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[+] 87 points 1 year ago (9 children)
  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    I’m not really the demographic (30s married bi lady who’s never followed someone for boobs), but I think I get it.

    All boobs are great, but being able to interact with the owner of the boobs can make them even better, even if it’s only a theoretical interaction like when following someone on social media

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Everyone's relationships are different, but having a parasocial relationship feels more unfaithful than just watching random porn.

    At least, this is how I'd feel about a partner watching porn.

    If a future partner of mine watched a streamer of some kind of sexual nature, that would not be cool with me personally. None of my past partners have done this so, only hypothetical.

    To each their own, I guess!

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    Oh yeah, I definitely think it’s creepy, but I get it. Like asking for someone’s number at their work, it’s something I wouldn’t do but can emotionally understand, as opposed to something like stealing someone’s panties that I can cognitively understand, but I don’t get it get it.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago

    For me it was that I have a very open and casual relationship with enjoying human bodies. Yeah I think its beautiful, yeah it makes me a little horny, no I'm not ashamed that I'm attracted to and supportive of tasteful nudity on the internet.

    But the honest answer is that most men are lazy and a bit crass.

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  • [–] 54 points 1 year ago

    Farts must age you badly, dude looks rough for 40

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  • [–] 41 points 1 year ago (11 children)

    As a 40 year old unmarried and single dude I do follow some incredibly hot transwomen for fairly similar reasons. Whaddaya gonna do? I'm lonely.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    Just a note: It's trans women, two words. Trans is an adjective not a prefix, we're women that happen to be trans - Putting them together is often a dog whistle for hate groups

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I've also heard the opposite, that separating the two words is separating them from the very idea that they're inherently women, whereas conjoining them is making them whole. I suppose there's still varying interpretations.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Its not varying, trans is an adjective. They are women, they are also trans. Its not a new thing altogether, trans women are a type of woman.

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  • I'm not arguing, I understand and appreciate your input. I am just telling you the idea that was conveyed to me by a trans woman that led me to putting them together in the past. I am not implying it is something new or that what you're saying is wrong.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    I've seen some folks refer to themselves as transfems, but I've only ever seen "trans women" because putting the two words together tries to make us sound like a separate thing. Funny that you've seen the same logic for the opposite.

    But ultimately, "trans" is an adjective and a separate word. We don't say "tallwomen" or "shortwomen" because tall and short are separate from the fact that they're women.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago (3 children)

    I mean, people write baloney instead of bologna. Maybe just take the win and drown the dog whistle so it's no longer a thing.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    It's not a win, it's a way to talk about trans women by othering them and calling them something besides women

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

    I hear you, and I'm not saying that's not valid. But clearly this was not the case. And a lot of people write in whatever way that sounds like when they speak, without this fine attention to grammar - so this is bound to happen often by people that have zero intention of othering anyone.

    I think there are more important fights to pick when it comes to trans inclusivity. This could sit in the back burner a little longer, for when trans people at large are no longer in fear for their lives for existing.

    But that's just my opinion. Live your truth.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago

    I wasn't picking a fight though? I'm pointing out that someone used the wrong term for us, and explaining why that term is hurtful, with the context that there are people who use it that way on purpose to be hurtful.

    I am not accusing the OP of saying it hurtfully on purpose and I don't comprehend why you're so offended about it. Of course there are bigger discussions to be had, but this isn't the place for that and I was not trying to start some big discussion or fight. I was informing someone of a way they can be kinder to people and avoid looking like they belong to those same hate groups that want us dead.

    Not sure which part got you riled up but it sounds like we're on the same team here.

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  • May I say, "duh", or is that too subtle?

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Wait, I thought she was saying the wives follow a bunch of young women and was confused until the boobs sorted everything out.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago

    Don't mind it when its dudes openly looking for porn following very obvious porn accounts.

    Following random young women's personal accounts that aren't for hornyposting seems weird.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago

    Well spoken, FART MONSTER TWO K

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    Ooooooooooooooooh

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