Which of the two has more rights than the other? Which is more likely to have their bodily autonomy removed by law in most of the world? Which is statistically more likely to be raped or killed by a partner or relative? I'll give you a hint: it's not the one referring to people as flesh lights.

My partner's parents beat her and exploited her for labor and said she couldn't transition because she was "an extension of her father in the same way as a limb". But sure her parents cared and had her best interests at heart /s

Yeah man you stick it to those immoral shoplifters. Better snitch to the pigs even though you oppose government but it's fine cause of what? Boosting diapers from walmart is worse than state violence?

You're an anarchist but you're against shoplifting??? Holy shit I met the most pathetic fucking loser on Lemmy and that's saying something

I'm polyamorous and believe the concept of found family can be genuinely wonderful and essential for those with abusive families growing up. But many go into it with rose tinted glasses and don't take into account any biases or do the work to undo any power dynamics. For example if there's a big imbalance in income/financial resources you NEED to work to balance that and not end up taking advantage of someone dependent on you cause even well meaning people will do so unconsciously. My partner makes significantly more money than me or her other partner and tbh I could not afford to house myself on my own. So the money is pooled and split into 3 separate accounts in our polycule to avoid the possibility of abuse. It's not perfect. If she really wanted to she could cut me off from any future money but I have savings and autonomy over the money I do have access to. I do a lot of housework but i work with the other two to spread it more evenly and minimize our labor so I don't end up becoming the polycule maid (which has happened in past arrangements).

How's that boot taste loser?

No it would not. Harvey Weinstein doesn't have a working dick and still assaulted several women. Castration will do nothing.

I think the part of your comment about truces speaks volumes about your mindset. Well behaved victims who keep the peace while we are raped and killed is preferable to you then us expressing our anger. Conflict is just too distressing and uncomfortable to you. You would tell the black family who's children were lynched to just negotiate with white supremacists and that it's wrong to feel hate in their heart. Tell the cis women who are forced to carry their rapists fetus or the trans women put into government sanctioned sexual slavery in men's prisons that they should uphold their end of the truce. Go fuck yourself with a fistful of rusted razors you gutless sack of shit.

"nobody gives a shit about misandry on Lemmy" idk given the sheer amount of comments on this post alone I think Lemmy is full of butthurt dudes crying "misandry bad". If it's any consolation I don't consider you "one of the good ones". Queer men still benefit from (and often uphold) the patriarchy.

Here's the difference: Me getting angry and hating men has no material impact on men's lives. No policy under a patriarchal system will be enacted to empower women at the expense of men. Men hating women leads to laws restricting our autonomy. Men hating women leads them to commit rape, exploitation, beatings, and murders. But sure it's totally a "both sides" thing.

I don't hate men for their genitals. I hate men because they're men whether they have penises, vaginas, or any other arrangement. And no, hating my oppressors does not add to anyone's oppression.

TERFs don't hate men fyi. They hate trans people, specifically trans women. They actually love allying with sexist conservative men. Also consider the power involved in someone's hatred. If a white person hates black people it results in discrimination and violence because our society is white supremacist and specifically benefits white people for upholding anti black racism. If a black person hates white people it has virtually no effect on white people because our society is white supremacist. It's the same deal with women who hate men.