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[–] 43 points 1 year ago

The overt commodification of literally everything coupled with a general population struggling to make ends meet.

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  • [+] 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 child)
  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    Humanity is not as refined as people pretend they are. At the end of the day, a large majority of what we do is directly or indirectly about getting laid.

    Men workout to make themselves more attractive. They take jobs that pay well to make themselves more attractive, they go to schools to get better jobs to make themselves more attractive.

    Women spend time on fitness, makeup, fashion, and education to try to find a better partner.

    It's not all about sex, but a lot of it is. It's biologically wired into us so we reproduce.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I know a few girls who made one, and it didnt do particularly well, so after a couple months or a year or two they deleted them and any mention of them, got a new friend group and swapped cities, and are now dating ppl again. Out of the 4 that I still know/follow on social media that come to mind, 3 have been in relationships for over a year at least and 2 swapped to like clean conservative girl aesthetics.

    Kinda of an interesting pipeline, a lot of them think theyll blow up fast and overestimate themselves, don't work for it or realize its mostly/only ppl they know secretly buying their stuff and get creeped out. They don't realize its a job and unless they already have social media fame it wont work out, so a lot of girls literally try to blow up just to makw retirement onlyfans money.

    End of they day some of them do make a shit ton of money if it suceeds, like go retire in a high income area away and just say you do remote work . its easy enough to change your appearence by just aging, haircut, makeup, etc. and not being in the public for a while. They can just move states/towns, etc. if it's an issue. Like look at ppls sub costs, then look at their subscribers, some of them make 6 figures monthly, if you thought you could wouldn't you?

    I would, my future kids could have trauma, because now we can afford therapists lmao.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    It's an easy way to make money at home.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    It's really not. The vast majority of women on only fans never make any money at all and incur significant costs associated with scrubbing profiles / moving / dissociating from their OF profiles. It's a trap for women and it's why some countries have outlawed the site entirely.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago

    People are losing touch with reality

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I think it's mostly the boobies.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago*

    Honestly it's more a question of why people like camgirls (over the old, professional porn offerings). The business has grown because it's popular.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    The porn industry, like many industries, is very exploitative of those who do the actual work.

    A lot of the other replies here are very cynical about simps, loneliness, etc but a much more optimistic view of it is adult performers gaining complete control over their careers. They get to decide their own schedules, exactly what kind of content they want to make, keep (almost) all of the money that their content generates, and maintain ownership of their content.

    There’s a documentary called “Rise of OnlyFans” that was pretty shittily produced, but I learned some pretty wild things from the interviews in it, e.g. when they did a shoot for a normal porn studio, they would only get paid $100 FLAT for a video that would take several hours to make. Like yeah, that’s more than minimum wage, but they’re certainly not shooting every day and that’s peanuts compared to what the video generates in revenue

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    The male loneliness epidemic perhaps?

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  • [+] -10 points 1 year ago (4 children)
    	 		Hey! I noticed you used an emoji. 		 		 	
    

    I don’t know if you’re new here, so I’ll let you off the hook this time. Using emojis is frowned upon here on this great site, and for good reason. Instagram normies often use them, and you don’t want to be a normie, do you?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Does no one realize that this is pasta?

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    Capitalism.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    Weird how women taking advantage of vulnerable men is a honorable and powerful act. Wonder what would happen if men took advantage of vulnerable women, jail probably.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago

    I get the downvotes, but it's not wrong. You don't even have to go to OF, i can't even watch women who stream video games, because these people are unhinged and not well. And a lot of them obviously play into it, just look at the framing of male vs female streamers. It is not an accident that there is a lot of cleavage in the frame. You can go even a step further. I used to play a lot of Team Fortress 2, usually on community servers where i knew people, and a lot of people talked. It was like 40% regulars and 60% randoms. When one of the girls spoke, you vould suddenly feel the air changing in the server. Suddenly they got all sweaty and started to fully m'lady. I once changed my steam name to something that could be interpreted as being a male or female name. I suddenly got friend requests and people gifting me items that are worth real world money. This never happened in the other 4000 hours of me playing the game.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Money.

    I just want to complain about how every single NSFW community on Lemmy is essentially a giant advertisement for Onlyfans. Every single OP who posts pictures/videos has a giant link to their Onlyfans in their profile. It's such garbage. I've seen people censor their photos here as an obvious bait plot to drive traffic to their uncensored onlyfans. Unfortunately the mods of these communities don't seem to give a fuck.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Are there rules against professionals posting in those forums?

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    Nope. But I think it makes the communities feel fake and un-authentic. As I mentioned, certain pictures/videos are clearly designed to drive traffic to their onlyfans. It becomes about money rather than passion. Totally not sexy at all. Also many of these people aren't even the ones posting. They have agents do it for them.

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  • [+] -18 points 1 year ago*

    Financial struggle/discomfort + no morality nor ideology besides "I gotta get the bag" = selling drugs or selling your body. There's no OF boom in Palestine and those people have it truly hard...

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