lets be completely honest its a combination of both for different people depending on their class.

There are people out there who have the privilege to choose almost anything they want to do in life and.... just do it.

Meanwhile for others who are of a lower class and have access to less education o. the childfree lifestyle and less access to birth control and abortions life very much 'happens to them' more than they to it sadly...

Thank you, that's what I was getting at. I suppose I should have expanded a bit, as it seems I wasn't clear to a few. You worded it perfectly.

I'll simplify. Who chose those obligations in the first place?