Hold up. Organic just means containing carbon which is the building block of life.
This leads to a strange statement like organic farmers shun organic pesticides.
Only that isn't actually the truth. Oganic farmers can still use pesticides. There is some nuance here but for the most part organic farmers use 30% less pesticides. In some circumstances organic farmers may even apply more pesticides than a regular farmer on a single spraying.
So the person you were arguing with isn't completely wrong and you are not completely right.