[–] 3 points 5 days ago (1 child)

Many people transition later in life. Someone in my friend group only transitioned in her mid 40s.

You don't have to go all the way in one shot, too. A different friend just dabbled by painting nails and changing hair cuts for a while.

Talk to a therapist, probably.

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  • [–] 94 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    One time in college Friend A was going to drive us someplace. She started the car and said, "You ready, baby?"

    Friend B in the front seat went, "...yeah?"

    Friend A snapped, "I was talking to the car"

    Dunno why I still think about that sometimes. Lost touch with those friends years ago.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    There's a lot of people who are like "I don't want to pay for someone else!"

    Those people should be scooped up and sent right to therapy. And maybe some basic social studies classes. And maybe a religious teacher if their faith instructs them to be kind and charitable to others.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    I mean, I guess that's technically true for some people. Unfortunately, most people aren't in a position to fire anyone or force them to learn anything. And the people who do have that power typically don't care or understand the problem. Whatever capitalist husk is calling the shots isn't going to want to spend money training their HR goons to learn software development.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

    I don't think they can. HR seems to be full of people who are trying to hire for roles they don't understand. Everyone who works in web development has probably encountered stuff like "Do you know java or javascript? Either is fine" from HR screening calls.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 weeks ago

    Yeah, exactly. People think capitalism means competition, but that's not a great definition of it. It means capital gets to call the shots and keep the profits, even when they're not doing any meaningful work.

    You could have any number of companies competing that are worker owned.

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