I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it's time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I'll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.

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[–] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

That's true. Or at least, it won't directly. There are other people in the thread that had better luck as soon as they changed their attitude a bit, but I don't know your situation and can't guarantee anything.

It's more a question of if you've actually left the movement, or actually were in it in the first place. It's called "incel", but it's specifically about blaming women for said celibacy. And it makes a world of difference to other people if you blame them, or maybe even wish them harm.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Nah, I saw a contra points vid on incels, it was a bit of empathy that veered me away from that movement, even thought I really didn't go deep in it in the first place.

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