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[–] 55 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (35 children)

The price on the menu isn't anywhere near the bill the expect you to pay at the end.

Bill = menu-price + taxes + 20% tip

(where 20% is just a rough average)

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  • [–] 67 points 4 months ago* (19 children)

    Should be the employer paying their employee for doing their job, not the customer

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  • [–] 28 points 4 months ago

    Exactly. Also just write the price you got to pay, including tax, service, the whole. Just the full price!

    (Either that, or I wanna see a full break-up of the costs /s .... how much the farmer charges, transport, wholesale, sellers cost & profit, taxes ... everything)

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  • [+] -22 points 4 months ago (16 children)

    …but that doesn’t make it “confusing”. I’m not sure why any adult would find +20% confusing. Is it fair? That’s a different question.

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  • [–] 31 points 4 months ago* (5 children)

    Most of the rest of the world expects that if you have 10 money, and see something that is advertised as costing 10 money, you can buy it.

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  • [–] 5 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    I learned this at a kid in the US. This fast food place had cookies labeled "99¢!” so said "mom can I have a dollar for a cookie?" and she gave me one, as a treat. I hope to the register and the girl says "ok it's actually $1.06".

    I don't think I got the cookie that day. I don't remember it, but if I did it was soured by capitalism.

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  • [+] -7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Right and here in America we don’t piss on the streets as a matter of culture and toss trash out the window. Like a lot of the world. So, it’s bit like “the rest of the world” isnt a good metric.

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  • [–] 14 points 4 months ago (6 children)

    That's literally the reason given in the article why it's confusing. It didn't even have to exist if the employer paid the employee as I wrote above. The existence of the expensive tipping itself is confusing.

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  • [+] -10 points 4 months ago (5 children)

    It’s not though. American employers don’t want to pay a living wage, therefore a 20%tax is issued to the diner. That’s not confusing and can be summed up in one sentence. If the idea is make other nations seem like idiots then… ok, I guess but it’s not “confusing”. Oh nooooo, in England I have to pay a tax on television? I’m so stupid and confused.

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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    I'm an American. I was born here. I'm used to the taxes and the tipping and all of that stuff.

    I don't find it confusing, sure. But I'm also used to it.

    But as an analogy, imagine that the posted speed limit wasn't the actual speed limit. Well, in fact, it sort of works like that because you can usually but not always go 5 to 10 mph over.

    But let's say that it was a little confusing. That it was more like 20%. Or it depended on some sort of. I don't know how to make this analogy work, but maybe sometimes it was 20%, sometimes it was 25%, sometimes it was 15%. The point is that having to calculate that all of a sudden when you never have before is difficult and a pain in the ass.

    And if you come from a country with a speed limit, is the speed limit or it's like always like five over would be safe or something like that. This percent thing is bullshit to you because you've never had to deal with this stupidity before. Doesn't matter that the natives have no worries about it, this is weird and different and bullshit and there's no good reason for it.

    Not the greatest analogy, but if you try and use it to you know get an idea of how they feel about it. I hope it helps a little bit

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    It's not only about confusion for me, it feels wrong and uncenessary abusive. This shit is illegal on most of the first world for a reason!

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago

    So basically the history of tipping comes from post-slavery times. When frankly whites were trying to keep blacks down. It has a terrible history, a terrible purpose. They were trying to not have to pay people who deserved a living wage.

    So while I'm not certain, I think the practice should be strictly illegal, it certainly is bullshit. So I have a hard time disagreeing with you LOL

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  • [–] 9 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    …but that doesn’t make it “confusing”. I’m not sure why any adult would find +20% confusing.

    We can do the math for sure, but we are not interested in the break-down of the costs. Just tell us the final price, that's all that matters. We are used to be presented with the price we are gonna have to pay. Not some math at the end of the meal figuring out what the local tax rate is, guessing the expected tip of 15%-40% not based on actual service but ..... just the waiter's expectations (or more frequently the waiter's demand)

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  • [–] 11 points 4 months ago

    Yeah the combo of tips + taxes is enough to throw any european off. 13% where I am, so mentally disregarding the final price presented and then adding 33% on top of that is a huge difference than paying the number the items added up to on the receipt, and then tipping if the service was excellent.

    I think State taxes are lower than my provincial tax generally, but its a big shoft mentally. You have to fundamentally accept and financially reward a system that considers underpaying its employees completely normal and actively resists improvements for those employees.

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  • [–] 5 points 4 months ago* (1 child)

    North americans are so stupid that some restautants tried in canada and the US to simplify things

    menu-price = food + taxes + 20% tip

    Final bill ends up being the same price as before but people saw bigger number and freaked out...

    They'd rather be lied to by the menu price and then scammed for tips at the very end rather than have clear and transparent pricing....

    I dont want to live on this planet anymore

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  • [–] 5 points 4 months ago (8 children)

    Hold on. Is there no tax on the tip?

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Only if the server reports it as income (in Canada, at least).

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  • [–] 52 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    Well, the US are the only country i know of that shifts the responsibility of making sure employees can have a home and food from the employer to the costumer. In central Europe, we tip when the service was excellent, but not by default, and only when being waited at a table.

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  • [–] 9 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    I live in Central Europe too but I have almost the opposite experience. The way I see it is that tipping culture is way worse in the US but we were always bad here aswell and we're inching towards them every year. Honestly I also doubt that service industry people are not getting fucked almost everywhere in Europe.

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  • [–] 6 points 4 months ago

    THIS. I enjoy tipping for good service, when it's above-and-beyond. But a living wage shouldn't depend on a surprise tax levied 100% of the time. I worked as a waiter and I was pretty good. I enjoyed the tips I earned, but I worked in a country where the wage for a waiter was the same as a cook, and tips were excellent gravy for me and the BoH heroes who made me look good.

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  • [–] 24 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

    Everyone hates tipping, but this won’t affect US tipping culture at all. Paying staff almost nothing and making them depend on tips is allowed by US law. As long as that doesnt change, businesses will always pay their staff as little as they can get away with.

    Businesses here are not nice. If a waiter can’t make rent, then its time to fire them and hire another waiter. Which they can do because most states have at will employment. So you can fire anyone at any time, for any reason. No notice needed, and you dont have to pay them any compensation.

    This is why its always interesting when people (especially from europe) think that not paying tips is going to cause some kind of transformation. We are a corporate country. If you dont go after the business owners, there will be no change.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago

    What if as a customer I am not satisfied with the product? I certainly will not leave a tip and it may not be the employee's fault, but he is the only one who will not be paid. Once, slavery was allowed by the US Constitution, today paying employees almost nothing and relying on tips is allowed by US law. I know it's not the same (not even close), but how do employees feel when they work, are not paid, and depend on the kindness of the customer?

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  • [–] 19 points 4 months ago

    FFS, it's called a price for a reason.

    If it were up to me I would turn the fucker around. Maximum listed on the menu, and if the customer behaved like an actual human being instead of an entitled prick, their final bill would be reduced by up to 20%.

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  • [–] 12 points 4 months ago

    I, a US citizen, am also confused by tipping culture in the US.

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  • [–] 16 points 4 months ago (31 children)

    Don't worry American citizens are also confused by the expensive tipping culture in the US. I still maintain 15% for a good job, 10% for a mediocre job, 5% for anything below. Giving above 15% is just subsidizing the pay the employer should be giving. It's a symptom of the fact that wages have stagnated for over 50 years. The pay that once supported someone and even a child is now far below the poverty line for even an individual. So instead of increasing pay to match what it once was many businesses have turned to aggressive tipping over just increasing the prices of their service / products.

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  • [–] 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

    Me as someone not from the US: why would you pay even 10% for anything below exceptional let alone a mediocre job? I am not going to subsidise their employer.

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago* (3 children)

    Irl, culture. 15% is becoming an insult but is still normal or acceptable most places. If you ever want to return to a restaurant and not have your food tampered with its best to keep with some agreeable norm. At 10% I wouldn't suggest being a frequent visitor anywhere for your health and wellbeing. To zoom out a little, there's been no country I have lived in where the culture was 100% agreeable even to the majority. We're all policed in some way or another by it.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (2 children)

    15% for a good job, 10% for a mediocre job, 5% for anything below

    I maybe make a 10% bonus if my department absolutely smashes sales numbers.... i cant imagine getting 15% for doing my job normally (i consider doing a "good job" to be my normal output) or even getting 5% for doing "below" mediocre...

    In fact, in most jobs, doing below mediocre work usually gets you fired, not bonuses

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    Yes, I'm aware. Workers in certain restaurants make quite a lot, even more than some engineers with degrees I know.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    But also, i dont want to make this about "X type worker shouldnt make more than Y type worker"... servers should be paid whatever they get paid. Just dont put the burden on the customer... i dont care if they make more than me, or my CEO or whatever.... just dont hassle me with the tipping decision.

    a lot of that kind of "servers make more than X" discourse ends up belittling one worker with "unskilled labour" terminology. I dont believe in anything called unskilled labour.

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  • [–] -2 points 4 months ago* (21 children)

    Employers are giving you the option of cheating the employee and you are taking them up on it, claiming to be fighting the system, by cheating the employee.

    Think about that, just because millions of cheating self interested half wits and tools and jerks agree with you, doesn't mean you are right. You are cheating working people under a false pretense. If you don't like tipping that much, don't patronize establishments that use it.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    The federal and state governments are cheating staff by allowing employers to pay slave-level wages of $2.xx/hr, if staff are paid ~$5/hr or more through tips.

    This has gone on for a while so you're right, maybe I shouldn't visit some states in the USA anymore even after Don the Con is gone.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    Maybe you shouldn’t if you’re going to cry about our culture (that gives young single women/moms a damn good paying job for little skill and time). Yea we don’t need more entitled trash in this country.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago*

    There is a world in which you don't have to sacrifice restaurant jobs while still having a proper minimum wage and having some level of tip culture. I live there, it's called Canada. Servers, cooks and cleaners can make good money from tips while still being paid at the very least $15Cdn/hr ($10.60 US) by the restauranteur, higher outside the Prairies. Tipped minimum wage exists in Quebec but it is $13.30Cdn/hr ($9.35 US). It doesn't have to be a one or the other situation, you can call it entitlement, but I call replacing wages with tips shifting the blame.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (14 children)

    I mostly decrease eating out which is arguably worse because now they get a 0% tip. If enough people avoid establishments that abuse tipping then the problem will solve itself.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (11 children)

    But they don't have to work for you for free if you don't go, and you're not actually subsidizing the restaurant if you're not paying the menu price.

    It's for sure worse for the worker if you go, pay for your meal, and don't tip them. The owner doesn't care, he got his, and if the worker (who gets 0% in either scenario) quits another just takes their place tomorrow.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (10 children)

    Maybe on an individual level but if no one goes there won't be a restaurant or that job for long. Getting something is typically better than getting nothing.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (5 children)

    Not as a server. No it’s not.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (4 children)

    So getting a 15% tip is worse than getting no business at all?

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  • [+] 0 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)
  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago* (2 children)

    My issue isn't with the service staff, it's with business owners who are increasingly abusing their workers by offloading their pay onto tips. I mainly fight this by just not eating out or eating out at places where tipping isn't customary. Also for what it's worth I only stay stateside a portion of the year, where else I stay tipping is unusual, not unheard of but definitely not a common thing people do. So in the end instead of 15% they get 0% because I didn't go out to eat and of course the business owner gets $0.

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  • [–] 0 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    Sure but "getting something" implies you're tipping, I'm talking about people who still go and do not tip.

    If you tip, then yeah, that is indeed better for the server. What's better for the server overall is getting to the point where you can escape the industry but of course it has its ways of keeping you locked in (and not all of them are "tips or the lack thereof"), but in the short term:

    Tip and work>no tip no work>no tip but still work

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    It's like you didn't read my comments at all. I never said anything about not tipping at all outside of the circumstance where I never went to the restaurant to begin with. If I don't go then the owner gets $0 and the server gets $0 since I didn't use their service or purchase their product aka they both get 0%.

    The scenario you're bringing up really has nothing to do with anything I've said this entire time.

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  • [–] 0 points 4 months ago* (1 child)

    Ok, I'll run it back for you. Give me a minute to edit this all together, I'm on mobile.

    You said:

    I mostly decrease eating out which is arguably worse because now they get a 0% tip. If enough people avoid establishments that abuse tipping then the problem will solve itself.

    To which I replied:

    But they don't have to work for you for free of you don't go

    As in while you're giving them 0% tip, you're also giving them 0% work to do, by not going to the establishment.

    The problem is those who give them 0% tip and 100% work to do.

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  • [–] 0 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    Much better for them to work for free to serve you without pay? GTFO.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago*

    I tip what was once normal or even generous a few years ago and generally avoid places that push this behavior so the business owner and the employees get nothing from me. Mostly though if I eat out it's at places where tipping isn't customary.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    Do you have to tip at McDonald's, or BK, and the like?

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago* (1 child)

    No.

    Generally the historical rule is sit down restaurants only, where someone serves you, or tip a driver if your food gets delivered.

    So even if you sit down, if you got up to collect your food and/or bussed your dishes yourself then it's not expected.

    At bars generally you tip on all drinks, though I'd say less if all they did was open something and/or pour. Definitely tip on cocktails though.

    That being said two things have happened in the past 6 years:

    • there was a lot of community support to tip on take out orders during Covid to help local places survive. A lot of places still expect this on take out nowadays which is a shame. That being said I still like supporting local places so tip when I can, but less than I would sitting in and dining there.
    • with everyone moving to electronic point of sales systems the owners of lots of places of "fast food" or coffee shops these days are now setting them up so they ask for tips after any transaction, and in many cases where they previously didn't ask, those tips are not going to staff, just being collected by the owners which may be illegal in some places. Not to mention they always have three suggested tip rates, and there's no legal rule they be set to anything specific or they be in any order. So one place may be 15%, 18%, 20%, and another place may be 25%, 23%, 20%. So if you're used to hitting the first option (generally used to be 15%) automatically now you're way over-tipping your usual amount. This results in customers just not returning if they realized what happened, hurting the overall business. But like most owners / marketers they can't see past the next quarter or so of transactions and don't care about long term.
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  • [–] 3 points 4 months ago

    Whenever I hear anything about US, I am just realising again and again how I never want to visit this sick country.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    Keller said he's changed the system so customers with reservations have to pre-pay for drinks, including a service charge. "It's just to protect our staff," he said.

    Protect your staff by paying them ffs.

    If tips combined with wages do not reach the state minimum of $7.25, the employer must make up the difference. "If they don't receive any tips, it's impossible to survive in the service industry," Thurnher said.

    If your minimum wage is lower than a living wage, your system sucks.

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    Not sure why media is trying to make this a thing, it isn't. There's thousands and thousands of posts/videos by visiting Europeans saying they're pissed because they were lied to about America being a shit hole and everyone there is selfish and rude.

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  • [+] -21 points 4 months ago (7 children)

    No one asked them to go there, and it is all known and written in so many subs what the US tipping culture is about. Own fault. They should stop behave like 5 year old.

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    Being unaware of local customs isn't a good reason to complain about them. Just learn them. If you travel without taking five minutes to understand the local culture, don't be surprised when you run into unpleasant surprises.

    Not hard to understand, innit?

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago (1 child)

    It's not, but it's a problem of "unknown unknowns". People look up mandatory vaccines, which health insurances actually cover them there, which part of town to avoid etc. Not "am I randomly expected to give money to people?".

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