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[–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

Oh man. Kinda triggered by this.

In my early 20s, (20 years ago) I became entangled with my first girlfriend. It was awful, but I somehow believed that relationships were about "making it work" which I interpreted to mean coping with whatever abuse.

She was a compulsive liar. I'd never encountered anything like that before.

I remember thinking that her lies were my fault because I'd asked her about something that she didn't want to tell the truth about. Wow, that was a trip.

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