This might be a hard pill, but... A lot of selfish people like to be selfish, selfishly. The point of a community is doing a bit more work personally or sometimes making a light sacrifice so that others do better as well.

You should actually slow down and re-read your statement, maybe you don't know how you sound? Feels like you have kind of a , "sure, I could help out homeless people with some spare change, but where is my personal benefit in that? Now, im always very happy to find the person that I give $.50 in change to and they give me a dollar back to defy the stereotype, but those people are few and far between IME."

Dude, give your AI girlfriend some crypto so you can ask her a question, and then ask her to define "empathy" for you.

I'm sorry if any of that is a hard pill to swallow.