You're not helping your case by telling people who actually get laid regularly "don't be a cuck," though. If you don't want people to throw you in that handbasket, then maybe stop giving them reason to do so through the way you speak and present yourself? Then turning around and blaming them for it?
I mean, I definitely don't feel like a cuck because a woman with serious issues that stemmed from trauma stopped talking to me (and later admitted to stalking me afterwards, wondering what I was up to), when I was dating someone new who was a better fit for me within six months (a beautiful punky redhead with a killer rack). Nevermind that this was also all 22 years ago for me. Nevermind that I've also never wanted to get married or have kids. She's doing well now, has kids, is married to someone kind and loving, and I'm happy for her for that. I'm happy she worked through her trauma and didn't keep going down the same path of submitting to abuse.
You're giving people lots of people good reasons to make such assumptions and then you blame them for not knowing your personal history after some throwaway internet posts where you make some seriously misogynistic statements and aren't initially giving your background. You don't have to be steeped in machismo to be a misogynist, in fact it can be argued that the 4chan incel crowd feel the same, which is where all the talk about "Chads and Staceys" comes from, where they, like you feel not attractive, feel like they have bad social skills, and get angry at the world for not holding their hand like a baby through it instead of making an effort to do better themselves, even if it takes a long time, a lot of effort, a lot of pain, and a lot of rejection.
But as I said elsewhere, you obviously need help. We all need help. But you won't be able to move forward until you accept help and accept your own part in how all this works instead of all the blame being on external factors and external actors. We absolutely play a part in how others perceive us and judge us, and we can't always blame others for those rationally made judgments if we're giving them good reasons to hold those judgments.