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[–] -2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Bringing up every connected possibility is not always warranted or needed. We don't need to soil every attempt at optimism by bringing up every toxic alternative just because. Optimism is hard enough to hold onto already. We should be mindful of needlessly weakening that.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

    If your optimism is lost by considering other aspects of the situation then i would argue you aren't optimistic, you're distracted or deluded.

    An optimist would see the other aspects and remain positive, because that's optimism -- just how the opposite would go for a pessimist.

    Someone purposefully ignoring or avoiding other aspects ofnthe situation is seeking distraction or delusion, imo, and wouldn't be considered optimistic.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    "We should be mindful of how disruptive our comments are."

    "You're not really an optimist. You're just deluded."

    What a reasonable and well meant response.

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