cool (lemmy.dbzer0.com)
submitted 8 months ago by to c/memes@sopuli.xyz
 

top 76 comments

sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] 166 points 8 months ago (12 children)

Oof acknowledges someone’s feelings, and bruh expresses empathy. These sentiments are important and often overlooked. You don’t have to always launch into your own story. Simply acknowledging and empathizing is a powerful way to build social bonds.

Also brevity is the soul of wit, so oof and bruh might qualify as the greatest things anyone has ever said in history.

  • source
  • hideshow 12 child comments
  • [–] 53 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    nice to see a reasonable take on this

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 5 child comments
  • [–] 35 points 8 months ago (3 children)
  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Does bruh express empathy? I've always read bruh as "bruh what are you doing" in a lot of contexts. But I can't really say it's something I use much.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    I think it depends on how you pronounce it and context. I'm used to hearing a shorter bruh with a look attached to it as a question for "what are you doing?" vs a longer bruh like "bruuuuuuh" as empathizing like "that's rough".

  • source
  • parent
  • [–] 60 points 8 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 48 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    I bring you: broof

    contributes confusion to the conversation

  • source
  • hideshow 6 child comments
  • [–] 36 points 8 months ago

    Me when the next generation comes up with slang and I don't like it:

  • source
  • [–] 31 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Showing empathy is a valuable contribution.

  • source
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] 25 points 8 months ago (7 children)

    Me being equally useless with "oof bruh".

  • source
  • hideshow 7 child comments
  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (3 children)
  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    That's easy. But you had to have been dropped on your head when you were a baby

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 23 points 8 months ago

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Backchannel_(linguistics)

    "I acknowledge that I could interject my own thoughts here, but choose not to. Please continue with that topic, I am interested."

    Of course, doesn't work as well in online forums.

  • source
  • [–] 16 points 8 months ago
    [–] 16 points 8 months ago

    That’s crazy, wow

  • source
  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago
    [–] 12 points 8 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 12 points 8 months ago
    [–] 11 points 8 months ago
    [–] 11 points 8 months ago

    bros never heard about phatic expressions💀

  • source
  • [–] 20 points 8 months ago
    [–] 10 points 8 months ago
    [–] 10 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    In my college Sociology class, my professor ran us through a couple situations, then ran them back for us. Gender-wise, women tended to make small interjections, nod their heads, etc, as the conversation went among, to indicate that they were listening. Which apparently leads into two "classic" complaints between M/F partners.

    Men tended to think that women were "always changing their minds", because the men interpreted the women's nods and interjections as agreement instead of "I'm listening to you".

    And women tended to think that men "weren't listening to them" because men never provided this feedback.

  • source
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    Gender-wise, women tended to make small interjections, nod their heads, etc, as the conversation went among, to indicate that they were listening

    Wait this isn't something everyone does?

  • source
  • parent
  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago
    [–] 9 points 8 months ago
    [–] 8 points 8 months ago

    Damn.

    Shit.

    That is whack.

  • source
  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago
    [–] 15 points 8 months ago
    [–] 7 points 8 months ago (1 child)
  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago
    [–] 5 points 8 months ago (2 children)
  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    Oof, bruh, same..

  • source
  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    I probably didn't want to have the conversation in the first place, now you want me to contribute to it too?

  • source
  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    Thats kinda the point

  • source
  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago
    [–] 7 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    The way yanks use bro or bruh is like glass in my ear. Its so boorish and stupid sounding.

  • source
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Sadly my 8 year old son has brought the term bruh home from school. I ask him not to use it but he does anyway.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    Me saying broof to actively take away from the conversation:

  • source
  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago
    [–] 2 points 8 months ago
    [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    Ding ding ding!

  • source
  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    snick

    “Oh shit! Sorry pall!”

  • source
  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    Literally nobody:

    POV: Bruh, not cool.

  • source
  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago
    [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    This is like when people repeat the joke contributing nothing to the conservation.

  • source