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[–] 84 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I have participated in probably over a hundred orgies and gang bangs over the years. Each one we opted to attend, besides the STD tests, had clear rules of conduct, consent, hygiene, etc. If only ten men are invited to participate, then that's the rule. If you signed up to watch, you just watch, etc. These are not difficult concepts, but some people can't abide and then have the nerve to he upset when they are thrown out.

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  • [–] 151 points 1 week ago (17 children)

    That's literally how consent works. Like seriously if i go free use to all, but there's this one fella that i just dont like and decide no entry for him, he gets no entry. Ill take it cnc style from every man woman and them that can find me, but that guy slips it in just once it's rape. Simple as.

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  • [–] 41 points 1 week ago (11 children)

    cnc style

    This is either some lingo I don't understand, or you're talking about being precision drilled?

    Which I guess makes some sense. But in my personal experience, I am a very low precision tool.

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  • [–] 45 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Consensual non-consent. Meaning that a person agrees to do things they might not want to do or involve being forced to do or experience. This would be negotiated ahead of time. And there would still be ways to remove consent through specific criteria like safe-words.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Consensual non-consent. My understanding its role-playing SA but probably more nuanced than that.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    That's the gist and all us normies really need to understand about it.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago*

    The biggest part to remember is consensual, as the other commenter points out, if you're into "free use" but decide one specific person is a no, that's a firm no for that person and no explanations are necessary. In safe "lifestyle" communities consent is individual and revocable at any time.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    To be fair, it would probably not be okay for someone unwanted to enter this person while they were precision drilling.

    For some reason an old music video for a Benny Benassi song comes to mind ...

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  • [–] 37 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    That was my experience last night (but I had to say no to the guy 4 times)

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Fucking hell, I'm sorry you went through that. I hope he's not allowed at future events

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  • [–] 34 points 1 week ago* (3 children)

    You already agreed to give me money, why can't I take all your things? /s

    Honestly the idea of consentual agreement really evade some people?

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    A disturbing number of people don't understand consent and have no respect for the agency of others.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    I'm not going to form an opinion on this case until it is concluded. I don't have enough information and I don't want to be ragebaited or trolled into either side. I'm going to wear my ignorance on my sleeve and also just say I got too much going on in my life to even find the mental bandwidth to fit this into my head anyways.

    I think more people should just say this and confess ignorance. Not form an opinion on something because you feel you have to. You don't have to.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago

    This conversation is stupid. Rape is when sexual acts are performed and one of the individuals included in those acts did not consent. Everything else is idiocy.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    I'm getting lost in all the straw men, shitposts, trolls and stupid metaphors. Hard to tell which is which these days.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    It's like all of social media is in middle school.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    This is what happens when you don’t have regulation. If companies were forced to remove hate speech and moderate their content, things could be better.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago*

    It's also what happens when your culture promotes depression, entertainment addiction, perpetual debt and a host of other bad things under the guise Freedom! (meaning more profits). Things could be better if we were raised to admire actual achievements instead of inanity. You can ban hate speech but you can't ban depression, hatred or stupidity.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Yeah that'd still be 100,000,000 rapists

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  • [–] 18 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    I think making that statement should be enough to put Patrick on a list.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    Well, this would not be a problem if people would stop having sex and focus on what is important.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I mean, did we expect anything different from the guy who's entire reason for being known is doing a mediocre Napoleon Dynamite impression?

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