use "coagulation".

    Now I'm not saying I don't know what my blood does when it gets exposed to air, I'm saying why are you using 5 dollar words to sound smarter than you are?

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  • [–] 16 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    coagulate because American power is a dangerous blood clot that will give the world a stroke death if it isn't dissolved

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    Your replies are so on point I'm saving this comment thread. This also really opened my eyes to the narrow mindedness of others. Sometimes broader historical knowledge is necessary to understand present day conditions.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    well i'm glad. i do my best to maintain an empathetic approach while also speaking the truth into the world my government wants to kill. this thread has been more mentally taxing than i would have preferred, but i keep reminding myself that it still connected with at least a few people even if all the comments are saying i'm in denial about that very same government's core nature and trying to deflect blame from it.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I can't imagine seeing the word coagulate and having it stand out as "intellectual". I thought you did an excellent job of explaining a complex subject that is usually riddled with actual "five dollar words", in a digestible way.

    It's very thoughtful of you to keep responding to the angry folks dragging their clubs on the ground. Thank you for the labor. Good luck in your battles.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    That was one of the hardest reads for such a relatively short article with not too many unfamiliar words. Fucking hell. Every American should read it.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 month ago

    I just want to puke

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  • [–] 22 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    Given infinite opportunity for good, and we chose… violence.

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  • [–] -2 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    since when are prisons “good”?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (3 children)

    To quote Mama Ru, “Reading is, what?”

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago

    FUCK. THE. USA!

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  • [–] 14 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Yep, it's pure evil. Every guard involved is morally culpable for the rapes they cause

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    Jesus America is a third world country.

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  • [–] 41 points 1 month ago (12 children)

    No. The US is very much a first world country. It's literally the definition. It is the US.

    And this is what a capitalist country does. This is what first world countries look like.

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  • [+] -6 points 1 month ago (11 children)

    Nah. The Scandinavian countries are what I consider true first world.

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  • [–] 35 points 1 month ago (9 children)

    Help us out: what do you think “First World,” “Second World,” and “Third World” actually mean? The terms referred to cold war political alignment: the U.S.-led bloc, the Soviet-led bloc, and countries aligned with neither. It was not a tidy ranking from rich and civilized to poor and backward.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Yes those were the original definitions but colloquial usage has shifted from the original meaning. Although these days the preferred terminology is developed/developing/under developed.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    under developed is only preferred in academic circles, particularly economics. most other places refer to such places as "over-exploited"

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I agree with you and you are correct but this is linguistic prescriptivism, which is one of the things the what is a woman crowd cling to

    but the other people using third wold country to mean allows sex abuse makes my skin crawl

    Examine your preconceived ideas, before they examine you

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (2 children)

    I did not mean third world to mean that, but rather in the colloquial sense of how much a country takes care of its people.

    Understood that so many on this platform strictly care about historical definitions and prescriptive language policing though

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    Being more concerned with the words used than the intended meaning is an internetism that harms us all. I'm guilty of this too..

    It's tricky though, because words have meaning- and that meaning really depends on context. Not just the context in which it's spoken, but also the context is the one speaking it. And often people online who think they're arguing are really just misunderstanding each other's definitions.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    You're absolutely right. In this instance I mistakenly thought it was obvious for most that I did not mean im the strict literal definition. Oh well, no big deal

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  • [–] 0 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    I mean it in the colloquial sense based on how well taken care of the people are. No I am not writing a dissertation. This is a discussion on a message board where people may use hyperbole to make their opinion clear

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago

    Genuinely fucking disgusting.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    wait until folks comprehend who has the highest incarcerated population on this planet.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I always like to point out that it's just the highest reported incarcerated population on the planet. There's countries way bigger than America that don't have as much freedom of information, like we're reading right now.

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  • CW: exactly what you would expect.

    V-coding

    Causing rape of trans prisoners for social control


    Not to be confused with Vibe coding.

    In the context of incarceration in the United States, V-coding is the common practice by carceral staff of subjecting trans women to sexual assault by placing the woman in the same prison cell as an aggressive male inmate in order to placate the male inmate.^[1][2][3]^ This practice has been known to have caused the daily rapes of multiple trans women, and the sexual assaults of 58.5% of them.^[4][5][6]^ V-coding is done to pacify the male inmate, with the goal of reducing their propensity for violence against other inmates, according to prison authorities and one inmate.^[1][2]^ The term has also been used to refer to the broader systemic sexual abuse of trans women in male prisons.

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    nemec, blake (2015). "No One Enters Like Them: Health, Gender Variance, and the PIC". Captive Genders: Trans Embodiment and the Prison Industrial Complex (2nd ed.). AK Press. p. 306. ISBN 978-1-84935-234-5. 2. [12]

    "Defending Women From Gender Ideology Extremism And Restoring Biological Truth To The Federal Government". whitehouse.gov. January 20, 2025. 3. [13]

    Harmon, Amy (January 27, 2025). "Inmate Sues the Trump Administration Over Transgender Executive Order". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Archived from the original on January 30, 2025. Retrieved January 30, 2025. 4. [14]

    Raymond, Nate; Scarcella, Mike (January 27, 2025). "Transgender inmate sues over Trump's order curtailing LGBT rights". Reuters. Retrieved September 24, 2025. 5. [15]

    Schwartzapfel, Beth (February 21, 2025). "Trans Women Federal Prisoners Told They Will Be Housed With Men". The Marshall Project. Retrieved September 27, 2025. 6. [16]

    Raymond, Nate (January 30, 2025). "US judge blocks Trump administration from transferring transgender inmate". Reuters. Retrieved September 24, 2025. 7. [17]

    Levin, Sam; Johnson, Kaley (March 7, 2025). "Trans women transferred to men's prisons despite rulings against Trump's order". The Guardian. ISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved September 27, 2025. 8. [18]

    "Transgender women moved to men's prisons amid judicial block". The Advocate (magazine). Retrieved September 27, 2025. 9. [19]

    Fiorillo, Victor (June 6, 2025). "Philly Trans Woman Raising Money on GoFundMe So She Can Escape to Canada". Philadelphia Magazine. Retrieved September 27, 2025. 10. [20]

    "Hundreds of people gather at state Capitol to protest Trump administration". Arkansas Democrat Gazette. April 12, 2025. Retrieved September 27, 2025.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Not to be confused with Vibe coding.

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