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[–] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

have you ever just not asked someone because you already knew they were going to lie anyway?

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Oh man. Kinda triggered by this.

    In my early 20s, (20 years ago) I became entangled with my first girlfriend. It was awful, but I somehow believed that relationships were about "making it work" which I interpreted to mean coping with whatever abuse.

    She was a compulsive liar. I'd never encountered anything like that before.

    I remember thinking that her lies were my fault because I'd asked her about something that she didn't want to tell the truth about. Wow, that was a trip.

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