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[–] 99 points 10 months ago (7 children)
  • [–] 50 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-025-19418-4.pdf

    Paper itself above. Need a deeper reading with my notes but on the surface the stats are so-so. They check normality, but don't confirm linearity (use of pmcc will not be valid without - there are also a few other conditions to check for hypothesis testing with PMCC if memory serves), use of a continuous test (PMCC, ANOVA, unpaired t's) for discrete (likert) data is also little controversial, but generally condoned.

    As for the conclusion, not a psych phd so I'll assume they know their stuff!

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  • [–] 20 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    my personal rule of thumb is that if it's published in Nature, Cell, or another well-regarded journal, the statistical and experimental methodologies are almost certainly solid. Do you think I should adjust that rule going forward?

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  • [–] 20 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Honestly, I always poke the stats no matter how good the journal. The best way to read any article is as a skeptic (the onus is on the writer to prove their point), and any small irregularity is something to be queried.

    No matter how good the journal, it's only as good as the reviewers, and reviewers are humans too. Odds are a paper in nature is all above board, but I'm somewhat of a pedant when it comes to checking test conditions.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    i do that to, i also try to find most recent research, anything older than 5+years is suspect, because they always come with revised papers in newer studies/research eventually.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago

    sometimes, but they have retracted quite a few papers based on misleading papers, or even AI rgenerated. also because it can mislead readers into thinking "oh this is the sole cause and effect" but not potential alternative scenarios.

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  • [–] 42 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    Half Life 2 graphics for maximum immersion

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  • [+] 45 points 10 months ago (3 children)
  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    I'd also be worried about the reaction being tainted by the target not being your desire. Like, I'd imagine a straight dude will be more uncomfortable being catcalled by a dude than a lady (regardless of whether their avatar is a woman or not). Obviously the study is a bit more robust than that, but it's still an inherent issue hard to circumvent just with VR.

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  • [–] -1 points 10 months ago

    What does that have to do with anything? The only reason I’d be more comfortable with a woman cat-calling me is because I’m significantly bigger than most women and my position in society lends me a lot more power and confidence. Even if a dude did it I’d be way better off than if I were a woman so I can brush it off more easily. I’m also not attracted to every woman I see so what does it matter?

    Besides, turn that around and ask yourself if you really think that a straight woman being cat-called by a man makes them feel any better. In fact, maybe the inherent lack of attraction found between a male participant and a male cat-caller actually makes the point that much stronger. “I’m not attracted to this person and yet they continue to pressure me and that makes me feel all the more unsafe”.

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  • [–] 45 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 child)

    My guess is that the men who don't think they'd be bothered by cat-calling are imagining a scenario where there are lots of other people around and the risk of being physically attacked is very low. (Something like the stereotypical image of construction workers whistling at a woman walking by them on a busy sidewalk.) Being on a nearly-empty subway platform with the only other guy nearby accosting you is a genuinely risky situation even without pretending that you're a woman.

    One time I was walking on the sidewalk when a car with several young women drove by and one of them leaned out the window and yelled something at me. I didn't hear what she said but I like to think that it was positive and it made my day, but the caveat is that I did not feel like I was in any physical danger at all from them.

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  • [–] 14 points 10 months ago*

    You said it. I compared notes, once, with my partner at the time, who occasionally dressed a bit flamboyant. Being shouted at made him feel annoyed and sad, which sucks, but he thought that put him on the same level as me.

    The difference was he could recall each time he was catcalled, and was surprised to hear it happened just about daily to me. Even more surprised to hear that sometimes when I didn't respond, guys have followed me and kept shouting. Sometimes in groups. Extremely surprised to hear that on a few occasions I've actually had to run from these groups.

    Catcalling is easy to ignore, but considering I literally had to run from strangers, I still slide my keys between my knuckles and get ready to sprint whenever I hear it.

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  • [–] 32 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    One time I was one of the very first people to play an MMO so my friends and I all grabbed up some really good names that are always taken before we start. I made six characters, two female, one of which I named “Beyonce” and put effort into making it look as much like her as possible.

    On five of the characters people pretty much ignored me entirely, as usual. But when I played Beyonce people wanted to talk to me all the time. They would constantly invite me to stuff, give me things, name drop me in chat. Just kind of gather around me in town. Even other men who were playing female characters just assumed I was a woman.

    I don’t know what it was about that character specifically, but it was a valuable insight into the life of women.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago*

    I had an extremely similar experience. It was astonishing how quick people assume you are a woman simply by having decent enough grammar and aren't a shitty person.

    At least in an MMO it's not dangerous feeling. If anything, it kind of makes it easier to lead groups since you can get people to just do stuff with you. Not great insight into being a women though, people don't generally accept female leadership irl.

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  • [–] 77 points 10 months ago (11 children)

    I wish they had tested all 8 scenarios: Male/female participant, male/female body, catcalled/not catcalled.

    Because even as a man I don't feel comfortable being alone at a subway station at night. Nor can I imagine would I then enjoy being catcalled.

    I wonder how much your VR body seen in a mirror affects this. My gut says not a lot but more data would've been great.

    Now, if your own VR body does affect your reaction there must be bodies which maximize/minimize reactions. That'd be fun to test. You don't even have to limit yourself to human bodies, what if you're, say, a dinosaur (with body height still being the same)?

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    While my first reaction was the same - "how would they react in male avatars?", that doesn't seem to be the point at all of this study but rather the potential of VR to change the subjects behaviour in real life by helping empathy along.

    Introduction
    [...]
    Peck et al.13 found that White participants, after embodying a Black avatar, showed a reduction in implicit racial bias.
    This principle has been extended to the context of gender-based violence.
    Seinfeld et al.14 had male offenders embody a female victim of domestic violence, finding that the VR experience significantly improved their ability to recognize fear in female facial expressions—a deficit common in violent offenders15.
    Similarly, other studies using 360° videos and immersive scenarios of sexual harassment have reported marked increases in empathy and changes in violent attitudes among participants16.
    [...]
    These findings collectively affirm the potential of VR as a rehabilitative tool for enhancing emotional understanding and mitigating harmful behaviors.

    Building on this foundation, the present study utilizes immersive VR to provide male participants with a firsthand experience of catcalling.
    While previous research has often focused on overt violence, our goal is to investigate the affective response to a more commonplace form of street harassment. We hypothesize that this embodied experience will elicit morally salient emotions like disgust and anger19,20,21.
    By inducing this moral discomfort, the intervention aims to foster self-awareness and encourage a reconsideration of the behavior’s impact22, serving as a potential strategy to promote behavioral change.

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  • [–] 6 points 10 months ago

    That's fair, I only really glossed over the study.

    But still, have they actually collected data to support illiciting these emotions works as a "potential strategy to promote behavioral change"? In the study, I haven't found anything like a pre and post experiment survey showing a different attitude towards catcalling. In my mind that's required to demonstrate the VR experiment is such a strategy.

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  • [+] 18 points 10 months ago (6 children)
  • [–] 25 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    I feel like if you’re going to slag off the study as “slop” you should at least follow the links to the study itself where you can see that they did in fact have a control group who were posed general questions instead of catcalling. They didn’t switch genders because that wasn’t the purpose of the study.

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  • [–] -3 points 10 months ago* (3 children)

    They didn’t switch genders because that wasn’t the purpose of the study.

    The purpose of the study being to get the results they wanted to get. That's not science.

    It's basically a study of "do people like being assaulted". No one does regardless of gender, but they took that as women don't like being assaulted and men pretending to be women don't like being assaulted. Therefore men pretending to be women in VR don't like to be assaulted.

    What sort of conclusion is that.

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  • [–] 16 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    It would help to read the study so you don't have to be wrong about things.

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  • [–] -5 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    I did read it. It's very very long though have you read all of it, I started to get bored when they started showing really complicated diagrams with no real explanation as to how they came to those conclusions.

    Social studies is like that, it's very much couched in the sort of science that you would normally expect of physics or engineering but all it's conclusions are fuzzy but they come out with these concrete graphs to explain very personal responses. I find it to be intellectually dishonest to suggest that you can represent the world like that

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  • [–] 8 points 10 months ago

    "I don't understand it so it's wrong," isn't a great way to prove a point.

    Social studies? Do you mean the neurology? Or the psychology? You know "fuzzy logic" is a form of math, right?

    Maybe you got bored when they explained what metrics they used and how they applied them.

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  • [–] 12 points 10 months ago

    Male American here. Always had a hard time internalizing women's fear, hard to truly put myself in their shoes. My first wife really woke me.

    At the major hospital she worked at, the female nurses often needed escorts through the parking garage. There were alerts about shady characters hanging around. She clearly got roofied one night, and when her friends compared notes, it had happened to many of them at that same restaurant (a really nice one!).

    I was a small guy, little punker in the late 80s and early 90s. There were places we couldn't go or the skins or rednecks would get us. And yet that doesn't even begin to compare with the fear women must deal with.

    I've had a pretty fucking wild life, but I've never been stalked, drugged or raped.

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  • [–] 22 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

    Interesting experiment.

    The article on Phys.org

    The paper on Nature.com

    Some very condensed info:

    Women disproportionately experience gender based violence and aggression in the wild. Researchers wanted to see if the experience of men being harassed and catcalled in a woman's avatar could promote empathy and understanding. This experiment on 36 male students (average age of 23) was based on other studies that found similar results, including a study on male offenders of gender based violence — to test if first-person VR experiences as women could increase pro-social behaviors.

    The students had "no prior experience" with interpersonal aggression or catcalling as victims or perpetrators, measured on a scale with a maximum threshold.

    The scene began in a bedroom, where participants were able to move and see themselves as their avatar in a mirror.

    In a control group, the participants were asked innocuous questions instead of being catcalled.

    Edit: For anyone asking: Why didn't they study why men don't feel safe? You can look up and post those studies. Nothing is stopping you. This is about the prosocial effects of this VR scenario. Need more support? !mensliberation@lemmy.ca and !mensmentalhealth@lemmy.world are two great communities to discuss men's issues.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Similar social experiments include the same fear from being on the receiving end of society when people in real life dressed as Muslims, Jews, homeless people, even as black people (much harder to do). There is such trusism as walking in the shoes of another person. Living as them for a week would be most interesting.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    Black Like Me was eye opening for a lot of people. Even John Howard Griffin, who did blackface to understand the black southern experience, and already fought for civil rights, was surprised by how he was treated.

    If I remember it right, at the beginning of his journey he had to beg and find help because he was refused service when trying to cash his travellers checks.

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  • [–] 87 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Turns out walking through a sketchy area and being harassed are scary no matter what genitalia you have.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    Yeah, but the point here is that they were posing as women with female looking avatars. One guy even says that he would have reacted differently if it was male:

    Another participant reported that he would have reacted differently had he been in the role of a man, but since he was embodying a female character, he chose instead to walk away.

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  • [–] 10 points 10 months ago

    I do kinda think everyone should have to Freaky Friday swap with anyone they disdain or don't have empathy for, and also one random swap.

    I've never been bothered by catcalling but haven't had it happen in a dangerous feeling situation.

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  • [–] 29 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Kind of unfortunate, that even here on lemmy most comments immediately flip to "but as a man I also feel scared". True, but it's not what this study is about. Maybe in 2026 we can try to just read something like this and take it as a prompt that, maybe, some things are not about us. Maybe we should do something about catcalling. We can talk about violence against men and loneliness at a different occasion.

    Living in Japan, the country famous for being completely safe for everyone, this gap recently became clearer to me. As it turns out, when people talk about safety in Japan, they primarily mean that you won't be beaten up and nobody steals your wallet. But there are so many weird creeps around here. I'm really quite happy I don't live here as a woman.

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago

    The language of the post says something that cannot be (meaningfully) derived without a control group of people that didn't experience a counterpoint: "... the situation of being a young woman alone at night in a subway station being enough to generate the sense of fear."

    As I understand it, everyone in the study experienced all of that in combination, so any subset of those things may have been enough to generate a sense of fear: being alone, being at night, being a young woman, or being on a subway station.

    The common objection I see is that everyone feels fear alone on a subway station at night, so the statement is misleading. That matches my personal experience, so I also see that statement as misleading, regardless of any work done by the study.

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  • [–] 51 points 10 months ago (16 children)

    Did anyone study the opposite? I remember reading about a woman that pretended to be a man for a few weeks to write a book about it, and she described it as something like "soul crushingly lonely".

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  • [–] 26 points 10 months ago (14 children)

    Norah Vincent. She was particularly beloved by the manosphere because her experience pretending to be a man for 18 months (not just a few weeks) lead to her "conversion" from a feminist to realising that men too have their own problems.

    Thought, she personally was already libertarian, and highly critical of trans people, so she reads more like a TERF imo.

    Sadly passed away via assisted suicide a few years ago.

    Norah Vincent - Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norah_Vincent

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (13 children)

    Which is super ironic, as feminism acknowledges mens issues.

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  • [–] 0 points 10 months ago (12 children)

    It just doesn't always feel like it takes them as seriously

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (11 children)

    Like when? Can you give me an example?

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (10 children)

    Conscription, parental treatment especially during custody battles are some of the things often talked about where I live. Especially the former one is one of the most blatant examples of men and women being treated differently. But it's not very high on the agenda for feminist orgs.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (9 children)

    What do you think is high in feminist agenda orgs? Because I don't know what you mean.

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    Their agendas focus on the current biggest issues.

    Which, if resolved correctly, would benefit at least your first problem, possibly the second one too.

    So I don't see any problem here.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago* (6 children)

    The point was the how little attention it gets. Those agendas isn't going to give anyone who finds that their main thing much hope

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (5 children)

    No, because, and I say that with love towards you, it's not a main issue right now for society.

    I understand that it is the main issue for you right now. And I need you to understand that if that's the case, you are not on the top of the priority list because there are people who are worse off.

    If you are currently battling for custody, it sounds terrible, and I feel for you. I can't imagine what's that like. If I can do anything for you, let me know.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (4 children)

    I don't onow if you're joking but you're helping to prove the point.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (3 children)

    Well, yes.

    Feminism won't fight for every issue right now.

    But it will still help you regardless of what you're missing.

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  • [–] 0 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    That gets us nicely back to start of the discussion. Feminism might recognize men's issues, it just doesn't consider them very important to deal with right now. Even when it's something like conscription that's the biggest and most blatant legal discrimination there is in my country.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (1 child)

    Nothing recognizes your specific issues right now, what do you want me to say.

    You're supposedly from Finland, which means you are better off than most of the world.

    Feminism might make draft more equal. That may not be on top of their concerns, but it's still better than anything else I can think of.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago

    That's the whole point, it might recognize the issue but it just doesn't care all that much. So of course men aren't all that hot about feminism since they're not seeing it push for issues specifically men are facing.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago

    I don't know of any studies, but I have heard anecdotes from trans men that say the same thing.

    I once read a very well put together comment by a trans man on the subject of their experience with this before and after transitioning, and basically, because men are never supposed to show emotion, their relationships lack a level of emotional intimacy at a fundamental level. They said that their relationships with other men felt hollow and largely superficial.

    It's also why men seemingly mistake friendship from women as flirting so frequently - because women can have a true emotional connection in their friendships with other women, but men can only get that same level of connection in romantic relationships or life or death scenarios such as war. Women also often treat men more coldly than they do other women as a result of this to avoid being mistaken for flirting with every man that they talk to (or because they view men as dangerous).

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  • [–] 22 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    I looked at the comments.

    I knew it was a mistake, I did it anyways.

    It sure was a mistake.

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  • [–] 14 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

    I would look at the study, while the problem is 100% real and anyone with any empathy should realize is real, to say the study supports it is a bit far fetched. Looking at the scenarios they created and the avatars, it's all a bit uncanny valley and backrooms sort of feeling. Sort of ps2 graphics but in vr.

    E: I think the conclusion puts it best, vr is a good tool for showing people what a lot of women have to deal with, and how terrible it can feel. It's like rp for people who have trouble empathizing or don't get why it matters.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    I just had surgery and have grown a new appreciation for the fear women can feel. Im a taller dude and lifted 4-5 days a week, so im fairly bigger than other guys my size, but since my surgery im so fucking fragile and have no ability to defend myself. I live in a city and walking around at night has become a whole new experience. Before I never worried much being out alone, but now I have a constant anxiety, a fear that someone will come and overpower me. Hurt me.

    I know its not entirely the same, but the fear of others in this capacity definitely makes me much more empathetic towards what I used to view as overreaction.

    Ladies, I apologize.

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  • [–] 10 points 10 months ago*

    Lady here.

    You don't have to be sorry, just stay safe and keep trying to be a good person. I wish you well on your recovery.

    edit: It's not so much about being overpowered, though that is a thing, as the mental exhaustion from having to deal with so many people who think you owe them something. The book "Verbal Judo" helped me way more than self-defense classes, I recommend it, it's the art of de-escalation by being snarky and delightful.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (11 children)

    I haven't read this study but what matters to me is, are these same men catcallers themselves? Most men I know don't catcall and already understand it's unpleasant so I'm not surprised this is their reaction

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  • [–] 6 points 10 months ago (9 children)

    There’s a numerical asymmetry to stuff like this. You could have only 1 in 1000 men be catcallers yet a single catcaller could catcall thousands of women on their way to work (stereotypically from a construction site as they walk by).

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago (7 children)

    Having done construction with temps who did this, they indeed catcall anything that looks like a female. 2 different people were like this and i yelled at both to no avail. They were also just ahitty people to even talk to. I had both of them black listed after one day.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    Construction often ends up with the worst sorts of people. I have multiple friends and family who have worked in the business and they’ve dealt with people who would regularly no-show (not even call in sick), show up drunk, high on meth, and do all kinds of dangerous / stupid stuff including throwing heavy tools down from upper floors, walking around without paying attention (and falling off scaffolding etc).

    My uncle also had to deal with mafia guys involved with construction unions.

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    The ones on meth are some of the best workers though. Get them on a task and it goes by fast.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago (1 child)

    If they’ve got ADHD. Then the meth is literally self-medicating them and allowing them to function. Non-ADHD people on meth are a different story.

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago

    I completely agree. Ive worked with both types but i dont think the problematic ones are always non adhd. It has to deal with how much meth you consume, because one meth is fine for anyone. But five meths is to much for anyone.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago (2 children)
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    Idk why but when i read this, then reread everything else i said, you just sounded like the sassy black girl i work with and i couldn't help but smile.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago*

    Glad I bring good memories and associations.

    sassy black girl

    I've known quite a few people over the years who fit that description, and I can't remember a single one I didn't think very highly of, so I'll take that as a big complement (despite very much not fitting that description myself).

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago

    One hundred percent agree with you and have experienced the catcalling from the receiving end. But I don't see how the study does anything useful or state something new. Now if they said the men involved were catcallers, that'd be interesting. I would imagine catcallers would not care about the women if they participated in a study like this

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago

    The study checked this and found that the participants claimed to have no history of catcalling.

    The study was intended to see if men would experience greater empathy with women following a VR experience of catcalling.

    Peer pressure is a real thing and telling other men that their behaviour is not OK can have real impact.

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