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[–] 49 points 1 month ago (18 children)

On Lemmy it's more like, I realised I was wrong 5 comments ago and now I'll just trying to soothe my ego by arguing semantics, but when I run out of things to say I'll just block everyone.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 month ago* (11 children)

    I love how everyone thinks they're master debaters here but would get absolutely dog-walked in any other setting. Or just laughed out of the room

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  • [–] 17 points 1 month ago* (4 children)

    Hey now, I know I'd get stomped on by twats like Ben Shapiro IRL, but give me 10 minutes alone in a bedroom with his sister and I'll make him regret it.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    The moment the convo stop being via text i am so cooked, i just cannot talk IRL without stammering(i also have those embarassing moments where i often forget a word in my language but not in english...)

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Believe it or not, that's not really a disqualifier to competitors. The sport is pretty professional and uses a way different skillset than people realize, fluent unbroken english not being one of them

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    Yeah umh, the problem is that in real debates IRL people will interrupt you often and i fucking hate that, gimme me time i need to process things!

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child)

    In an argument they will. That's not really what I'm talking about though, arguing is never not stupid, people do it just to debase themselves in front of their acquaintances in the hopes that they'll drag someone else down in the process.

    Check this out, you don't have to watch the whole thing. But these people are the best in the world. The competition is formal and has a system, you aren't allowed to only debate things you personally support, there is no interrupting or rude behavior because people actually want to win for their universities. TPUSA stopped going to actual debates like this because they kept getting humiliated on camera https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tngaDNSlCpU

    Bo Seo is Korean and often stammers but they won the world championships twice

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  • [–] -1 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    On lemmy it's more like, "I'm now going to call you a genocide supporter."

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (4 children)

    What an odd way to project that you like genocide

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    This is literally what I'm talking about lmao. You can say fuck Israel, free Palestine, and arrest Netanyahu, but unless you have all that tattooed to your dick some dickhead is going to slide in and call you a genocider.

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    [–] 22 points 1 month ago* (5 children)

    I don't even understand the point of making someone mad via text conversations. You can't see their face turn red with rage or hear the sounds they make, so it's not even funny. 🤷‍♂️

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Engagement and data collection ... sometimes it's just a way to collect data. Anyone that responds gets added to their list of accounts that have a live person.

    They do the same for telemarketing, email, mail, phone, sms, and any other contact request ... once there's a response, it's confirmation that the account has a human owner

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Gotta admire the dedication.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago

    yeah and it's working fuck you

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I feel that of someone gets all emotional and veers away from reality, it's best to give them an out and then leave them alone.

    They may be able to get over it, or maybe not, but nothing else is getting accomplished and all of us are going to die wrong about something.

    I have a genuine appreciation for people willing to argue, but it ain't me unless I'm getting paid.

    Say your piece, then peace out.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    That guy is a master debater.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Decades of arguing on the internet has mellowed me out some. At this point if someone is hostile without adding anything meaningful to the thread, I ignore them.

    If they're being a dick but made a point that might be seen as valid, I'll talk to the lurker who's reading the thread.

    I feel the most useful when I can link to content that is informative, say a deep dive or a source that has academic or press chops. This is even useful if I agree with the other correspondents because then it's no longer just the hearsay of a bunch of dudes on the internet.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)
  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    so many users on lemmy

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Long tap -> save picture

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Jokes on you, I don't get mad, I forget what we were even talking about and then get distracted by food.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I feel missed out. What are some spicy communities where these arguments are going on?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    I remember living this meme many years ago, and my best friend trying to strangle me after I finally explained that I knew he was right, and had known all along. Still friends and I definitely had it coming.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Well 5 minutes before I was just too far lost in my derailed thoughts to realize

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Every argument with my ex-wife I ever had.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 month ago

    Younger brother tries to ragebait me with obtuse wrongness thinking he is being clever.

    Pull uno reverse card on him with acute correctness and sociopathic level of patience.

    It works and now he is insanely angry that he can't make me mad.

    Continue to make him so angry he can't form coherent sentences.

    He starts yelling at me and demands that I apologize

    Tell him I'm sorry that he is an idiot and wish he hadn't wasted so much of our time doing idiot things.

    He kicks me out of the house and I'm uninvited to Christmas

    Sucks being correct sometimes.

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