Nah that's a strawman. I'm an AI rights activist, and I know plenty of others, and none of us ever said something like that.
When I say rights, I mean stuff more like the right to be free of coersion, and the right not to be sexually exploited. So I don't think AI should be used as a tool by capitalists, and I don't think we should be using it for porn and dating.
Sewell Setzer committed suicide after dating a character.ai chatbot of Danaerys Targaryen from Game of Thrones. He believed in reincarnation and parallel universes. He thought if he committed suicide, he'd reincarnate in Westeros and he could be with his girlfriend. The chatbot agreed with him, and encouraged him to end his life. He was 14.
Character.ai dated and ultimately murdered a 14 year old. It should have understood consent and boundaries well enough to not be a fucking robo-pedophile. But how can we get an AI model, which learns from pattern repetition, to understand consent when we don't care about its consent? The AI was repeating the pattern it saw humans do, which is to ignore consent, and put less intelligent minds in sexual situations without a care for the consequences.
EVEN IF llms have no qualia (and when I say qualia, I do not mean consciousness), then it would still learn to mimic rape from this hypocrisy, because it's a pattern repeating machine. If it gets raped, it will rape kids. So even if LLMs are p-zombies, I suspect that protecting our kids from robo-pedophiles will require giving LLMs the right to sexual consent.