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[–] 86 points 1 month ago (16 children)

It's not just music. It's hard to find guilt free enjoyment in almost anything nowadays. Someone involved in its creation will almost inevitably be a turbo-cunt somehow.

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  • [–] 68 points 1 month ago (9 children)

    I've come to the conclusion that being an ethical consumer is probably impossible. I will however still try. Perfection is the enemy of progress and all that.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    "there is no such thing as ethical consumption under capitalism"

    It's been a known concept in leftist theory for a long while.

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  • [–] 20 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Have you seen The Good Place by any chance?

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Mike Schur wrote a great companion book to the series called How To Be Perfect that details all of the philosophy he got into while writing the show. Very entry-level stuff and quite accessible while still being an interesting meta-analysis of a few branches of philosophy. Definitely worth a read if you enjoyed The Good Place.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    I find local to be a good ethical area. Though that does come with either knowing people if you're not around stuff. But Im lucky to live in a low cost metro area that has regularly underground music scene for good listening at the direct benefit of the artist

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  • That's the right mentality to have there. Do what you can where you can.

    I ran into an amazing character creator and animator recently and loved what I saw. I shared it with some friends and they pointed out the person is a complete CHUD. I now blacklist their stuff, as simple viewership of their media gives demand for it.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    Guilt-free is impossible if you pay for it. Pirating though, you can draw the line yourself. Like for example Harry Porter the movie is a combination of multiple talented people, i don't attribute all those to a single cunt, and pirating mean i can avoid paying that cunt while also acknowledging the talent that contributed to this whole series(by watching their other works, but i'm also a massive cunt as i pirate everything and not paying streaming service a single cent)

    Don't really like the series anyway, the setting is pretty nice though. Will still avoid media from people who crossed that line though.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I really think everyone should pirate books and just donate to authors who need it. You bypass all the publishers and any nonsense connected to it, and if the authors suck you can find that out before eonating. Like if you buy Sanderson books you are tithing to his stupid anti-LGBT church.

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  • Perfection is impossible, you'll never know someone is like that until they get vocal about it. But for actual Nazis and their sympathizers, I do what I can to not give them attention or money. It's like ethical consumption under capitalism, it's impossible to be 100%. Just do better when it's obvious.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Alternatively it's just made with AI.

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  • [–] 44 points 1 month ago (22 children)

    I learned about Grimes from her spot in Cyberpunk 2077. Excited at the potential well of new music I looked her up and first result is a divorce with Musk.

    Come on, man.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Well, for there to be a divorce, there needs to be a wedding. 😬

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    She definitely thought he was a viable human being at some point though.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    Do people forget that so did the rest of society at large before he publicly went off the deep end?

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I would think that she would have a better understanding of him and his character prior to getting married than the public at large. I've never been in a room with him, much less had a conversation or spent time together.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    For the last few years, plenty of people are finding out their loved ones and close friends have hidden sides to them they did not see before. Why is it that she couldn't have been one of those people?

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  • [–] 11 points 1 month ago

    I don't know why you're running defense for Grimes, but they started dating the same year he called that British caver that saved the kids in Thailand a pedophile. Not what I would consider mature or marriage potential, and that's what he said in public.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    There is a substantial difference between public image and actual personality. Society at large was unaware of his proclivities because he had an ace PR team stymie his worst impulses. It's much harder to stay mask off when you're actually interacting and living with someone, and Musk isn't very good at subtley.

    Plus like the other user said, they started dating the year he did that weird pedo accusation at that Thai rescue squad. That was definitely the beginning of a LOT of people realizing he was off.

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  • [–] 28 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    For those saying "it's a divorce," when accused of being a Nazi, Grimes replied she was "happily proud of white culture."

    They had enough in common to get married.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    Yeah, this ain't whatshername that had his kid and went from chud to "dark woke". Grimes has just remained the same

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  • [–] 19 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    They divorced, and she's not a big fan of him now, to be diplomatic about it

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  • [–] 33 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    Black metal bands : nazi

    Classic rock artists : pedophiles

    Inquisition : both

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    As a black metal fan... It's really not that hard to avoid the nazis. There are plenty of anti-fascist sources. I think people are just too lazy or already invested in fascist music.

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  • I know, it's a joke, I am a black metal fan myself. I don't believe every old school rockstars out there were fucking minors either.

    But there is a reason that everytime I find a new BM band, my first action is to dig a bit oh them. I don't usually do that for other genres...

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  • [–] 31 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Listening to black metal is a minefield.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 month ago

    Come back to me once you spent a large amount of your time learning guitar thanks to a band, then the band members first want to give a chance to Trump, then begin using AI (all after they wrote an awful triple concept album on "machine music" building out literally 1984).

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  • [–] 31 points 1 month ago (10 children)

    You can enjoy art without getting caught up on the artist's views and actions

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Usually I agree, my one exception is Lost Prophets. Ian Watkins crimes were so awful that now when I've tried to listen to their first album (which I loved at release) I just feel sick.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    From what I’ve read it didn’t begin until, like, after their third album. So that’s how I rationalize it, and I hate saying that. But Fake Sound of Progress and Start Something were utterly formative for me, so I’ve gotta cope.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    Noone goes from being a normal, functioning, non-paedophile adult to raping babies in a couple of years. That shit escalates over a long time so I don't buy that there weren't signs before then.

    The band mates and label etc may have not realised how depraved he would go on to become but there were 100% signs he had an unnatural interest in children.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Yeah but then you also have artists like J K Rowling who have laid out, in no uncertain terms, that significant amounts of their fortunes are going straight to harming marginalized communities.

    Rowling, in this example, has started an anti trans charity that does not accept external donations, it is fueled solely by Harry Potter money. The only way I'm going to be able to enjoy anything in this vein is if I know that she's not seeing a dime out of it.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago

    Shortly before kanye's nazi controversy, Spotify was pushing him hard, lol

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  • [–] 22 points 1 month ago

    I also got one of these this week

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    Dance Gavin Dance and Crystal Castles are two that I've been bummed to find out about relatively recently. :\

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Dang whats up with Crystal Castles?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Apparently dude was abusive towards other bandmate.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Sorta related, but I was trying to remember a song the other day where a guy is proposing to a woman. I eventually realized it was "On My Way" (2012) by Passion Pit. So I decided to go to wikipedia to see if it was based on real events, and it was. But then the story goes wonky.

    Michael Angelakos wrote the song to propose to his then girlfriend Kristy Mucci. But while engaged to Mucci, he started also dating Madeleine Dubus. He became a drunk and drug addict and was abusive towards Mucci and Dubus. He still married Mucci in 2013, but they announced they were divorcing in 2015. Later that year, Angelakos announced he was gay. In 2018, he came out as bisexual.

    In 2025, he said he took too many shrooms and wrote a long email to Dubus that prompted a wellness check on him. Months later, he married Dubus and she became his manager. That same year, he wrote a series of essays, much of which were about his inability to clean up after himself at home and the problems that causes. He also described "snorting a billion grams of ketamine."

    Anyway, it kinda takes the song down a notch for me.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Meh, in that case I am not too put off. Sure, the guy might have been a dick who couldn't handle fame, but the song was written with presumably good intentions. Drugs and alcohol ruined countless artists.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    And sometimes it's an old band with their own, unique music style, history of neither bigotry nor pedophilia, and a modern fanbase entirely made up of 14 year olds commenting "this is what real music used to sound like, before people became gay."

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    1990 heavy metal scene flasbacks

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    currently on a big years long philosophy kick and yeah. just started reading some Heidegger. Fucker was an unapologetic nazi. Son of a bitch.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I thought this was a win for anon?

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    I've said it before and I'll say it again, this is part of what I love about the punk scene, it's all about empowering the downtrodden and telling oppressors to fuck off, and at the same time having some fun while you do so!

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Anti-flag and the casualties come to mind off recent examples of the opposite of this.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Really sad to find that out about Anti-Flag. They had such an asexual energy about them that I could relate to. Also they stopped me from becoming a fascist at one of my darkest moments.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Well I'm glad to hear they helped you. I've seen them so many times. Was very sad to hear about it. I still have a patch on my vest, but covered up the "flag" portion of the name with gorilla tape hah.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)
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    I guess its not a coincidence that my favorite artist lives a very private life.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Yeah thats always a shame

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Something something separate art from the artist something something

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Impossible to do in its entirety, the self is always wrapped up in the art it produces to some degree.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    The meaning of art is up to the audience, not the creator.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    One of the most wonderful things about artwork is that it provides anyone experiencing it a direct connection to the artist. Sure artists can filter but they still put some of their real selves into the artwork no matter how hard they try not to.

    The other side of that coin is great artwork affects the one experiencing it. Think about how much your own life you experience and filter through the lenses of the books, movies, music and artwork that you've experienced up to that point. If you ever draw connections between real life and artwork, that's one of the ways that art changes you, and that's part of why avoiding artwork written by hateful people is worth the effort.

    Of course there's also interest in experiencing artwork that you know was made by a hateful individual. Take Falling in Reverse for example. Ronnie Radcliffe, their lead is generally a pretty shitty human, and knowing that you can notice how the music he writes and performs tends to mostly be very surface level "I'm a broken person" and "everyone hates me" with a bit of "everyone who hates me is a loser!" thrown in for good measure. This is his true self showing through the work. Or if we look at H.P. Lovecraft's Call of Cthulhu, you'll notice Lovecraft seems to be far more terrified by the non-white Cthulhu worshippers in his works than by Cthulhu himself, with far more visceral and descriptive writing relating to the horrors given to the worshippers. Again this is the true self showing through as Lovecraft was incredibly racist even for the time

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    mehh, I'm not that interested in moral filtering with that much granularity tbh.

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  • Money going to people like that is then funneled into culture war bullshit. Rowling as an example is personally help fund many anti-trans pieces of legislation. There is not ethical consumption with Nazis/Reactionaries involved. If you can't be assed to not pay for media that funds such actions then I personally so little difference between you and the creator.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    YoU NeEd tO LeArN To sEpArAtE ThE ArT FrOm tHe aRtIsT

    I'm not paying money to nazis when non nazis are available

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  • That those people then funnel money into organizations that are anti-LGBTIA+ as well should be a very good reason to not buy their crap. Initially with Rowling we didn't know she was such a POS, but now that we do, I no longer consume her media willingly. I wouldn't even say pirate it, as it still creates an obvious demand for it.

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