I don't know how some people stay on [big social media] while constantly hating being on [big social media].

Two men are talking. One says "I hate social media now. Its all ads and ragebait." The second man says "why not the fediverse? Its community ran and not focused on engagement metrics so its..." The first man cuts him off, "Nah, I'm done signing up for any social media. Everything I've been on is just to toxic." Then the man continues to doomscroll on social media.
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[–] 6 points 2 weeks ago (14 children)

I won't be responsible for what uninformed people do. And it is my opinion that Lemmy is only just a little better than the rest. I still hate social media, even if I'm still here.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 weeks ago (11 children)

    As a former (and maybe even current but reforming) sourpuss, you're just making the universe worse by doing this kind of thing.

    Please brighten up or butt out for everyone's sake - including yours.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

    Not former from what I'm seeing...

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  • [–] 1 point 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (6 children)

    You can feel that my attempt at constructive criticism of their toxicity is itself toxic; that's entirely subjective.

    Some people (including you?) earnestly believe any criticism is inherently mean. I passionately disagree and probably always will.

    For related reading:

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance

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  • [–] 1 point 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    Nope. 100% wrong. It's not the criticism it's the manner in which you convey it. That's why I said sourpuss. Cuz that's what you sound like.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

    If you say so. I used as much pleasant language as I could. Feel free to constructively criticize others in a way that suits you, and hopefully someone snipes you for not being pleasant enough so you feel how I feel.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    Block time. I wish you peace and professional help.

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