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[–] 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Pffft, if he was there in person he could have pretended to trip and fall while approaching her, and then got a look and possibly a smell of those feet from inches away instead of taking a fuzzy 720p stream and zooming in until it's potato quality.

Big brain? No. Big fail. Didn't even mumble a "sorry for your loss" from the floor.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    Who the fuck live streams a funeral?

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Yooooooooo it's ya boy ClemDeLaCrem back again today we're doing a no-thermite Urn% speedrun, tryin' to get that sub-ten minute mark. Were using Song 2 for all three music slots and were going to try and take advantage of an exploit that allows the music to play during the sermon. Also we're limiting the deceased daughter's poetry choice to limericks. Let's gooooooo.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago

    we did a few years ago because my mother's family is spread throughout latin america and they couldn't afford to be there to say goodbye her.

    unfortunately for us, she had a bubbly personality that led her to being well liked by everyone she met so we were also not in a position to afford that many guests either.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago

    I've heard of this done. I've never watched the stream, but I've heard of it being done. Like the other person said, it's for those who can't be there.

    My wife and I actually live-streamed our wedding, but it was before smartphones, so what we did was, we both had our phones call out to different places, and they put us on speakerphone. We didn't have them on speaker, so if anyone said anything, it didn't interrupt the ceremony. But they got to hear us and everything that was said. I don't recall who my wife called, but I called my mother, who couldn't make it. I know she said they had like 25-30 people over just crowding around the phone listening.

    But yeah, funeral sad so why do the same? Again, I've only heard of the practice, never joined one live. It sounds weird but some people need that closure, and it sounds insensitive to do it remotely, but if that's all they got, apparently it's enough for some people. As a tech guy, I'd be honoured to assist in setting something like that up for someone. Only, I don't do social media, so I'd need them to set up the Twitch/whatever account, and then I should be able to handle things from there (run cameras, moderate comments, etc.). Also DJ the event if they want live music (some do, some don't — some people will just put on a playlist).

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

    Far too many men are far too thirsty for their own good.

    Now granted, I have been off the dating field for three-plus decades, now. But I clearly remember how my gonads made me one dumb and desperate mf. And plenty of guys never grow out of that phase in the first place.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    Its like the male coded equivalent of the mean nurse who never grew out of high school

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  • [–] 0 points 1 month ago*

    Except from what I have seen, most guys are like this well into their older years. Like, fifty-plus and even seventy-plus.

    It’s only a minority of men who get a solid grip on their drives and crank them down to where they don’t do or say spontaneously stupid shit. A healthy minority, fine. But still a minority.

    Honestly, if someone made a pill that could switch off all of those thought-nerfing impulses - in ways that don’t negatively affect mental, physical, or sexual development - we should be handing it out like candy to all guys who haven’t yet gotten married. Not only would it crater the unwanted pregnancy rate, but it would also likely crater the rate of unwise marriages, and therefore, first divorces.

    Downside: the rate of beta orbiters, and consequently, the amount of attention/money/resources women get, would also crater, due to women’s ability to manipulate men for their own benefit being absolutely nerfed to oblivion. There would likely be riots in the streets and clinics being burned down to re-establish all of those patriarchal benefits. I mean, women are already pulling out the social shaming with all of those wildly-unironic, double-bind “where are all the good men?” TikToks, but this would dial up that existential panic to society-wide levels.

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    [–] 40 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I don't get the logistics. Even assuming it's a 1080 stream, which is probably unlikely, the feet of a single person are just a few pixel. That's like watching porn on a C64, your imagination is doing almost all the work.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 month ago

    Each day I thank god for not making me a foot person.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 month ago (8 children)

    A funeral is a sacred thing.

    WHY WOULD YOU STREAM IT AND MAKE IT ABOUT YOU?!

    I would understand if it's a self-reflection and comfort after the event, but not during.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Like the other commentator said, if you’re on the other side of the world, old, infirm etc it gets you to the funeral. A lot of people, religious and otherwise, take a degree of comfort seeing the final journey be made by their friend, loved one or family, that all humans eventually take.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    I understand that, but the post above highlights that there needs to be discretion to such an invite.

    Placing it in a public space increases the risks of bad actors coming into stream and ruining the event for everyone. People have done such things for less.

    I would've forwarded the obituary through a private family group or messenger as opposes to a socmed.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Reminds me of when my Nana died. People who I have never seen before in my entire life all came out of the woodwork to gawk and take pictures of her corpse. I was beyond pissed off and my biggest regret is not slapping those camera out of their hands because I didn't want to cause a scene at a funeral. I wanted to say to them, "who the fuck are you and how dare you disrespect my grandmother like that!? I was there for her my entire life, where the fuck where you?"

    My mom told me it was a catholic thing to take pictures of the dead, but I don't give a shit about their shitty religion, especially if it encourages people to do selfish shit like this. If I could have done it all over again I would have definitely spoken up, but alas this was 14 years ago and I'll never see those people again...whoever the fuck they were...

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    I don't understand... Were you afraid the cameras would capture her soul?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    No, the problem is that their selfish asses made it about themselves. A funeral is not a place to gawk at and take pictures of a body while people are mourning, especially when you were never there for the person. If you can't understand how that's rude and disrespectful then I don't know what to tell you.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Some people have friends all over the world that cant make the journey.

    Recently had this for a family funeral, 40/50 people from South Africa asked if it could be live-streamed. The immediate family didnt like the idea, but i can appreciate why they asked.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    What sticks out to me is why were they streaming a funeral

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