▲ 131 ▼ If someone gave you this for tea would you be delighted or repulsed? (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone) submitted 1 day ago by LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/casualuk@feddit.uk 69 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago (16 children) Having the knife on the left is truly deranged. permalink fedilink source hideshow 16 child comments replies: [–] Adonis1172@feddit.uk 0 points 1 day ago (15 children) Im confused. Thats right isnt it? Its how I have mine. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 15 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (14 children) No. Forks on left and knife and spoon on right. Though I guess if you are left handed you could reverse it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago (13 children) This never made any sense to me. I'm right handed and use my fork in my right hand. It should go on the right side of the plate. Just because some aristocrats made up some bullshit about "etiquette" hundreds of years ago, doesn't mean it makes any god damn sense, or that we should have to still follow it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (12 children) It's because when you use a knife and a fork, which is kind of the opening move of the entree course really, you're using the knife with your right hand and your left hand holding the fork. Pretty simple. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (8 children) that's absolutely unhinged, why?? i keep my fork in my dominant hand and use the knife with my other hand. I'd go insane switching forking hands like this! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (2 children) The idea is that you use the knife in your dominant hand, probably because it requires some kind of precision when cutting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 child) I've found I can be precise enough cutting with my non dominant hand! but to be fair I suppose I'm also a bassist and keyboardist so I'm extremely accustomed to doing intricate things with both hands?? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (4 children) I'm sorry you were never taught how to use a knife properly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children) I have zero issues using a knife? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (2 children) I don't do that though. Fork is always in my right hand when eating. Only time that is swapped is if I am carving a large chunk of meat to serve. I remember being taught to do it the way you described. But its stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (1 child) It's not stupid, it's better to use your dominant hand when you're cutting with a knife. It's extremely un stupid. It's the safer and more precise way to cut things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago I agree in most other situations. It just feels unnecessary for cutting food right before eating. The fork in your right hand stabilizes the food being cut. The plate is usually very stable on a table. Of the countless times I have cut myself with a knife I was using for various tasks. Not once has been while cutting food on my plate while eating it. I am convinced the safety argument is merely an attempt to justify something that is simply a table manners thing decided arbitrarily by some bored noble. The other excuse I have heard for it is that constantly having to put the knife down, and switch fork hands, slows down how fast people eat. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Adonis1172@feddit.uk 0 points 1 day ago (15 children) Im confused. Thats right isnt it? Its how I have mine. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 15 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (14 children) No. Forks on left and knife and spoon on right. Though I guess if you are left handed you could reverse it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago (13 children) This never made any sense to me. I'm right handed and use my fork in my right hand. It should go on the right side of the plate. Just because some aristocrats made up some bullshit about "etiquette" hundreds of years ago, doesn't mean it makes any god damn sense, or that we should have to still follow it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (12 children) It's because when you use a knife and a fork, which is kind of the opening move of the entree course really, you're using the knife with your right hand and your left hand holding the fork. Pretty simple. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (8 children) that's absolutely unhinged, why?? i keep my fork in my dominant hand and use the knife with my other hand. I'd go insane switching forking hands like this! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (2 children) The idea is that you use the knife in your dominant hand, probably because it requires some kind of precision when cutting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 child) I've found I can be precise enough cutting with my non dominant hand! but to be fair I suppose I'm also a bassist and keyboardist so I'm extremely accustomed to doing intricate things with both hands?? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (4 children) I'm sorry you were never taught how to use a knife properly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children) I have zero issues using a knife? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (2 children) I don't do that though. Fork is always in my right hand when eating. Only time that is swapped is if I am carving a large chunk of meat to serve. I remember being taught to do it the way you described. But its stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (1 child) It's not stupid, it's better to use your dominant hand when you're cutting with a knife. It's extremely un stupid. It's the safer and more precise way to cut things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago I agree in most other situations. It just feels unnecessary for cutting food right before eating. The fork in your right hand stabilizes the food being cut. The plate is usually very stable on a table. Of the countless times I have cut myself with a knife I was using for various tasks. Not once has been while cutting food on my plate while eating it. I am convinced the safety argument is merely an attempt to justify something that is simply a table manners thing decided arbitrarily by some bored noble. The other excuse I have heard for it is that constantly having to put the knife down, and switch fork hands, slows down how fast people eat. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (14 children) No. Forks on left and knife and spoon on right. Though I guess if you are left handed you could reverse it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 14 child comments replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago (13 children) This never made any sense to me. I'm right handed and use my fork in my right hand. It should go on the right side of the plate. Just because some aristocrats made up some bullshit about "etiquette" hundreds of years ago, doesn't mean it makes any god damn sense, or that we should have to still follow it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (12 children) It's because when you use a knife and a fork, which is kind of the opening move of the entree course really, you're using the knife with your right hand and your left hand holding the fork. Pretty simple. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (8 children) that's absolutely unhinged, why?? i keep my fork in my dominant hand and use the knife with my other hand. I'd go insane switching forking hands like this! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (2 children) The idea is that you use the knife in your dominant hand, probably because it requires some kind of precision when cutting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 child) I've found I can be precise enough cutting with my non dominant hand! but to be fair I suppose I'm also a bassist and keyboardist so I'm extremely accustomed to doing intricate things with both hands?? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (4 children) I'm sorry you were never taught how to use a knife properly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children) I have zero issues using a knife? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (2 children) I don't do that though. Fork is always in my right hand when eating. Only time that is swapped is if I am carving a large chunk of meat to serve. I remember being taught to do it the way you described. But its stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (1 child) It's not stupid, it's better to use your dominant hand when you're cutting with a knife. It's extremely un stupid. It's the safer and more precise way to cut things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago I agree in most other situations. It just feels unnecessary for cutting food right before eating. The fork in your right hand stabilizes the food being cut. The plate is usually very stable on a table. Of the countless times I have cut myself with a knife I was using for various tasks. Not once has been while cutting food on my plate while eating it. I am convinced the safety argument is merely an attempt to justify something that is simply a table manners thing decided arbitrarily by some bored noble. The other excuse I have heard for it is that constantly having to put the knife down, and switch fork hands, slows down how fast people eat. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago (13 children) This never made any sense to me. I'm right handed and use my fork in my right hand. It should go on the right side of the plate. Just because some aristocrats made up some bullshit about "etiquette" hundreds of years ago, doesn't mean it makes any god damn sense, or that we should have to still follow it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (12 children) It's because when you use a knife and a fork, which is kind of the opening move of the entree course really, you're using the knife with your right hand and your left hand holding the fork. Pretty simple. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (8 children) that's absolutely unhinged, why?? i keep my fork in my dominant hand and use the knife with my other hand. I'd go insane switching forking hands like this! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (2 children) The idea is that you use the knife in your dominant hand, probably because it requires some kind of precision when cutting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 child) I've found I can be precise enough cutting with my non dominant hand! but to be fair I suppose I'm also a bassist and keyboardist so I'm extremely accustomed to doing intricate things with both hands?? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (4 children) I'm sorry you were never taught how to use a knife properly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children) I have zero issues using a knife? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (2 children) I don't do that though. Fork is always in my right hand when eating. Only time that is swapped is if I am carving a large chunk of meat to serve. I remember being taught to do it the way you described. But its stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (1 child) It's not stupid, it's better to use your dominant hand when you're cutting with a knife. It's extremely un stupid. It's the safer and more precise way to cut things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago I agree in most other situations. It just feels unnecessary for cutting food right before eating. The fork in your right hand stabilizes the food being cut. The plate is usually very stable on a table. Of the countless times I have cut myself with a knife I was using for various tasks. Not once has been while cutting food on my plate while eating it. I am convinced the safety argument is merely an attempt to justify something that is simply a table manners thing decided arbitrarily by some bored noble. The other excuse I have heard for it is that constantly having to put the knife down, and switch fork hands, slows down how fast people eat. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (12 children) It's because when you use a knife and a fork, which is kind of the opening move of the entree course really, you're using the knife with your right hand and your left hand holding the fork. Pretty simple. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (8 children) that's absolutely unhinged, why?? i keep my fork in my dominant hand and use the knife with my other hand. I'd go insane switching forking hands like this! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (2 children) The idea is that you use the knife in your dominant hand, probably because it requires some kind of precision when cutting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 child) I've found I can be precise enough cutting with my non dominant hand! but to be fair I suppose I'm also a bassist and keyboardist so I'm extremely accustomed to doing intricate things with both hands?? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (4 children) I'm sorry you were never taught how to use a knife properly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children) I have zero issues using a knife? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (2 children) I don't do that though. Fork is always in my right hand when eating. Only time that is swapped is if I am carving a large chunk of meat to serve. I remember being taught to do it the way you described. But its stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (1 child) It's not stupid, it's better to use your dominant hand when you're cutting with a knife. It's extremely un stupid. It's the safer and more precise way to cut things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago I agree in most other situations. It just feels unnecessary for cutting food right before eating. The fork in your right hand stabilizes the food being cut. The plate is usually very stable on a table. Of the countless times I have cut myself with a knife I was using for various tasks. Not once has been while cutting food on my plate while eating it. I am convinced the safety argument is merely an attempt to justify something that is simply a table manners thing decided arbitrarily by some bored noble. The other excuse I have heard for it is that constantly having to put the knife down, and switch fork hands, slows down how fast people eat. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (8 children) that's absolutely unhinged, why?? i keep my fork in my dominant hand and use the knife with my other hand. I'd go insane switching forking hands like this! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 8 child comments replies: [–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (2 children) The idea is that you use the knife in your dominant hand, probably because it requires some kind of precision when cutting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 child) I've found I can be precise enough cutting with my non dominant hand! but to be fair I suppose I'm also a bassist and keyboardist so I'm extremely accustomed to doing intricate things with both hands?? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (4 children) I'm sorry you were never taught how to use a knife properly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children) I have zero issues using a knife? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (2 children) The idea is that you use the knife in your dominant hand, probably because it requires some kind of precision when cutting. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 child) I've found I can be precise enough cutting with my non dominant hand! but to be fair I suppose I'm also a bassist and keyboardist so I'm extremely accustomed to doing intricate things with both hands?? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 child) I've found I can be precise enough cutting with my non dominant hand! but to be fair I suppose I'm also a bassist and keyboardist so I'm extremely accustomed to doing intricate things with both hands?? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 point 23 hours ago Not a musician, but same. My left hand is perfectly dexterous enough to handle cutting pieces of food being held with a fork in the other hand. Its not surgery. I don't need my piece of meat to be cut to mm precision. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (4 children) I'm sorry you were never taught how to use a knife properly permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children) I have zero issues using a knife? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children) I have zero issues using a knife? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (2 children) Doesn't sound like it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 0 points 2 hours ago (1 child) weird hill to die on permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 point 5 minutes ago That it's safer to use sharp objects with your dominate hand? No, pretty sane and normal hill I think. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (2 children) I don't do that though. Fork is always in my right hand when eating. Only time that is swapped is if I am carving a large chunk of meat to serve. I remember being taught to do it the way you described. But its stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (1 child) It's not stupid, it's better to use your dominant hand when you're cutting with a knife. It's extremely un stupid. It's the safer and more precise way to cut things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago I agree in most other situations. It just feels unnecessary for cutting food right before eating. The fork in your right hand stabilizes the food being cut. The plate is usually very stable on a table. Of the countless times I have cut myself with a knife I was using for various tasks. Not once has been while cutting food on my plate while eating it. I am convinced the safety argument is merely an attempt to justify something that is simply a table manners thing decided arbitrarily by some bored noble. The other excuse I have heard for it is that constantly having to put the knife down, and switch fork hands, slows down how fast people eat. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] njm1314@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago (1 child) It's not stupid, it's better to use your dominant hand when you're cutting with a knife. It's extremely un stupid. It's the safer and more precise way to cut things. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago I agree in most other situations. It just feels unnecessary for cutting food right before eating. The fork in your right hand stabilizes the food being cut. The plate is usually very stable on a table. Of the countless times I have cut myself with a knife I was using for various tasks. Not once has been while cutting food on my plate while eating it. I am convinced the safety argument is merely an attempt to justify something that is simply a table manners thing decided arbitrarily by some bored noble. The other excuse I have heard for it is that constantly having to put the knife down, and switch fork hands, slows down how fast people eat. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago I agree in most other situations. It just feels unnecessary for cutting food right before eating. The fork in your right hand stabilizes the food being cut. The plate is usually very stable on a table. Of the countless times I have cut myself with a knife I was using for various tasks. Not once has been while cutting food on my plate while eating it. I am convinced the safety argument is merely an attempt to justify something that is simply a table manners thing decided arbitrarily by some bored noble. The other excuse I have heard for it is that constantly having to put the knife down, and switch fork hands, slows down how fast people eat. permalink fedilink source parent