I'm a huge dude, and being the little spoon is what's up.

I love feeling comforted.

Haven't felt this in awhile and it sucks.

Especially since she's still right there but wants nothing to do with me.

I love snugs, front or back, don't don't matter. Sometimes I feel guilty about the time spent, but what's the point of living if you can't find a little happiness? it also sometimes ends in buttsex. i won't say who's butt

What about the lower arm of the big spoon? It's always in the way! Haven't found a way to put it somewhere where it won't a) be in the way or b) be cut off from blood circulation in minutes.

What am I doing wrong for the last 30-odd years?

This is at least the third time this user has posted this to this sub.

69 actually feels better

Until my arm goes numb on the underside...

extra points if winter

I had a terrible ex but this is one thing I miss about her. She was anemic so she was always cold and loved snuggling like this.

Not for me. My partner has to stay on his side of the bed. I’ll build a fortress of pillows and blankets before I’ll allow that kind of encroachment. No going over the neutral zone.

I still prefer he’s at least in the bed though. Sucks when one of us is sick and sleeps in the guest bed.

Which one?

I miss that so much. Married someone who can't stand having me in the bed so I sleep on the couch.

Yes, that feeling is called 'oxytocin'.