The price on the menu isn't anywhere near the bill the expect you to pay at the end.
Bill = menu-price + taxes + 20% tip
(where 20% is just a rough average)
The price on the menu isn't anywhere near the bill the expect you to pay at the end.
Bill = menu-price + taxes + 20% tip
(where 20% is just a rough average)
Well, the US are the only country i know of that shifts the responsibility of making sure employees can have a home and food from the employer to the costumer. In central Europe, we tip when the service was excellent, but not by default, and only when being waited at a table.
I live in Central Europe too but I have almost the opposite experience. The way I see it is that tipping culture is way worse in the US but we were always bad here aswell and we're inching towards them every year. Honestly I also doubt that service industry people are not getting fucked almost everywhere in Europe.
THIS. I enjoy tipping for good service, when it's above-and-beyond. But a living wage shouldn't depend on a surprise tax levied 100% of the time. I worked as a waiter and I was pretty good. I enjoyed the tips I earned, but I worked in a country where the wage for a waiter was the same as a cook, and tips were excellent gravy for me and the BoH heroes who made me look good.
Everyone hates tipping, but this won’t affect US tipping culture at all. Paying staff almost nothing and making them depend on tips is allowed by US law. As long as that doesnt change, businesses will always pay their staff as little as they can get away with.
Businesses here are not nice. If a waiter can’t make rent, then its time to fire them and hire another waiter. Which they can do because most states have at will employment. So you can fire anyone at any time, for any reason. No notice needed, and you dont have to pay them any compensation.
This is why its always interesting when people (especially from europe) think that not paying tips is going to cause some kind of transformation. We are a corporate country. If you dont go after the business owners, there will be no change.
What if as a customer I am not satisfied with the product? I certainly will not leave a tip and it may not be the employee's fault, but he is the only one who will not be paid. Once, slavery was allowed by the US Constitution, today paying employees almost nothing and relying on tips is allowed by US law. I know it's not the same (not even close), but how do employees feel when they work, are not paid, and depend on the kindness of the customer?
Alternative headline: Europeans dumped 23 metric tons of trash in front of business owner's McMansion to demand fair wages and job security for workers.
FFS, it's called a price for a reason.
If it were up to me I would turn the fucker around. Maximum listed on the menu, and if the customer behaved like an actual human being instead of an entitled prick, their final bill would be reduced by up to 20%.
Don't worry American citizens are also confused by the expensive tipping culture in the US. I still maintain 15% for a good job, 10% for a mediocre job, 5% for anything below. Giving above 15% is just subsidizing the pay the employer should be giving. It's a symptom of the fact that wages have stagnated for over 50 years. The pay that once supported someone and even a child is now far below the poverty line for even an individual. So instead of increasing pay to match what it once was many businesses have turned to aggressive tipping over just increasing the prices of their service / products.
Me as someone not from the US: why would you pay even 10% for anything below exceptional let alone a mediocre job? I am not going to subsidise their employer.
Irl, culture. 15% is becoming an insult but is still normal or acceptable most places. If you ever want to return to a restaurant and not have your food tampered with its best to keep with some agreeable norm. At 10% I wouldn't suggest being a frequent visitor anywhere for your health and wellbeing. To zoom out a little, there's been no country I have lived in where the culture was 100% agreeable even to the majority. We're all policed in some way or another by it.
Crazy culture if my options are pay extra or be poisoned.
If you piss off food staff anywhere on earth your food may be tampered with. Now what people consider to be rude can be unique in different places.
I tip generously at my local bar and in return they sometimes give me free stuff. Got a whole sandwich recently.
15% for a good job, 10% for a mediocre job, 5% for anything below
I maybe make a 10% bonus if my department absolutely smashes sales numbers.... i cant imagine getting 15% for doing my job normally (i consider doing a "good job" to be my normal output) or even getting 5% for doing "below" mediocre...
In fact, in most jobs, doing below mediocre work usually gets you fired, not bonuses
Yes, I'm aware. Workers in certain restaurants make quite a lot, even more than some engineers with degrees I know.
But also, i dont want to make this about "X type worker shouldnt make more than Y type worker"... servers should be paid whatever they get paid. Just dont put the burden on the customer... i dont care if they make more than me, or my CEO or whatever.... just dont hassle me with the tipping decision.
a lot of that kind of "servers make more than X" discourse ends up belittling one worker with "unskilled labour" terminology. I dont believe in anything called unskilled labour.
Employers are giving you the option of cheating the employee and you are taking them up on it, claiming to be fighting the system, by cheating the employee.
Think about that, just because millions of cheating self interested half wits and tools and jerks agree with you, doesn't mean you are right. You are cheating working people under a false pretense. If you don't like tipping that much, don't patronize establishments that use it.
It's legal ransom, you're mad at the wrong person
The federal and state governments are cheating staff by allowing employers to pay slave-level wages of $2.xx/hr, if staff are paid ~$5/hr or more through tips.
This has gone on for a while so you're right, maybe I shouldn't visit some states in the USA anymore even after Don the Con is gone.
Maybe you shouldn’t if you’re going to cry about our culture (that gives young single women/moms a damn good paying job for little skill and time). Yea we don’t need more entitled trash in this country.
There is a world in which you don't have to sacrifice restaurant jobs while still having a proper minimum wage and having some level of tip culture. I live there, it's called Canada. Servers, cooks and cleaners can make good money from tips while still being paid at the very least $15Cdn/hr ($10.60 US) by the restauranteur, higher outside the Prairies. Tipped minimum wage exists in Quebec but it is $13.30Cdn/hr ($9.35 US). It doesn't have to be a one or the other situation, you can call it entitlement, but I call replacing wages with tips shifting the blame.
I mostly decrease eating out which is arguably worse because now they get a 0% tip. If enough people avoid establishments that abuse tipping then the problem will solve itself.
But they don't have to work for you for free if you don't go, and you're not actually subsidizing the restaurant if you're not paying the menu price.
It's for sure worse for the worker if you go, pay for your meal, and don't tip them. The owner doesn't care, he got his, and if the worker (who gets 0% in either scenario) quits another just takes their place tomorrow.
Maybe on an individual level but if no one goes there won't be a restaurant or that job for long. Getting something is typically better than getting nothing.
Not as a server. No it’s not.
So getting a 15% tip is worse than getting no business at all?
My issue isn't with the service staff, it's with business owners who are increasingly abusing their workers by offloading their pay onto tips. I mainly fight this by just not eating out or eating out at places where tipping isn't customary. Also for what it's worth I only stay stateside a portion of the year, where else I stay tipping is unusual, not unheard of but definitely not a common thing people do. So in the end instead of 15% they get 0% because I didn't go out to eat and of course the business owner gets $0.
Sure but "getting something" implies you're tipping, I'm talking about people who still go and do not tip.
If you tip, then yeah, that is indeed better for the server. What's better for the server overall is getting to the point where you can escape the industry but of course it has its ways of keeping you locked in (and not all of them are "tips or the lack thereof"), but in the short term:
Tip and work>no tip no work>no tip but still work
It's like you didn't read my comments at all. I never said anything about not tipping at all outside of the circumstance where I never went to the restaurant to begin with. If I don't go then the owner gets $0 and the server gets $0 since I didn't use their service or purchase their product aka they both get 0%.
The scenario you're bringing up really has nothing to do with anything I've said this entire time.
Ok, I'll run it back for you. Give me a minute to edit this all together, I'm on mobile.
You said:
I mostly decrease eating out which is arguably worse because now they get a 0% tip. If enough people avoid establishments that abuse tipping then the problem will solve itself.
To which I replied:
But they don't have to work for you for free of you don't go
As in while you're giving them 0% tip, you're also giving them 0% work to do, by not going to the establishment.
The problem is those who give them 0% tip and 100% work to do.
Much better for them to work for free to serve you without pay? GTFO.
Do you have to tip at McDonald's, or BK, and the like?
No.
Generally the historical rule is sit down restaurants only, where someone serves you, or tip a driver if your food gets delivered.
So even if you sit down, if you got up to collect your food and/or bussed your dishes yourself then it's not expected.
At bars generally you tip on all drinks, though I'd say less if all they did was open something and/or pour. Definitely tip on cocktails though.
That being said two things have happened in the past 6 years:
Whenever I hear anything about US, I am just realising again and again how I never want to visit this sick country.
Keller said he's changed the system so customers with reservations have to pre-pay for drinks, including a service charge. "It's just to protect our staff," he said.
Protect your staff by paying them ffs.
If tips combined with wages do not reach the state minimum of $7.25, the employer must make up the difference. "If they don't receive any tips, it's impossible to survive in the service industry," Thurnher said.
If your minimum wage is lower than a living wage, your system sucks.
Not sure why media is trying to make this a thing, it isn't. There's thousands and thousands of posts/videos by visiting Europeans saying they're pissed because they were lied to about America being a shit hole and everyone there is selfish and rude.
No one asked them to go there, and it is all known and written in so many subs what the US tipping culture is about. Own fault. They should stop behave like 5 year old.
Exactly. Fuck FIFA, fuck USA. Stop giving money to these fuckers.
Blame the victim. Nice....
Being unaware of local customs isn't a good reason to complain about them. Just learn them. If you travel without taking five minutes to understand the local culture, don't be surprised when you run into unpleasant surprises.
Not hard to understand, innit?
It's not, but it's a problem of "unknown unknowns". People look up mandatory vaccines, which health insurances actually cover them there, which part of town to avoid etc. Not "am I randomly expected to give money to people?".
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