Literally how I feel when someone like my mom describes their ideal man. Like I don’t know any guy that would fit that image, but I know plenty of butch women.

Funny enough, no partner I’ve had ever asked for a position based on my shape. And from my experience, the vibe of a position plus the kind of movement does far more, it’s not like the tip has to do all the work, there’s an entire body behind it ;)

Discourse about curves used to make me super insecure, it sucks to hear that one’s thing points opposite to the “desired” direction. Nowadays it feels extremely superficial, because if you pay attention to your partner it really doesn’t matter what you’ve got. People are so different and varied that any partner is basically a whole different experience.

Looks yummy ^^ I want some now :0

People I approve of preferred I feel, so I did.

And then everything else happened… :P

I feel called out :0 Tho I have managed to rationalize my self back into feeling so I think we’re good ^^

Not sure if they are exactly “erogenous” for me, but my shoulders started feeling intimate to touch and my cheeks feel nice to rub.

Zip up allowed me to regulate heat better.

You’re literally proving my point. Dismiss what I said and then claim I’m “denouncing the genuine attempts”, a thing I literally didn’t do and also something I would full heartedly support you on, I literally said I’m all on board except for this one thing. All I pointed out was that a minority gets shafted and prosecuted as a threat for no reason, but apparently that is too much to acknowledge, so instead you deflect or ignore and then strawman me.

My reply here is largely meaningless as I’m just repeating my self over and over, so it’s more of a desperate plea for reason…

Like really? “unachievable”? All I ask for is that people like me are not treated as threats to be subdued simply for not submitting to traditional social hierarchy. If that is unachievable, then your version of communism is a betrayal! Most of us are too vulnerable to ever be a threat to the outside, prosecuting us is literally a waste of resources! The only reason I can’t join your cause is because you keep pushing me out. This is so dumb… Why is any attempt at discourse with MLs always like this?

Nicely said. I fall into the anarchist camp for that very reason, because the ML cultural vanguard routinely results in people like me getting shafted. The beautiful and intoxicating world MLs describe shatters rather violently when everyone in your particular community gets treated as some foreign actor simply for not adhering to a traditional social hierarchy. It’s hard for people like me to not see the direction ML takes communism as a complete betrayal and abandonment of the principles behind deconstructing unjust hierarchies.

A lot of people in post Warsaw Pact countries like my parents are so traumatized by this shit, that you can’t even mention the word communism around them without them throwing a tantrum. And while they are objectively wrong for doing so, the damage done to them is real and should not be ignored. And sadly, most MLs I have met so far willfully distance them selves from this or label me a foreign actor and start accusing me of reading news I’ve never heard of, or start telling me that china is not tyrannical, as if I said anything of that kind. I’m yet to have a conversation with a proud ML that doesn’t immediately become them accusing me of things I didn’t say or start recommending me books on irrelevant topics I already agree on.

That one prioritizes unifying against an actively violent existential threat while the other wants the freedoms they were promised. One is fighting the right to even breathe, the other has the luxury to think about the specifics. Both fight for the same general ideals and it’s not really a rule, there are plenty of anarchist movements outside of western countries, and vice versa.

From what I hear it’s different for everyone. In my case I’ve become extremely affectionate while my desire for penetrative intercourse (in any direction) has become super selective. I’ve also gained the ability to turn arousal on and off at will. Tho predominantly I just wanna rub my cheeks and cuddle everything.