I've kind of settled for a non-binary presentation in meatspace, even though I feel like I want more than that. The reason for that is my partner. She's a straight cis woman, and she's pretty clearly not there for a lesbian relationship; even when I femme up a little, she seems to have a hard time with it, though bless her, she tries. I'm pretty sure that, if I did transition, that'd be the end of us, and I don't want us to end.
I'd die for that woman. In a way, I guess I am.