I can fix her

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[–] 105 points 1 year ago (14 children)

"I can fix her"?

She can break me.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Twice this year, it's a him but yes. They make borderline in boys too.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago*

    Let him go. Folks all the way on bpd bullshit just leave you wrecked until you decide to stay away. Maybe he'll get better, I've had respected friends and partners who did, but it ain't worth waiting for and being broken over and over in the meantime

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (11 children)

    Both are fun. Then we can do a crazy ex girlfriend off.

    (I will win)

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    Woo! I win!

    P.S. Sorry about your trauma.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Sorry, no, compassion is a trigger for me.

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    San diego is a trigger for me.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    The word trigger is a trigger to me

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Sucks to be you then; not a trigger for me.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    No worries, it only bothers me when the person who says or writes it has no strong feelings one way or the other about San Diego 🤷

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  • [–] 62 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)

    I once dated a girl for a while but we stopped dating because she was just too BPD for me to handle. The passion & sex were great, but the mood swings, lies, paranoia, etc. were just too much.

    We remained friends though for a very long time. Went our separate ways but were always in touch. Eventually she got into drugs & dating real bad dudes, and I tried to get her to get a grip and stop the drugs & ruining her life. She ghosted me. Eventually she responded (or rather her boyfriend did) that she was in a psych ward for rehab. Our friendship resumed when she got out.

    A year later she died. I met her family at the funeral, befriended them. One day I mentioned her psych ward stay. Her mom said she was never in a psych ward. She pulled up texts on her phone from the date range when she allegedly was in the ward.

    The whole thing was a sham. She told me she was in the psych ward / rehab to get me off her back. The txt from her bf was just her.

    I miss my friend dearly, but finding that out broke my heart.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Lol, this literally happened to me once.

    Long story short, a girl I knew but always figured was way out of my league expressed interest in me. We quickly started dating, I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. A few weeks go by and she just ghosts me. Nothing for weeks, I was going nuts. Finally I get a message from her, she had checked herself into the psych ward, and wound up hooking up with one of the staff while she was there.

    Dodged a real one there...

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  • [–] 31 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Hooking up with one of the staff? Yikes

    I don't deny that you may have dodged a bullet, but I feel like the staff of a psych ward hooking up with patients is hella fucked up. Even if both people are adults, I think consent in that context is pretty dubious.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago

    wholeheartedly agree. I was but 19 years old though and less wise in the ways of the world. I occasionally try to look her up but have had no luck, I really hope she turned out ok. Been decades though.

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  • [–] 61 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    She's probably going to need a good lay after that one.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    As if she didn't get laid in the psych ward.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    There's not generally a bounty of desirable dick in the psych ward, trust me

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  • [–] 30 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Girls with grippy socks give the best blowjobs.

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    [–] 13 points 1 year ago* (7 children)

    There are enough for everyone: https://cagedladies.com/

    A lot of normal women who got into trouble, but also some crazy ones.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Fucking sliding doors moment right here, reading this comment is the proximate cause of my eventual murder and dismemberment by a big tiddy jailbird gf.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Many years ago I responded to one of these inmate pen-pal things. I did it because Susan Smith, the woman who pushed her car into a lake with her small kids in it, was one of the people on the pen-pal list. I wrote a letter, but got a boiler plate response from the prison about her no longer being on the pen-pal project due to an over whelming response.

    I remember the profile she had though, discussing how she loved rainbows, and mini mouse

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Considering the US penal system, I'd risk many are in for ridiculous things.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Definitely. But a while ago, when I first saw this site in a post, I found one young woman who had in her bio that she was very submissive and looking for a daddy. When I looked her up, I found out that she was doing 8 years or so for sexually abusing a 12 year old girl. That's what I mean when I say that there are some crazy-ass bitches on that site.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I got phone time when I was in the psychiatric hospital…

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    Don't bother. She's already perfect.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago

    This is how you become the ghost.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago

    Psych ward is always best enjoyed together. Good for You.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Hey baby, can I interest you an a folie à deux? 😉

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    Started dating a girl with bpd and have never been so excited yet so confused, my life is fucked now i think but she's super hot so whatever

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    She just called me to say she loves me then she called me an asshole and hung up

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    No, she definitely ghosted me :(

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