Ugh yeah, also this.

I've encountered a truly depressing amount of self proclaimed 'anarchists' who've gone on and fucking on about how if they could just organise their own paramilitaries and forcibly take over the governments to impose 'totally not fascist, we're the good guys!' mandatory regimes of wealth and resource redistribution on the public, they could really fix everything...

And the worst part is that I get it, I was also once a naive and optimistic teenager who read Marx and thought that if I could just explain things to people the right way they'd get it too, and we could fix everything wrong with the world together because most people were fundamentally good and would want to make the world better, if I could just get them to understand Marxist theory...

Lmao, it was fucking soul crushing realising that's not actually how anything works.

At least back then I wasn't on about paramilitaty takeovers and 'anarchism' though, like I get why more people are armchair revolutionary-ing to those extremes now but that's just so much more fucking stupid than believing people are 'mostly good and should read Marx'.

I try not to interract with these types of people any more, I just wish I could stop seeing them pop up so often.

Isn't that why the Occupy protests never really went anywhere? There was no plan for afterward.

Yeah I was one of those people. I still kinda am. But I agree with your sentiment. The biggest risk of turning things violent is that there's more likely a chance for an authoritarian system to emerge than a truly egalitarian socialist one.

So I've decided that the best thing is to try to figure out ways to develop alternative stuff to market systems. Grow your own vegetables. Host your own cloud storage/streaming service. Try to contribute to ongoing projects in your community to help realize that(volunteer at free clinics, food pantries) and try to join an organization.