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[–] 151 points 1 week ago (17 children)

That's literally how consent works. Like seriously if i go free use to all, but there's this one fella that i just dont like and decide no entry for him, he gets no entry. Ill take it cnc style from every man woman and them that can find me, but that guy slips it in just once it's rape. Simple as.

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  • [–] 41 points 1 week ago (11 children)

    cnc style

    This is either some lingo I don't understand, or you're talking about being precision drilled?

    Which I guess makes some sense. But in my personal experience, I am a very low precision tool.

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  • [–] 45 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Consensual non-consent. Meaning that a person agrees to do things they might not want to do or involve being forced to do or experience. This would be negotiated ahead of time. And there would still be ways to remove consent through specific criteria like safe-words.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Consensual non-consent. My understanding its role-playing SA but probably more nuanced than that.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 days ago (1 child)

    That's the gist and all us normies really need to understand about it.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 days ago*

    The biggest part to remember is consensual, as the other commenter points out, if you're into "free use" but decide one specific person is a no, that's a firm no for that person and no explanations are necessary. In safe "lifestyle" communities consent is individual and revocable at any time.

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  • [–] 8 points 6 days ago (2 children)

    To be fair, it would probably not be okay for someone unwanted to enter this person while they were precision drilling.

    For some reason an old music video for a Benny Benassi song comes to mind ...

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  • [–] 37 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    That was my experience last night (but I had to say no to the guy 4 times)

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  • [–] 3 points 6 days ago (2 children)

    Fucking hell, I'm sorry you went through that. I hope he's not allowed at future events

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