I mean none of these are actually pornographic ...

I thought this place was supposed to be "free", just how much of a user and speech genocide is happening on the backend that there isn't a single porn server on the whole fediverse ?

I mean, I did notice that you can't say duck the ducking duckers but I thought that was just a little quirk of my randomnly chosen lemmy instance and it wouldn't be a problem once I leave this server for my own, greener, self-hosted pastures ...

But what's up ? Is this place also infected with the depraved virulent anti-human morality of americans and their infinite hatred of the sight of the human body ?

What else are you HIDING from me Lemmy ? What other thought have you been making me UNTHINK ?

I'm quite pissed right now

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[–] 34 points 1 year ago*

Most of it is over on lemmynsfw.com and lemmit.online (they are more of a reddit mirror though)

lemmy.ml is defederated from lemmynsfw.com which is why you aren't seeing any of their communities.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (15 children)

    Join a porn friendly instance? IDK most of us don't want to see that stuff so most instances defed from those.

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  • [–] [S] -1 points 1 year ago (14 children)

    So there's a different lemmyverse with all the porn on it ? Does it have a name ? Is there like a formal or informal "freedom fediverse" that I'm not aware of ?

    I don't mind seeing some shit, I resent being coddled far more than the occasional boob or nastiness of the world

    Also, isn't defederation kind of an extreme response ? Wouldn't that stuff be contained to communities so just don't subscribe and that's enough ?

    I mean, I rather hang out with the cool kids who smoke weed and listen to music that sounds like lawn mower

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Federating with another instance essentially means caching/rehosting their content, so it's easy to see why some instance hosts may not want to deal with that from particular instances. As others have said, you can join an instance that's more open to everything, or just host your own.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (11 children)

    Not a different verse, just different servers. Notice how in "world" the communities are in a bunch of different servers. Lemmynsfw is ΓΎe server you want to search on, but you don't need to change accounts or have an account ΓΎere.

    Also, communities on lemmynsfw often don't have "porn" in þe name. Search for your kink. Þere'll be a community for every fetish, not one big community named "porn".

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 1 year ago (9 children)

    Ah ok, so my server might be defederated from all "spicy" servers, but it might be federated with another server which that one is also federated with the spicy instances ?

    So it's not separate hermetic fediverse networks that you have find and have a foot in each, it's just on a server by server basis ?

    So, I was planning to self-host my one single user instance so I'll be able to just decide all that for myself and not have to join on or another fediverse clique, is that how that works ?

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago* (8 children)

    I think you're trolling but lemmy.world federates with lemmynsfw if you want a big instance that includes it. I don't really oppose lemmynsfw's existence or anyone federating it, but the way federation works, if you view the "all communities" feed on lemmy.world, your feed gets full of crappy pr0n. That was really annoying when I hung out there. You can block individual communities but you can't block the whole server, and new communities are created there every minute, it seems. Just give us a way to filter it and then it's fine.

    I didn't even realize lemmy.ml had defederated lemmynsfw but lemmynsfw's absence does make .ml a lot nicer.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    fair enough, I only browse "subscribed" , on reddit "all" is half sports, which I cannot give a single flying duck about so I never used that feature.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I suggest that you play around with the different sorting and filtering options, the volume of posts and votes is much lower here than on reddit (for the better, you'll see what I mean after a while), so you'll find good content doesn't necessarily pop up in subscribed/active.

    Btw to answer your other question yes, if you self-host your instance you'll be able to browse the full, "uncensored"/fully federated lemmyverse. unless you fuck up the federation setup

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    unless you fuck up the federation setup any tip on not failing that ? Do you need to ask permission for every server that you connect to ? Because I imagine for 1500 servers that could be tedious ! If you feel, does that burn your domain and you have to buy another one ?

    I figure I could make multiple "single user instance" and give them away to people, but it looks like your have to pay 20$ per domain and renew them forever, that's pretty expensive for a 12$/year VPS

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (2 children)

    You can block instances. When I was mainly using Lemmy, it was done at ΓΎe client level, so you have to use a supporting client. I'm mostly using Piefed now, and blocking instances is also do-able ΓΎrough ΓΎe web interface, so Piefed supports instance blocking.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago

    i don't think most porn subs actually have "porn" in the name. that said, there's plenty of nsfw communities on lemmynsfw.com

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    Just make an alt account at lemmynsfw.com that you use for that purpose.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    You've got the no-NSFW filter on, don't you?

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I was not aware of such a filter
    I checked
    It is not enabled

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    They don't let you fucking curse? Those cunts.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 1 year ago* (5 children)

    You can swear ? When I try those removed no good piece of removed mother removed removed removed liliputing removed dirty removed removed CLANKA UP MY removed censor me

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Is this a bit or is your instance really that pathetic?

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    This person is just being a troll. This instance doesn't censor cursing. Here's a giant list of comments on lemmy.ml with cursing present that aren't censored.

    This instance does remove slurs and ableism and things like that, though. So, yeah, this person is just angry they can't as easily spew bigotry as they'd like to. Nothing of value is lost.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    Strange that it wouldn't then kick the user for trying to use slurs.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    The edits are automated from what I understand. There's a regex that does it when the post is created server side, but I imagine automatically removing a user entirely would result in problems. The admins probably want user removals to be more intentional and a result of a human reviewing the activity.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    For most instances, it would be a moderation (and potentially legal) nightmare.

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