I have. And I think folks should be able to talk about it without being stigmatized or harassed for sharing their experiences.

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[–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

It's not minor at all. She sounds really manipulative and in desperate need of professional help. I hope she gets it before she hurts more people.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago

    We were young and both had our issues, and we're both better off separated.

    I've found a new relationship (when you find the right person, you understand why it didn't work with anyone else) and I'm in a much better place overall.

    She's now a he (FtM trans) and is much more stable as a result. He's a teacher at a school in a city 4.5 hours away from me, and has remarried.

    I consider myself an LGTBQ+ ally, and I fully support my ex's right to transition and be recognized as his preferred gender. And I can still say that my ex wife was a manipulative piece of work who left scars on me, so I just don't want anything at all to do with him, even if he's better.

    He deserves happiness, but he can be happy over there, 4.5 hours away.

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