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[–] 78 points 8 months ago (2 children)

"Tits or ass?"

YES.

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    • [–] 42 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Such an annoying response. Personality is not on the menu. You get tits or you get ass, make your choice.

    It’s like playing a game of fuck/marry/kill with a list of celebrities and someone says “well obviously I’m going to marry my wife Charlene”. That’s not the damn game!

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    • [–] 22 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    NECK

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    • [–] 14 points 8 months ago

    I've made this mistake before, I'm going to stick with personality and tits, with the latter being far more optional.

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    [–] 14 points 8 months ago

    Way ahead of you.

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    [–] 11 points 8 months ago* (1 child)

    Fr. Is anyone attracted to a personality that has no middle ground when it comes to mood? Every emotion is cranked to 11? And not just when they're happy?

    I'm no sweet dream, but I'm a helluva night.

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    • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Tits or destiny?

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    • [–] 12 points 8 months ago (19 children)

    No, I prefer personality, you having personality disorder just makes you even better even hotter and more beautiful.

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  • [–] 33 points 8 months ago (18 children)

    Yeah it's really hot when someone distrusts you no matter how many ways you help them find to get out safely if things were to go wrong. It's so beautiful when someone can't shower for a month because there was a spider in there once and the shower still isn't clean and they smell worse than rotten milk.

    Please don't fetishize mental disability.

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (9 children)

    You literally described a lot of what my partner deals with every day. We've been married for over 8 years and they still feel uncertainty that I will leave them, or they'll go weeks without showering because that requires too many spoons and they're insomniac and haven't slept in 5 days and just eating a teacup amount of food when I make dinner for us.

    Doesn't mean I don't love them any less. Can it be frustrating? Of course. Can it be annoying? Of course. But I married this person because I love the person, disabilities and all.

    It's not fetishizing anything. Their disabilities make them 1 of 1. I married an incredibly unique individual and I love them wholeheartedly. And all the positives I get out of the relationship greatly outweigh the negative quirks.

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  • [–] -3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (8 children)

    edit: I mistook you for evil kitty

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago (6 children)

    Love how you not only assumed the reasons I love my partner but also misgendered them at the same time.

    Maybe you should sit down and think about how you view others before judging them.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (5 children)

    Sorry for the misgendering, I don't know how I messed that up.

    I thought I was paraphrasing what you said. So if you still have the patience to help me out, could you explain how the things I said were wrong?

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (4 children)

    They're autistic. Their disabilities are them. They literally make them who they are as a human. All the negatives and all the positives and all the difficulties and everything, they are who they are because of it. And I love them as a person, not despite or thanks to anything. I'm ADHD with a couple other neurospicy crap and I struggle with a lot of things. One of them is misinterpreting language on top of being dyslexic. They sometimes need to repeat or rephrase something they're telling me multiple times (and I can see they're becoming annoyed) because my brain just won't process the words correctly. But when it clicks not only do I understand but they feel proud they found the right words for me.

    Mental disorders are literally part of the person. They make the person that I/You love.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (3 children)

    edit: mistaken identity

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago* (2 children)

    What happened is you replied to Pheonixdog as if they were the person you were originally talking to named Una, which made it seem like assumption was happening, when it was just confusion.

    You replied "your comment makes it look like you love them thanks to their disabilities" to Pheonix, but it was Una's comment.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (4 children)

    I personally would consider psychological disorders or mental illnesses to be completely different to a personality disorder, but that's not a common stance to have. Regardless, i hear you.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago* (3 children)

    This is what a personality disorder is. It includes stuff like paranoia, schizophrenia, depression, and bipolar disorder.

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  • [–] 0 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Read my comment again.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago* (1 child)

    It's a rather silly comment. Experts get to decide how these things are defined. It would be like me saying "Personally, I consider a tree to be a type of rock, but I realize that isn't a common stance to have."

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  • [–] -1 points 8 months ago*

    Sure, but perhaps if you didn't just search and then copypaste a link that agreed with you, purely in an attempt at being an argumentative ass, you would see that many experts are in disagreement about the categorization of mental illnesses.

    It's almost like i knew this when i made my original comment... 🤔

    Also: petrified wood. LOL

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