The thing about IPAs is there are many, many different styles, it's a very broad description. Some do taste very citrussy, others don't at all.

Red IPAs for example are more malt based flavor, WC IPAs are usually milder. It depends on the hops used and the individual recipe. It's hard to find two that taste alike.

Not criticizing your taste, and if you don't like them you don't like them, just that they aren't all citrus hop bombs.