I can absolutely relate. The dominant cissexism within our society (which we’ve all internalized, to some degree) has told us you’re only valid as a trans woman if you’re “pre-op” or “post-op” which is super alienating to those of us who aren’t either. I’m happy for folks that get the surgery they need, absolutely, but I have definitely felt like I’m wrong for not having bottom dysphoria.

You’re not a poser, you are a woman, and your anatomy does not contradict that. Girldick is a blessing on this earth.