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[–] 20 points 1 year ago

I bet everyone here has a ton of these. I have a large abandoned footprint in several spaces, especially when engaged in projects. Like on YT, search is garbage, but I posted the only reference available for several tasks and projects.

Heck, I have never been able to find it again, but back in the first year of YouTube I posted a few times about clay prototyping and fiberglass composites for custom auto body parts. That was long long before people were doing tutorial like content. It took forever to upload that potato quality junk too.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I remove people if they haven't been online in over 2 years. Clearly they have moved on.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (2 children)

    I don't know anyone who talks like that...

    Funny story though I randomly responded to a text received 4 years ago

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  • [–] 44 points 1 year ago

    I know someone who killed themself, his mum logged into his account to tell me as she remembered him saying my name quite a bit. That was not a conversation I was prepared for.

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  • [–] 41 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    a close friend of mine from highschool died of cancer.

    last online 9 years ago, i miss those dota matches with him.

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  • [–] 52 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I remember reading about something along those lines a few years ago.

    When we were kids running around with our childhood friends every summer, we thought it would never end, that we would be and stay friends forever.

    Then one day, we run home, wave goodbye and say 'see you later!' ..... and without us knowing, or being aware of it, that was the last time we saw our childhood friend.

    We might have lived next to one another, or went to the same high school later on or even went to the same college ... we never saw our friend again.

    We never knew and we were never aware of when we said goodbye or saw our friend for the last time.

    I think about my old childhood friends ... I'm middle aged now ... some of those friends died young, some got married and had a bunch of kids ... a few had hard lives and became addicts ... one of them is a vegetable after having suffered an overdose ... and many of them just went on and had small families and did OK.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago

    For most of human history children would be right to think this. Most people never left the town they grew up in. I think there is a bit of sad beauty to kids assuming they'll always be friends.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago

    You’ll probably never know when they die :(

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  • [–] 24 points 1 year ago

    I befriended someone online through a video game and we became steam friends. We talked a lot about the game, but also non game topics. When one of us went AFK for awhile the other would check in and ask what was new in life. We wished each other happy birthday and holidays. One time I mentioned to him that my spouse would inform him if something unexpected happened to me, like I got hit by a bus or something. And I asked him to do the same because I would wonder forever. He wasn't comfortable with it. But that guy is still my buddy IMO even though I don't know his real name.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I run an online D&D game with people I don't know IRL, and I just kinda accept that one day I'm probably going to have a heart attack and disappear, and that's okay.

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    [–] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I used to have a small crew that I would play Left For Dead 1 and 2 on Xbox with. We would all get on mics and get drunk and/or high the whole time. When random people hopped in to play humans vs zombies matches, we would hype them and welcome them. Always tried to be the group that didn’t deter players or talk shit. Had a lot of fun sessions that would go to 3 or 4 AM. I haven’t seen them online in ages.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Showing my age here, but my similar story was in #warezart on ethernet (IRC). We had a pretty tight group of regulars. I spent nearly every day there for over 5 years starting in 1995.

    It was unusual then that we were from all over. We had a mod in New Zealand, some euros, a bunch of americans from all over and a handful of canadians. But hanging out like we were in each other's living rooms.

    A bunch of us actually met up in person at the Siggraph trade show once and even made matching tshirts. lol.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    Ahh this is awesome. Funny enough, before I was a web dev, I was a graphic artist. Showing my age as well, my first version of Photoshop was 5 and I learned how to edit on old PowerMacs in high school. In the early 2000s I was on a forum with a similar group of folks. I think I was the only one with formal training, so I’d design forum signatures for everyone, as well as show people how to do their own graphics (as well as where to ahem acquire the software to do so).

    I got into IRC and all of those tools late in life, but forums were fun back in the day.

    I always wanted to checkout Siggraph but never got the chance.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago

    The world finds new ways to teach every generation the lesson of impermanence.

    Impermanence is the very essence of joy-the drop of bitterness that enables one to perceive the sweet.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    Man that stings more than stepping on a thumbtack

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I'm missing global chat in coc

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